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20 minutes ago, Wierdo said:

*pat pat* It'll happen eventually

 

16 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

dangit I feel kinda bad

mm i'll just hug you

*hugs*

just because you don't have anyone now doesn't mean you'll be lonely forever

it's okay

I know I will

it just takes time.

and watching all my friends fall in love.

and knowing that I don't get close to people, and so it'll be way harder for me

but that's fine

i know i'll get there

and I can hold on until then

Posted
On 7/28/2024 at 11:43 PM, Edema Rue said:

 

it's okay

I know I will

it just takes time.

and watching all my friends fall in love.

and knowing that I don't get close to people, and so it'll be way harder for me

but that's fine

i know i'll get there

and I can hold on until then

why and how do you make everything sound so storming poetic

Posted
40 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

why and how do you make everything sound so storming poetic

Spoiler

I’m a poet?

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But on mobile so my text is normal sized :(

 

 

Posted
1 hour ago, Through The Living Glass said:

rrrrrrrright...

Spoiler
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It’s ok, I really am ok with it. I know that I’ll find someone, and so I’m not scared that I’ll be lonely forever, even if I am now. Sometimes I spiral, and that’s bad, but for the most part I’m at peace with where I am.

Spoiler

Spoiler

and now I will poof because I don’t belong here yet :P

 

 

 

 

 

Posted (edited)
On 7/29/2024 at 12:43 AM, Edema Rue said:

 

it's okay

I know I will

it just takes time.

and watching all my friends fall in love.

and knowing that I don't get close to people, and so it'll be way harder for me

but that's fine

i know i'll get there

and I can hold on until then

HA! I feel this!

12 hours ago, Edema Rue said:
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I’m a poet?

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But on mobile so my text is normal sized :(

 

 

*slow blink*

And you claim to be a NOTW fan…

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(Joking)

*dissolves because single pringle*

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Posted
7 hours ago, WhyEverNot_8 said:

HA! I feel this!

*slow blink*

And you claim to be a NOTW fan…

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(Joking)

*dissolves because single pringle*

HOW IS THAT AGAINST ME LIKING NOTW

*dissolves again*

Posted

It is with the heaviest broken heart that I announce I must resign my membership in this club. Things ended up not working out and I really don't know how to cope.

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Posted
12 hours ago, Quivil said:

You know how everyone says to not do long-distance relationships?

Some people certainly do, though I don't think they're inherently bad. Just harder to make work.

Posted
15 hours ago, Quivil said:

You know how everyone says to not do long-distance relationships?

 

2 hours ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

Some people certainly do, though I don't think they're inherently bad. Just harder to make work.

From experience this. It comes with all the challenges of a regular relationships along with not knowing how you live together with your partner. Life hitting us both in the face when we got a chance to do life together was the root cause of our breakup. 

Posted
15 hours ago, Quivil said:

You know how everyone says to not do long-distance relationships?

My parents were a long distance relationship. When he first asked her to date him, my mom said no because she wanted him in her life and didn’t want a long distance relationship to ruin that chance. When he asked the second time she said yes

Posted
18 hours ago, Quivil said:

You know how everyone says to not do long-distance relationships?

I have some friends whose parents started out as a long-distance relationship :D

Their friends/families got them to start talking/know each other through letters, and they got married a couple years later :P

Posted
1 minute ago, Through The Living Glass said:

I have some friends whose parents started out as a long-distance relationship :D

Their friends/families got them to start talking/know each other through letters, and they got married a couple years later :P

Yeah my parents were long distance high school sweethearts 

Posted
20 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

I have some friends whose parents started out as a long-distance relationship :D

Their friends/families got them to start talking/know each other through letters, and they got married a couple years later :P

 

19 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

Yeah my parents were long distance high school sweethearts 

Yeah I did not mean never do LDR (though that’s definitely how it came across, my bad). I meant that there are additional challenges and that it is unfortunate. 

Posted
21 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

Yeah my parents were long distance high school sweethearts 

awwwwwwwwwwwwww that's so cute 🥰

1 minute ago, Cash67 said:

 

Yeah I did not mean never do LDR (though that’s definitely how it came across, my bad). I meant that there are additional challenges and that it is unfortunate. 

Yeah :P

All good :D

Posted (edited)

Does that mean it's different to do a long-distance relationship than it is to maintain a used-to-be-in-person relationship over a period of time in which one is physically separated from their partner by a long distance?

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Posted
16 hours ago, Quivil said:

Does that mean it's different to do a long-distance relationship than it is to maintain a used-to-be-in-person relationship over a period of time in which one is physically separated from their partner by a long distance?

There's similarities, though some distances as well. I think that one of the hardest parts of long distance is that the majority of your conversations aren't face to face. And when you're not face to face, it's harder to communicate, and harder to truly get to know someone and tell if they're being genuine. So if you start out in-person, you can build a more close relationship easier because you see each other face-to-face more, and then you already know your partner well by the time you're far away. If you start long distance it's just harder to truly get to know someone and have as intimate of conversations over text or call. Not impossible, just harder. 

Posted
On 4/27/2025 at 2:13 PM, Quivil said:

Does that mean it's different to do a long-distance relationship than it is to maintain a used-to-be-in-person relationship over a period of time in which one is physically separated from their partner by a long distance?

 

On 4/28/2025 at 7:04 AM, #1 Taln Fan said:

There's similarities, though some distances as well. I think that one of the hardest parts of long distance is that the majority of your conversations aren't face to face. And when you're not face to face, it's harder to communicate, and harder to truly get to know someone and tell if they're being genuine. So if you start out in-person, you can build a more close relationship easier because you see each other face-to-face more, and then you already know your partner well by the time you're far away. If you start long distance it's just harder to truly get to know someone and have as intimate of conversations over text or call. Not impossible, just harder. 

Yeah

And random fact

I'm pretty sure two people met through the shard and are currently dating 

Posted
2 minutes ago, ShatteredDiamond said:

Really? Who?

Dont quote me on this but im 89 percent sure it's thaid and panda..... at least that's what I was told and if im wrong.........

Then I will hide in embarrassment 

Posted
5 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Dont quote me on this but im 89 percent sure it's thaid and panda..... at least that's what I was told and if im wrong.........

Then I will hide in embarrassment 

I don't know if they met here (probably did lol) but they are indeed dating

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