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[Jaywalk he/him]

Just...life. I don’t know how to put it any other way.

[Zephrun’s Imperium they/he]

Just now, Jaywalk said:

Just...life. I don’t know how to put it any other way.

*hugs* I’m sorry, Jay. Things are certainly really weird right now, aren’t they? 

[Mist she/her]

Just now, Jaywalk said:

Just...life. I don’t know how to put it any other way.

I'm sorry. *hugs* You are amazing. Even when life is being difficult, as is typical, you can do it. 

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

I do theatre at my high school, and we were going to have 2 amazing shows this year, but our fall show (in which I was a chinese man--don't ask why) was cancelled. We may be able to do it in June, but we really have no guarantee, and though theatre is the cause of a lot of my stress, it also relieves my stress. Being around other theatre people makes me feel like I belong, and they're all my best friends, but doing a show together is what brings us super close, and I don't want to wait until spring to do that! Please send hugs, I have shed tears on this many times.

[+Slowswift]

*mails hugbots to Jaywalk and DramaQueen*

[Nathrangking he/him]

8 minutes ago, Jaywalk said:

Just...life. I don’t know how to put it any other way.

*Hugs* If you need to vent feel free to DM me I'm  here to listen.

2 minutes ago, DramaQueen said:

I do theatre at my high school, and we were going to have 2 amazing shows this year, but our fall show (in which I was a chinese man--don't ask why) was cancelled. We may be able to do it in June, but we really have no guarantee, and though theatre is the cause of a lot of my stress, it also relieves my stress. Being around other theatre people makes me feel like I belong, and they're all my best friends, but doing a show together is what brings us super close, and I don't want to wait until spring to do that! Please send hugs, I have shed tears on this many times.

*Hugs* We can't replace that outlet. However, we are here for you. If you need to vent feel free to DM me I'm  here to listen.

[Mist she/her]

10 minutes ago, DramaQueen said:

I do theatre at my high school, and we were going to have 2 amazing shows this year, but our fall show (in which I was a chinese man--don't ask why) was cancelled. We may be able to do it in June, but we really have no guarantee, and though theatre is the cause of a lot of my stress, it also relieves my stress. Being around other theatre people makes me feel like I belong, and they're all my best friends, but doing a show together is what brings us super close, and I don't want to wait until spring to do that! Please send hugs, I have shed tears on this many times.

*hugs*

[Jaywalk he/him]

1 hour ago, Shard of Thought said:

*hugs* I’m sorry, Jay. Things are certainly really weird right now, aren’t they? 

Life is in flux. It gives me so much stress to lose control over what I had control over before

1 hour ago, Mist said:

I'm sorry. *hugs* You are amazing. Even when life is being difficult, as is typical, you can do it. 

58 minutes ago, Slowswift said:

*mails hugbots to Jaywalk and DramaQueen*

Thanks, you guys. (and @Nathrangking) It’s appreciated.

1 hour ago, DramaQueen said:

I do theatre at my high school, and we were going to have 2 amazing shows this year, but our fall show (in which I was a chinese man--don't ask why) was cancelled. We may be able to do it in June, but we really have no guarantee, and though theatre is the cause of a lot of my stress, it also relieves my stress. Being around other theatre people makes me feel like I belong, and they're all my best friends, but doing a show together is what brings us super close, and I don't want to wait until spring to do that! Please send hugs, I have shed tears on this many times.

All the hugs. We’re not all alone in what we’re dealing with, but the state of the world right now makes it feel like we are. Don’t be afraid to reach out to one of us if you need a pep talk, or even just to rant. We’re here for you.

[Emi she/her]

Ugh, I have today my often mood, when I think that actually nobody likes me, nobody never liked me and nobody will never ever like me. 

I mean, people don’t hate me. They tolerate me. But I’m not really sure how many of people’s in my life really liked me.  

The first person, with which I thought we were best friends actually invited me on her birthday like 2-3 times. Then my second friend actually used me and was literally saying that I’m worse than her in everything.
 

After that, pretty recently I realized that 2 of people, which I always called friends and really liked them since preschool, got better friends and I became the 3rd wheel. Like always. 

When I joined here, I realized that people are nice to me. That was a really big shook to me as no one never was nice to me, unless I was trying to be nice for him several times.

Well, even if I have a bad day, I still want to thank you guys for being such an awesome, great and incredible people. 

[Zephrun’s Imperium they/he]

5 minutes ago, Emi said:

Ugh, I have today my often mood, when I think that actually nobody likes me, nobody never liked me and nobody will never ever like me. 

I mean, people don’t hate me. They tolerate me. But I’m not really sure how many of people’s in my life really liked me.  

The first person, with which I thought we were best friends actually invited me on her birthday like 2-3 times. Then my second friend actually used me and was literally saying that I’m worse than her in everything.
 

After that, pretty recently I realized that 2 of people, which I always called friends and really liked them since preschool, got better friends and I became the 3rd wheel. Like always. 

When I joined here, I realized that people are nice to me. That was a really big shook to me as no one never was nice to me, unless I was trying to be nice for him several times.

Well, even if I have a bad day, I still want to thank you guys for being such an awesome, great and incredible people. 

*hugs* I totally understand being used by a friend you thought was really good to you. It hurts. It really, really hurts. I also understand being the third wheel. That's never a good feeling. But believing that nobody likes you is a mistake. I don't know your life, I can't point you to exactly who, but I can promise you with pretty stone hard certainty that there are plenty of people who really care for you with all they have. And I'm so glad you have the Shard as an out for that. This place really is exceptional. 

[Emi she/her]

2 minutes ago, Shard of Thought said:

*hugs* I totally understand being used by a friend you thought was really good to you. It hurts. It really, really hurts. I also understand being the third wheel. That's never a good feeling. But believing that nobody likes you is a mistake. I don't know your life, I can't point you to exactly who, but I can promise you with pretty stone hard certainty that there are plenty of people who really care for you with all they have. And I'm so glad you have the Shard as an out for that. This place really is exceptional. 

Thank you! 

[Mist she/her]

8 minutes ago, Emi said:

Ugh, I have today my often mood, when I think that actually nobody likes me, nobody never liked me and nobody will never ever like me. 

I mean, people don’t hate me. They tolerate me. But I’m not really sure how many of people’s in my life really liked me.  

The first person, with which I thought we were best friends actually invited me on her birthday like 2-3 times. Then my second friend actually used me and was literally saying that I’m worse than her in everything.
 

After that, pretty recently I realized that 2 of people, which I always called friends and really liked them since preschool, got better friends and I became the 3rd wheel. Like always. 

When I joined here, I realized that people are nice to me. That was a really big shook to me as no one never was nice to me, unless I was trying to be nice for him several times.

Well, even if I have a bad day, I still want to thank you guys for being such an awesome, great and incredible people. 

*hugs*

You're awesome, Emi. You're really fun to see and talk to. 

[Emi she/her]

2 minutes ago, Mist said:

*hugs*

You're awesome, Emi. You're really fun to see and talk to. 

*facepalm* how could I ever had doubts that I’m boring for you and you don’t want to see me?

(and believe me there was such a moment)

Thank you all! 

[Nathrangking he/him]

14 minutes ago, Emi said:

Ugh, I have today my often mood, when I think that actually nobody likes me, nobody never liked me and nobody will never ever like me. 

I mean, people don’t hate me. They tolerate me. But I’m not really sure how many of people’s in my life really liked me.  

The first person, with which I thought we were best friends actually invited me on her birthday like 2-3 times. Then my second friend actually used me and was literally saying that I’m worse than her in everything.
 

After that, pretty recently I realized that 2 of people, which I always called friends and really liked them since preschool, got better friends and I became the 3rd wheel. Like always. 

When I joined here, I realized that people are nice to me. That was a really big shook to me as no one never was nice to me, unless I was trying to be nice for him several times.

Well, even if I have a bad day, I still want to thank you guys for being such an awesome, great and incredible people. 

*Hugs.* I know that feeling so well and it hurts like a trip to Braize!! I wish I could say that that feeling will just disappear. However know as @Shard of Thought though we don't know who they are there are people in your life who do care about you. You are awesome Emi!! That I would say is pretty hard to dispute! We are here for you if you need to vent we are here. Drop me a DM if you need a sounding board to just let loose your frustration! 

[Emi she/her]

1 minute ago, Nathrangking said:

 Drop me a DM if you need a sounding board to just let loose your frustration! 

DM?

Edited July 22, 2020 by Emi

[Nathrangking he/him]

Just now, Emi said:

DM?

A direct message sent through the messaging option. 

[Emi she/her]

Just now, Nathrangking said:

A direct message sent through the messaging option. 

Aah!

[Truthless of Shinovar he/him]

Oh man. Life. It happens sometimes. Today was one of those days.

Edited July 25, 2020 by Truthless of Shinovar

[Mist she/her]

Just now, Truthless of Shinovar said:

Oh man. Life. It happens sometimes.

*hugs* You can do it, even though life is often hard. I'm happy to listen.

[Truthless of Shinovar he/him]

8 minutes ago, Mist said:

*hugs* You can do it, even though life is often hard. I'm happy to listen.

Thanks Mist It’s just been a busy day, I’ve felt a bit overwhelmed, especially with work, but I think I’m doing better now. Tomorrow’s a new day, so I’ve got hope.

Edited July 25, 2020 by Truthless of Shinovar

[Mist she/her]

14 minutes ago, Truthless of Shinovar said:

Thanks Mist It’s just been a busy day, I’ve felt a bit overwhelmed, especially with work, but I think I’m doing better now. Tomorrow’s a new day, so I’ve got hope.

I'm glad you're doing better. We all know and have those days. I hope tomorrow is better.

[Jaywalk he/him]

11 hours ago, Truthless of Shinovar said:

Oh man. Life. It happens sometimes. Today was one of those days.

I feel that, man. I’m barely keeping my head above water myself. Good luck with everything.

[Mist she/her]

34 minutes ago, Jaywalk said:

I feel that, man. I’m barely keeping my head above water myself. Good luck with everything.

Good luck to you too. You can do it!

[AonEne he/him]

I can’t get a storming leaf out of my head. 

I was walking around outside with my therapist, and there was a leaf on the ground, and I should have stepped on it, but I didn’t. And now I just remembered it and buckled inward a little bit with how the memory hit me. The whole point of the walk was to ignore stuff, I managed everything else, nothing else is coming back to haunt me, I didn’t fret over anything else for a whole lap around a bunch of buildings, but this one rusting freaking leaf...ugh. I could write more, but now I’m just tired. It doesn’t deserve my energy. 

Does anyone have a cute animal? 

[Mist she/her]

2 minutes ago, AonEne said:

Does anyone have a cute animal? 

*hugs*