The Official Thread of Relationships

[Elenion he/him]

@Arraenae If it's something like prom where girls don't ask guys, but you want a particular guy to ask you, just tell him that you would love it if he asked you. Give him a couple of days, and he'll come up with something. Works with almost every guy, and he'll thank you because of it.

19 minutes ago, Shqueeves said:

And, we (or at the very least, I) find it to be refreshing when a girl asks us out

Seconded. Especially if the girl already has something in mind; I'm always low on ideas for good dates.

[Erunion he/him]

@Arraenae - what @Elenion said. If you don't feel comfortable asking him out, tell him 'you know, I think I'd really like it if you asked me to prom' with a smile, and, if you can pull it off, a wink. 

 

Guys are terrible at hints. Teenagers are worse than most. Make it obvious, spell it out, but make it fun. 

[Silverblade5 he/him]

That feeling when you forget the day's date, then realize it was a certain persons b-day,,,

[Curious Anamaximder he/him]

Never thought this thread would get as big as it is. 

[Delightful]

30 minutes ago, Curious Anamaximder said:

Never thought this thread would get as big as it is. 

WE WILL EXPLOIT EVERYTHING! MUAHAHAHA

Edited January 31, 2017 by Deliiiiiightful
Expand. I meant expand. *whistles innocently*

[Oversleep]

1 minute ago, Deliiiiiightful said:

WE WILL EXPLOIT EVERYTHING!

Nothing is safe, everything is hackable.

[TwiLyghtSansSparkles she/her]

15 minutes ago, Oversleep said:

Nothing is safe, everything is hackable.

Reality is an illusion the universe is a hologram BUY GOLD BYYYYE!

[Silverblade5 he/him]

2 hours ago, Silverblade5 said:

That feeling when you forget the day's date, then realize it was a certain persons b-day,,,

Annnnnd I'm single from this happening yesterday 

[Erunion he/him]

4 minutes ago, Silverblade5 said:

Annnnnd I'm single from this happening yesterday 

/hug

 

ouch dude. 

 

If its any consolation, if they're breaking up with you over a mistake, then you probably shouldn't have been together in the first place. That relationship would not have lasted. 

 

Nevertheless, you're probably feeling like you've been left in damnation. 

Have a hug, and find yourself a shoulder to cry on. 

Close friends/siblings recommended. 

[TwiLyghtSansSparkles she/her]

10 minutes ago, Silverblade5 said:

Annnnnd I'm single from this happening yesterday 

I'm sorry.

[Silverblade5 he/him]

2 hours ago, Erunion said:

/hug

 

ouch dude. 

 

If its any consolation, if they're breaking up with you over a mistake, then you probably shouldn't have been together in the first place. That relationship would not have lasted. 

 

Nevertheless, you're probably feeling like you've been left in damnation. 

Have a hug, and find yourself a shoulder to cry on. 

Close friends/siblings recommended. 

Not single mistake, more straw that broke the chasmfiend's back. This happening AFTER a discussion of me making her a bigger priority. Strangely, I'm not feeling much different 6 hours later 

[marsoupial they/them]

4 hours ago, Silverblade5 said:

Annnnnd I'm single from this happening yesterday 

*hugs*

[Shqueeves]

1 hour ago, Silverblade5 said:

Not single mistake, more straw that broke the chasmfiend's back. This happening AFTER a discussion of me making her a bigger priority. Strangely, I'm not feeling much different 6 hours later 

How were you feeling 6 hours ago? 

[Silverblade5 he/him]

2 hours ago, Shqueeves said:

How were you feeling 6 hours ago? 

Like I needed to get to class and pay attention. Like it was just another day. 

[Arraenae]

That sounds pretty bad, Silverblade. Do you want a hug?

I'm really not looking for a partner now. Not much time, don't really want to spend the effort. I have enough on my plate as it is.

[Mistrunner]

I really want a partner. Someone who will go for long walks with me and always be there and love me unconditionally.

A dog, is what I mean. I really want a dog.

[StrikerEZ he/him]

I have an SO, but my parents are really religious and have banned me from seeing him; however, they don't know he's my SO. Just that they don't want me hanging out with him or texting him. Of course, we still sit together before school and at lunch...but I always feel like we don't really get to be around each other enough...and I'm always afraid my parents will find out. I really like him, but I don't know if the benefits outweigh the risks here....

[Shqueeves]

29 minutes ago, Mistrunner said:

I really want a partner. Someone who will go for long walks with me and always be there and love me unconditionally.

A dog, is what I mean. I really want a dog.

*cat

 

12 minutes ago, StrikerEZ said:

I have an SO, but my parents are really religious and have banned me from seeing him; however, they don't know he's my SO. Just that they don't want me hanging out with him or texting him. Of course, we still sit together before school and at lunch...but I always feel like we don't really get to be around each other enough...and I'm always afraid my parents will find out. I really like him, but I don't know if the benefits outweigh the risks here....

SO?

[Ecthelion III he/him]

Just now, Shqueeves said:

SO?

Significant Other

[Silverblade5 he/him]

9 minutes ago, Shqueeves said:

*cat

Heathen

[Shqueeves]

3 minutes ago, Silverblade5 said:

Heathen

Cats > dogs

[TwiLyghtSansSparkles she/her]

38 minutes ago, Mistrunner said:

I really want a partner. Someone who will go for long walks with me and always be there and love me unconditionally.

A dog, is what I mean. I really want a dog.

I wholeheartedly approve of this. Get one with a smushy face, if you can.  

21 minutes ago, StrikerEZ said:

I have an SO, but my parents are really religious and have banned me from seeing him; however, they don't know he's my SO. Just that they don't want me hanging out with him or texting him. Of course, we still sit together before school and at lunch...but I always feel like we don't really get to be around each other enough...and I'm always afraid my parents will find out. I really like him, but I don't know if the benefits outweigh the risks here....

I can definitely sympathize.  What you do here is ultimately up to you, since you know your parents and the situation better than I do, but if you want my two cents: If your parents are the sort to freak out over two guys dating each other, and then find out that you are dating not only another guy, but a guy they told you specifically not to see, then things are going to be much worse for you than they would have been if you and this guy were just friends.  If you're still dependent on your parents, then the risks almost certainly outweigh the benefits. Rebellion is always a risk, but it should be a calculated one. 

[Silverblade5 he/him]

8 minutes ago, Shqueeves said:

Cats > dogs

Dogs will love you unconditionally and can actually be helpful.  Cats only love your resources 

[Shqueeves]

Just now, Silverblade5 said:

Dogs will love you unconditionally and can actually be helpful.  Cats only love your resources 

I've yet to see a cat that didn't like me. I've had plenty of dogs dislike me. 

That being said, I do like dogs. I just like cats better

[StrikerEZ he/him]

46 minutes ago, TwiLyghtSansSparkles said:

I can definitely sympathize.  What you do here is ultimately up to you, since you know your parents and the situation better than I do, but if you want my two cents: If your parents are the sort to freak out over two guys dating each other, and then find out that you are dating not only another guy, but a guy they told you specifically not to see, then things are going to be much worse for you than they would have been if you and this guy were just friends.  If you're still dependent on your parents, then the risks almost certainly outweigh the benefits. Rebellion is always a risk, but it should be a calculated one. 

Yeah, I was thinking along those lines. It's just...I can't imagine my life without him being a major role in it. Well, no, I can. I just don't like the idea of it. At the same time, we're still young.