@Telcontar
You make a valid point on actions, but I have a question for you. Doesn't this mean someone coud fake their way into becoming a Surgebinder? They wouldn't have to believe in their actions, only follow an attribute and you suddenly have an evil character with good guy powers. It seems the intent of Honor in the magic system wouldn't allow just your outward actions to give you power.
Dalinar fits eight perfectly in my mind. I really think his ultimate goal is tor rebuild Althela. Maybe I missed where this you explained this but if you believe actions alone form the bond, then how did Shallan end up with a truthspren? (They might be confirmed to be called truthspren, we'll see when Zas posts his new interview) Is this why you believe the spren to be the guardians of Shadesmar? It seems random to me that there is just this one spren type that will let anybody truthful in. Wouldn't the world know about them by now? You also say that Syl only bonded with Kaladin when he started protecting, but that may or may not be true. Something odd is happening the now Surgebinding is returning to Roshar. It couldn't have always been there, because I find it hard to believe that in 4500 years no one was Honorable enough to attract one of those spren. Also Syl could have left Kaladin whenever she wanted, she even offers to at one point.
Perhaps Lantern13 is right and we can unite our diverging beliefs, he makes an interesting point. I will also concede that Brandon said what you do, is what gives magic not who you are. Maybe acting in accordance with your basic traits? Kaladin could have chosen to be selfish, and not go back to help Dalinar on the Tower, even though his attribut of Protection wanted him to. But he acted in line with it, and he actually ended up swearing the second Oath. On a related note, how did Kaladin know what the Oath was? Did he ever speak the first one, or was it just something he had to be in accordance with to be able tp swear the Second Oath.
@Reader
I agree that those two Orders are where Dalinar likely falls. I certainly hope for eight, to see a wider view of the powers, but I'm cool with however it pans out. I would be careful with using the term metalborn though. You mean Order 8 right? On Scadrial metalborn (albeit lower-cased) is the generic term for someone who uses any of the Metallic Arts so that could get confusing.