Certified Gay Disasters

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Ah that's unfortunate

*dies in school ipad*

Just now, SpartanBrigade said:

I’m so sorry  

It’s ok. It’s ok. *hugs* its all fun and games 

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

31 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

I can’t when I open it it crashes me out of the Shard  

Let's not do this please. Not only is it against our forum policies, but it legit causes problems for other folks trying to use the Shard. (I get you weren't meaning to make people lag/crash, but just be mindful of that in the future) Thanks!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Sooo ummm something happened today so I’m going to the ren fair this Saturday so I was at goodwill shopping for some stuff now my mom doesn’t know that I’m *insert word that means I don’t know what my gender storming is* but she wouldn’t care. Anyways we’re looking around and she gets this super cropped crop top for me to try on bc it had puffy sleeves and honestly I felt very cutesie in it. We ended up buying it but it doesn’t go w the rest of my fit so I’m not wearing it. But the fit looks pretty good. Def more on the masculine side but whatevs it looks cool and yah

Edited August 29, 2025 by Honors ghost

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

3 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

Sooo ummm something happened today so I’m going to the ren fair this Saturday so I was at goodwill shopping for some stuff now my mom doesn’t know that I’m *insert word that means I don’t know what my gender storming is* but she wouldn’t care. Anyways we’re looking around and she gets this super cropped crop top for me to try on bc it had puffy sleeves and honestly I felt very cutesie in it. We ended up buying it but it doesn’t go w the rest of my fit so I’m not wearing it. But the fit looks pretty good. Def more on the masculine side but whatevs it looks cool and yah

Sick
You look like a Tiefling shepherd in a good way 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

59 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Sick
You look like a Tiefling shepherd in a good way 

Kinda what I was going for thx

[Keke They/he]

1 hour ago, Honors ghost said:

Sooo ummm something happened today so I’m going to the ren fair this Saturday so I was at goodwill shopping for some stuff now my mom doesn’t know that I’m *insert word that means I don’t know what my gender storming is* but she wouldn’t care. Anyways we’re looking around and she gets this super cropped crop top for me to try on bc it had puffy sleeves and honestly I felt very cutesie in it. We ended up buying it but it doesn’t go w the rest of my fit so I’m not wearing it. But the fit looks pretty good. Def more on the masculine side but whatevs it looks cool and yah

DUDE THIS LOOKS SO COOL OMG

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

@Honors ghost how was the fair?

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

@Honors ghost how was the fair?

OOH YEAH forgot abt that

HOW WAS IT????

 

side note: does anyone else scroll through gay memes on Pinterest when their bored??

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Also
Yesterday I found out a friend of mine has a boyfriend
I'm so happy for him =D
It's the first time he's ever been in a relationship

He asked me not to tell anyone and I'm not gonna but you guys are not related to that friend group and I wanted to cheer for him somewhere 

Raise a virtual toast to Nathan

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Also
Yesterday I found out a friend of mine has a boyfriend
I'm so happy for him =D
It's the first time he's ever been in a relationship

He asked me not to tell anyone and I'm not gonna but you guys are not related to that friend group and I wanted to cheer for him somewhere 

Raise a virtual toast to Nathan

Yay!

[Keke They/he]

18 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Also
Yesterday I found out a friend of mine has a boyfriend
I'm so happy for him =D
It's the first time he's ever been in a relationship

He asked me not to tell anyone and I'm not gonna but you guys are not related to that friend group and I wanted to cheer for him somewhere 

Raise a virtual toast to Nathan

LETS GO NATHAN!!!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

3 hours ago, SpartanBrigade said:

@Honors ghost how was the fair?

 

3 hours ago, Hawks said:

OOH YEAH forgot abt that

HOW WAS IT????

 

side note: does anyone else scroll through gay memes on Pinterest when their bored??

OMG IM SO SORRY I FORGOT ABT THAT IT WAS SUPER FUN THERE WERE SOME REALLY COOL OUTFITS other than that me and my friends swore our lives to a Viking we had a wizard battle and we smacked each other with swords ooo and I got these things. OH I FORGIT THERE WERE ALSO A BUNCH IF SWORDS THAT WERE LIKE REAL AND METAL. They even had one that was like real metal And was sharp but was shaped like the fierce deity sword from zelda. Anyways yah it was super cool im excited for next year

[Keke They/he]

11 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

 

OMG IM SO SORRY I FORGOT ABT THAT IT WAS SUPER FUN THERE WERE SOME REALLY COOL OUTFITS other than that me and my friends swore our lives to a Viking we had a wizard battle and we smacked each other with swords ooo and I got these things. OH I FORGIT THERE WERE ALSO A BUNCH IF SWORDS THAT WERE LIKE REAL AND METAL. They even had one that was like real metal And was sharp but was shaped like the fierce deity sword from zelda. Anyways yah it was super cool im excited for next year

Radical!!! Thats so freaking cool!!!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

3 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Radical!!! Thats so freaking cool!!!

Hhehehehe yess it was so fun.AND I GET TO DO SOMETHING WLSE RLY FUN SOON 

ME AND MY MOM ARE GOING TO THIS MUSIC FESTIVAL

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Honors ghost said:

Hhehehehe yess it was so fun.AND I GET TO DO SOMETHING WLSE RLY FUN SOON 

ME AND MY MOM ARE GOING TO THIS MUSIC FESTIVAL

Blink 182, Weezer, AND GREENDAY!!??!?!?!

Just now, Hawks said:

Blink 182, Weezer, AND GREENDAY!!??!?!?!

AND THE FRONT BOTTOMS

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Hawks said:

Blink 182, Weezer, AND GREENDAY!!??!?!?!

AND THE FRONT BOTTOMS

YES IM SO EXCITED ITS GONNA BE AWSOME

[momadrac they/them]

Okay hi I've read through this entire thing 

And I've had this question for a while but google is not helpful

I read somewhere that this guy was dating a non binary person but called himself straight, but that really made the person uncomfortable because they didn't identify as a girl 

 & I am attracted to guys and non binary people

Is there a term for this?

*I'm really sorry if I offended anyone or if I completely misunderstood*

Edited September 7, 2025 by momadrac

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

5 minutes ago, momadrac said:

Okay hi I've read through this entire thing 

And I've had this question for a while but google is not helpful

I read somewhere that this guy was dating a non binary person but called himself straight, but that really made the person uncomfortable because they didn't identify as a girl 

 & I am attracted to guys and non binary people

Is there a term for this?

*I'm really sorry if I offended anyone or if I completely misunderstood*

I’d say bi or pan

Honestly titles are very fluid and it’s just best to use whichever title makes you the most comfortable 
As well as the person you’re with

Edited September 7, 2025 by SpartanBrigade

[momadrac they/them]

2 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

I’d say hi or pan

Honestly titles are very fluid and it’s just best to use whichever title makes you the most comfortable 
As well as the person you’re with

Hmm okay thank you

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

2 hours ago, momadrac said:

Okay hi I've read through this entire thing 

And I've had this question for a while but google is not helpful

I read somewhere that this guy was dating a non binary person but called himself straight, but that really made the person uncomfortable because they didn't identify as a girl 

 & I am attracted to guys and non binary people

Is there a term for this?

*I'm really sorry if I offended anyone or if I completely misunderstood*

Yah I agree with spartan some of my friends have had experiences like this and usually they say they’re bi or pan I think sometimes people read too much into the exact definitions of things like I tend to just say I’m bi even tho I’m open to dating anyone just bc it’s easier and more people understand it

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

5 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

I tend to just say I’m bi even tho I’m open to dating anyone just bc it’s easier and more people understand it

Ayye same

Also the flag looks better and bi is a cooler word lol 

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

8 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Ayye same

Also the flag looks better and bi is a cooler word lol 

Yeah I use bi cause pan doesn't feel like it exactly fits but idk I could basically be either

The bi flag is totally cooler though

[Keke They/he]

12 hours ago, momadrac said:

Okay hi I've read through this entire thing 

And I've had this question for a while but google is not helpful

I read somewhere that this guy was dating a non binary person but called himself straight, but that really made the person uncomfortable because they didn't identify as a girl 

 & I am attracted to guys and non binary people

Is there a term for this?

*I'm really sorry if I offended anyone or if I completely misunderstood*

Lemme whip up some definitions up in here

Bisexual or biromatic: you are attracted to both genders (basically) you can prefer one gender over the other

Bi but prefers boys etc

Pansexual or panromantic: you are attracted to anyone regardless of gender and looks. You are more atgracted to their personality and other things like aethstetic (totally spelt right) or overall vibe. 

9 hours ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Yeah I use bi cause pan doesn't feel like it exactly fits but idk I could basically be either

The bi flag is totally cooler though

Not cooler then the aroace. Wait gime a second. 

Then the pan oriented aroace flag. 

But I jusr say aroace cause the pan thing shifts from pan to gay to no one to pan to gay and so forth. 

Edited September 7, 2025 by Hawks
Clarifying

[momadrac they/them]

Thanks everyone  I think at this point I can qualify as a disaster 

Right now I'm gonna say I'm bi 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

29 minutes ago, momadrac said:

Thanks everyone  I think at this point I can qualify as a disaster 

Right now I'm gonna say I'm bi 

Hey we’re all disasters but we’re the best kind of disasters good luck