Having a Bad Day?: Get 'yer Hugs here!!

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

14 hours ago, BlueWildRye said:

Take my hugs and my rep!

I rarely see my friends either but that's more my own fault.

11 hours ago, Slowswift said:

*mails hugbot*

Thanks y'all. 

3 hours ago, Vyzkel Willbender said:

I was gonna say some advice, and then I realized that sometimes people just need consolation so… you can know that you are loved and appreciated here.

You're good. Thanks dude 

[Nathrangking he/him]

On 5/28/2024 at 6:35 PM, Just a Silvereye said:

My school has changed its mind again. Two of the retake finals was supposed to be homeworks, but the teacher responsible for our section has opposed it at the last minute. Now, I've got two homeworks for next week and also two exams in two weeks, well after the other exams.

This is only the last dumb thing we've had to deal with recently. I'm starting to feel like they want me to fail. Which isn't completely wrong; apparently the other two classes in our section have been awful all year long, and one of the teachers admitted to us they'd* made the finals had been really hard because of that.

I'm getting tired of paying for the others on top of paying for me already. I'm away in an internship now, and I can't believe I still have to worry about their nonsense even then. And the prospect (more and more likely with everything I'm getting thrown at) of sending one more year there seems unbearable now.

 

*They as in the teachers as a whole, not just that individual teacher.

I'm a bit late I know. Nonetheless *hugs*. If you need to rant my Dm's are open.

16 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*sigh* Let's see...

Mental health ain't doing too hot.

Feelin' lonely.

No motivation to get up in the morning (so i've been getting up in the afternoons instead)

Groggy the rest of the day because of doing this^.

Tired of being yelled at by my mom for just existing, so I go to my room to draw only to find out my apps aren't working and I probably won't be able to draw on a computer for another two months, so I try to see if I can fix them but then I get yelled at for "not spending time with my family," even though they're the last people I want to see right now and being around them only makes me more depressed.

Mom is a huge introvert who doesn't believe in letting her kids see or text their friends for some reason, even though we're all extroverted, so that's nice.

Nobody in my family seems to care about my mental health except my aunt, but she lives six hours away and I can't contact her...

My bf has come over a couple times, but he's the only bright spot in my life right now.

Just been suffering in silence for the past eternity since school ended.

And it's only the second week of summer...

*sigh*

only seventy days 'til school starts and I can finally get out of here...

hugs would be appreciated...

*Hugs* 

[Just-A-Stick she/her]

17 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*sigh* Let's see...

Mental health ain't doing too hot.

Feelin' lonely.

No motivation to get up in the morning (so i've been getting up in the afternoons instead)

Groggy the rest of the day because of doing this^.

Tired of being yelled at by my mom for just existing, so I go to my room to draw only to find out my apps aren't working and I probably won't be able to draw on a computer for another two months, so I try to see if I can fix them but then I get yelled at for "not spending time with my family," even though they're the last people I want to see right now and being around them only makes me more depressed.

Mom is a huge introvert who doesn't believe in letting her kids see or text their friends for some reason, even though we're all extroverted, so that's nice.

Nobody in my family seems to care about my mental health except my aunt, but she lives six hours away and I can't contact her...

My bf has come over a couple times, but he's the only bright spot in my life right now.

Just been suffering in silence for the past eternity since school ended.

And it's only the second week of summer...

*sigh*

only seventy days 'til school starts and I can finally get out of here...

hugs would be appreciated...

*hugs (many of the large type)*

My PMs are always open if you want to talk.

We love you and we're here.

[kajsa ㅇㅅㅇ she/her]

hey

just feeling relatively down lately and VERY fatigued

i’m not sure why, especially because i’ve been getting plenty of sleep and eating healthy and drinking lots of water, but i’m still feeling exhausted consistently

sometimes i think it might be my depression, even though i mostly have it under control

it still creeps in some days, and maybe this is just part of it

its still frustrating though

also been struggling with some big mood swings and tbh it could just be girl hormone things

but anyway, does anyone have tips for beating fatigue and insomnia? i have a big trip coming up that i really want to make the most of

but feeling like this could make that hard, and i want to beat it lol

but yep

[Vyzkel He/Him]

44 minutes ago, Kajsa said:

hey

just feeling relatively down lately and VERY fatigued

i’m not sure why, especially because i’ve been getting plenty of sleep and eating healthy and drinking lots of water, but i’m still feeling exhausted consistently

sometimes i think it might be my depression, even though i mostly have it under control

it still creeps in some days, and maybe this is just part of it

its still frustrating though

also been struggling with some big mood swings and tbh it could just be girl hormone things

but anyway, does anyone have tips for beating fatigue and insomnia? i have a big trip coming up that i really want to make the most of

but feeling like this could make that hard, and i want to beat it lol

but yep

Sounds like an issue, I’d love to help so…

Spoiler

The beautiful MELATONIN, makes you sleep like a rock.

Also *hugs*

Edited June 5, 2024 by Vyzkel Willbender

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

2 hours ago, Kajsa said:

hey

just feeling relatively down lately and VERY fatigued

i’m not sure why, especially because i’ve been getting plenty of sleep and eating healthy and drinking lots of water, but i’m still feeling exhausted consistently

sometimes i think it might be my depression, even though i mostly have it under control

it still creeps in some days, and maybe this is just part of it

its still frustrating though

also been struggling with some big mood swings and tbh it could just be girl hormone things

but anyway, does anyone have tips for beating fatigue and insomnia? i have a big trip coming up that i really want to make the most of

but feeling like this could make that hard, and i want to beat it lol

but yep

*lots of hugs*

Feel you, girlie.

Honestly?

Spoiler

1. Hang out with your closest friends for a few hours in the afternoon and evening. Doing a fun activity with them and goofing off.

2. Listen to your favorite songs that describe how you're feeling. Maybe this is different for you/other people, but I find it helpful to listen to music that describes how I'm feeling. It's good to know that other people feel the way I do, y'know?

3. Drawing if you enjoy it. 

4. Y'know those times when you randomly wake up in the middle of the night? Eat some cheese when that happens. No, I'm not joking, it helps a lot (and it's scientifically proven, too!).

 

Edited June 5, 2024 by Through The Living Glass

[BlueWildRye he/him]

1 hour ago, Vyzkel Willbender said:

Sounds like an issue, I’d love to help so…

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The beautiful MELATONIN, makes you sleep like a rock.

Also *hugs*

MELATONIN, THE STICK MANDATED OFFICIAL MEDICINE FOR RESTLESS INDIVIDUALS SUCH AS MYSELF. 

"I AM A STICK."

"But you could be fire."

"YOU COULD TAKE MELATONIN."

*falls asleep because I took it about 30 minutes ago*

[Vyzkel He/Him]

28 minutes ago, BlueWildRye said:

MELATONIN, THE STICK MANDATED OFFICIAL MEDICINE FOR RESTLESS INDIVIDUALS SUCH AS MYSELF. 

"I AM A STICK."

"But you could be fire."

"YOU COULD TAKE MELATONIN."

*falls asleep because I took it about 30 minutes ago*

If you are easily offended don’t read this

Spoiler

Why have problems when you can use drugs!

 

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

On 5/29/2024 at 12:17 AM, Through The Living Glass said:

*hug*

*'nother hug*

 

10 hours ago, Nathrangking said:

I'm a bit late I know. Nonetheless *hugs*. If you need to rant my Dm's are open.

Thanks to you both.

Things are actually feeling better today, since I returned the homework yesterday at midnight (and it made me do most of the study I needed for the exam). 

 

On 6/4/2024 at 4:57 AM, Through The Living Glass said:

*sigh* Let's see...

Mental health ain't doing too hot.

Feelin' lonely.

No motivation to get up in the morning (so i've been getting up in the afternoons instead)

Groggy the rest of the day because of doing this^.

Tired of being yelled at by my mom for just existing, so I go to my room to draw only to find out my apps aren't working and I probably won't be able to draw on a computer for another two months, so I try to see if I can fix them but then I get yelled at for "not spending time with my family," even though they're the last people I want to see right now and being around them only makes me more depressed.

Mom is a huge introvert who doesn't believe in letting her kids see or text their friends for some reason, even though we're all extroverted, so that's nice.

Nobody in my family seems to care about my mental health except my aunt, but she lives six hours away and I can't contact her...

My bf has come over a couple times, but he's the only bright spot in my life right now.

Just been suffering in silence for the past eternity since school ended.

And it's only the second week of summer...

*sigh*

only seventy days 'til school starts and I can finally get out of here...

hugs would be appreciated...

*big, big hugs*

 

4 hours ago, Kajsa said:

hey

just feeling relatively down lately and VERY fatigued

i’m not sure why, especially because i’ve been getting plenty of sleep and eating healthy and drinking lots of water, but i’m still feeling exhausted consistently

sometimes i think it might be my depression, even though i mostly have it under control

it still creeps in some days, and maybe this is just part of it

its still frustrating though

also been struggling with some big mood swings and tbh it could just be girl hormone things

but anyway, does anyone have tips for beating fatigue and insomnia? i have a big trip coming up that i really want to make the most of

but feeling like this could make that hard, and i want to beat it lol

but yep

I feel like, for me at least, get yourself tired but in a good way in the day works best. Going on a long walk is usually the way to go for me, but I guess if you have friends you can also go hang out with them, as suggested by Through the Living Glass.

*hugs*

 

[kajsa ㅇㅅㅇ she/her]

7 hours ago, Just a Silvereye said:

 

Thanks to you both.

Things are actually feeling better today, since I returned the homework yesterday at midnight (and it made me do most of the study I needed for the exam). 

 

*big, big hugs*

 

I feel like, for me at least, get yourself tired but in a good way in the day works best. Going on a long walk is usually the way to go for me, but I guess if you have friends you can also go hang out with them, as suggested by Through the Living Glass.

*hugs*

 

 

9 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*lots of hugs*

Feel you, girlie.

Honestly?

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1. Hang out with your closest friends for a few hours in the afternoon and evening. Doing a fun activity with them and goofing off.

2. Listen to your favorite songs that describe how you're feeling. Maybe this is different for you/other people, but I find it helpful to listen to music that describes how I'm feeling. It's good to know that other people feel the way I do, y'know?

3. Drawing if you enjoy it. 

4. Y'know those times when you randomly wake up in the middle of the night? Eat some cheese when that happens. No, I'm not joking, it helps a lot (and it's scientifically proven, too!).

 

 

11 hours ago, Vyzkel Willbender said:

Sounds like an issue, I’d love to help so…

  Reveal hidden contents

The beautiful MELATONIN, makes you sleep like a rock.

Also *hugs*

thanks y’all.

my parents won’t let me take drugs for it, and it’s less of not being able to fall asleep at night and more just feeling like a zombie during the day hahaha. but i really appreciate the advice! thank you!

[Guest]

So I take art classes on the side because art is my hobby. My teacher is this lady who lives in my building and i thought she was this sweet, kind lady and I'd really started opening up to her. She'd started becoming a great source of comfort in my life. I thought, "finally, here is an adult I can trust, I can confide in"

Today i find out she's serverely homophobic. 

How am I supposed to attend classes with her, trust her, smile at her, when I know she'd hate me for existing if she knew the truth? 

It was my fault trusting an adult, they always have some agenda or something wrong about them. Well I'll be a legal adult soon myself, but it kind of saddens me that I've gone my entire childhood and teenage without having a a single adult who didn't let me down or take advantage of me or harm me. 

Edited June 8, 2024 by Elf

[BlueWildRye he/him]

1 hour ago, Elf said:

Well I'll be a legal adult soon myself, but it kind of saddens me that I've gone my entire childhood and teenage without having a a single adult who didn't let me down or take advantage of me or harm me. 

Your parents?

Also *hugs*

[Guest]

4 minutes ago, BlueWildRye said:

Your parents?

Also *hugs*

My parents were the worst of the lot. The first rule you learn in this house is that you never trust your parents because they will break you if they can. 

Thank you

[Nathrangking he/him]

3 hours ago, Elf said:

So I take art classes on the side because art is my hobby. My teacher is this lady who lives in my building and i thought she was this sweet, kind lady and I'd really started opening up to her. She'd started becoming a great source of comfort in my life. I thought, "finally, here is an adult I can trust, I can confide in"

Today i find out she's serverely homophobic. 

How am I supposed to attend classes with her, trust her, smile at her, when I know she'd hate me for existing if she knew the truth? 

It was my fault trusting an adult, they always have some agenda or something wrong about them. Well I'll be a legal adult soon myself, but it kind of saddens me that I've gone my entire childhood and teenage without having a a single adult who didn't let me down or take advantage of me or harm me. 

*Hugs*

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

4 hours ago, Elf said:

So I take art classes on the side because art is my hobby. My teacher is this lady who lives in my building and i thought she was this sweet, kind lady and I'd really started opening up to her. She'd started becoming a great source of comfort in my life. I thought, "finally, here is an adult I can trust, I can confide in"

Today i find out she's serverely homophobic. 

How am I supposed to attend classes with her, trust her, smile at her, when I know she'd hate me for existing if she knew the truth? 

It was my fault trusting an adult, they always have some agenda or something wrong about them. Well I'll be a legal adult soon myself, but it kind of saddens me that I've gone my entire childhood and teenage without having a a single adult who didn't let me down or take advantage of me or harm me. 

*hugs* That is so awful. I'm really sorry.

 

Also, little reminder: you are not wrong, unnatural, immoral, or anything for being who you are. You are not wrong, unnatural, immoral, or anything for being who you are.

It might be hard to remember that, especially if your entire environment screams you otherwise. But it's true.

*another hug for good measure*

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

On 6/8/2024 at 11:22 AM, Elf said:

So I take art classes on the side because art is my hobby. My teacher is this lady who lives in my building and i thought she was this sweet, kind lady and I'd really started opening up to her. She'd started becoming a great source of comfort in my life. I thought, "finally, here is an adult I can trust, I can confide in"

Today i find out she's serverely homophobic. 

How am I supposed to attend classes with her, trust her, smile at her, when I know she'd hate me for existing if she knew the truth? 

It was my fault trusting an adult, they always have some agenda or something wrong about them. Well I'll be a legal adult soon myself, but it kind of saddens me that I've gone my entire childhood and teenage without having a a single adult who didn't let me down or take advantage of me or harm me. 

*late hugs*

I'm so sorry...

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

I have received an email yesterday. 

While away in internship, one of my classmates suffered a fatal heart failure during a sports event.

And. You know, I just can't admit that he's gone... forever. It seems both like forever and yesterday that we were sitting next to each other, retaking our exams and complaining about the school.

I didn't know him enough, but he was such a kind and brilliant and cool guy and I wish I could tell him

And I just want to curl up in the corner and cry

BUT I CANT

Because the world is not ever giving me any minute to breathe 

My workplace is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My country is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My brain is in chaos since who knows when, and for who knows how much longer, and I don't know what I can do about that

And I still can't accept the fact that I'll come back to school next September and he won't be there

[+Slowswift]

40 minutes ago, Just a Silvereye said:

I have received an email yesterday. 

While away in internship, one of my classmates suffered a fatal heart failure during a sports event.

And. You know, I just can't admit that he's gone... forever. It seems both like forever and yesterday that we were sitting next to each other, retaking our exams and complaining about the school.

I didn't know him enough, but he was such a kind and brilliant and cool guy and I wish I could tell him

And I just want to curl up in the corner and cry

BUT I CANT

Because the world is not ever giving me any minute to breathe 

My workplace is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My country is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My brain is in chaos since who knows when, and for who knows how much longer, and I don't know what I can do about that

And I still can't accept the fact that I'll come back to school next September and he won't be there

That's awful. I'm so sorry. *hugs* 

[strmblsd he/him]

1 hour ago, Just a Silvereye said:

I have received an email yesterday. 

While away in internship, one of my classmates suffered a fatal heart failure during a sports event.

And. You know, I just can't admit that he's gone... forever. It seems both like forever and yesterday that we were sitting next to each other, retaking our exams and complaining about the school.

I didn't know him enough, but he was such a kind and brilliant and cool guy and I wish I could tell him

And I just want to curl up in the corner and cry

BUT I CANT

Because the world is not ever giving me any minute to breathe 

My workplace is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My country is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My brain is in chaos since who knows when, and for who knows how much longer, and I don't know what I can do about that

And I still can't accept the fact that I'll come back to school next September and he won't be there

Wow.... I am so sorry.. *hugs very tight*

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

On 6/27/2024 at 10:52 AM, Just a Silvereye said:

I have received an email yesterday. 

While away in internship, one of my classmates suffered a fatal heart failure during a sports event.

And. You know, I just can't admit that he's gone... forever. It seems both like forever and yesterday that we were sitting next to each other, retaking our exams and complaining about the school.

I didn't know him enough, but he was such a kind and brilliant and cool guy and I wish I could tell him

And I just want to curl up in the corner and cry

BUT I CANT

Because the world is not ever giving me any minute to breathe 

My workplace is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My country is in chaos for the foreseeable future and there's not much I can do about that except watch in disbelief

My brain is in chaos since who knows when, and for who knows how much longer, and I don't know what I can do about that

And I still can't accept the fact that I'll come back to school next September and he won't be there

I know I'm late but... *hugs*

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

On 6/27/2024 at 7:37 PM, Slowswift said:

That's awful. I'm so sorry. *hugs* 

 

On 6/27/2024 at 8:07 PM, strmblsd said:

Wow.... I am so sorry.. *hugs very tight*

 

22 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said:

I know I'm late but... *hugs*

Thank you all so much *hugs back everyone*

[strmblsd he/him]

Ok this is gunna sound stupid... I overthink everything especially when I'm bored.. I'm always bored.. overthinking causes me to have stress and anxiety and those make me feel like I'm gonna throw up.. I feel absolutely horrible rn... I'm overthinking talking to a girl.. relationships with my friends.. everything 

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

18 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

Ok this is gunna sound stupid... I overthink everything especially when I'm bored.. I'm always bored.. overthinking causes me to have stress and anxiety and those make me feel like I'm gonna throw up.. I feel absolutely horrible rn... I'm overthinking talking to a girl.. relationships with my friends.. everything 

*huge hugs*

[BlueWildRye he/him]

49 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

Ok this is gunna sound stupid... I overthink everything especially when I'm bored.. I'm always bored.. overthinking causes me to have stress and anxiety and those make me feel like I'm gonna throw up.. I feel absolutely horrible rn... I'm overthinking talking to a girl.. relationships with my friends.. everything 

I overthink so much that when it actually comes to making decisions I don't make any because I was too busy thinking!

Feel ya mate *hugs*

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

12 hours ago, strmblsd said:

Ok this is gunna sound stupid... I overthink everything especially when I'm bored.. I'm always bored.. overthinking causes me to have stress and anxiety and those make me feel like I'm gonna throw up.. I feel absolutely horrible rn... I'm overthinking talking to a girl.. relationships with my friends.. everything 

Yeah. I get that.

*hugs*