Certified Gay Disasters

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Oooh

How about y'allses. (Yes I did that)

[Akimikoisthecutest]

On 12/4/2020 at 11:59 AM, Koloss17 said:

Aces just have garlic bread form.

Real

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

26 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Oooh

How about y'allses. (Yes I did that)

I be bi

Also idk if you've come across this yet but just try not to double-post, either edit your original reply or wait for someone else to post

[Akimikoisthecutest]

2 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Also idk if you've come across this yet but just try not to double-post, either edit your original reply or wait for someone else to post

Oh, ok. For me it just merges them, so I wasn't aware it didn't do that for other people.

Edited September 15, 2025 by Akimikoisthecutest

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I am unsure right now. I have thought to be AroAce, Demisexual, Novosexual, among others but, I'm not sure right now.

I am a mental health disaster, and just a mess in general. My gender and sexuality are a complete mess.

 

 

58 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Oooh

How about y'allses. (Yes I did that)

Nah real. I'm Aromantic. Welcome in. I believe that the Q in LGBTQIA is for questioning.

30 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Oh, ok. For me it just merges them, so I wasn't aware it didn't do that for other people.

It doesn't if you post them too far apart.

[Keke They/he]

33 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Nah real. I'm Aromantic. Welcome in. I believe that the Q in LGBTQIA is for questioning.

It doesn't if you post them too far apart.

Naw irs for queer

Which is like a real term not just a broad term. 

[Akimikoisthecutest]

6 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Naw irs for queer

Which is like a real term not just a broad term. 

Yep, that's true. Pretty cool. ]

Something stupid I just thought of, how people say that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for ally not asexual/aromantic. Like it can be both.

 

 

Edited September 15, 2025 by Akimikoisthecutest

[Keke They/he]

39 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep, that's true. Pretty cool. ]

Something stupid I just thought of, how people say that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for ally not asexual/aromantic. Like it can be both.

 

 

Yeah

We earned our place

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Did you know there are enough people in the acespec community to take over Denmark? We are mostly just waiting on capes to head over there.

[Keke They/he]

3 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Did you know there are enough people in the acespec community to take over Denmark? We are mostly just waiting on capes to head over there.

Oh dang  

[Akimikoisthecutest]

4 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Oh dang  

Yeah. You should check out the forums on asexuality.org. They're pretty awesome.

Edited September 16, 2025 by Akimikoisthecutest

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 hour ago, Hawks said:

Naw irs for queer

Which is like a real term not just a broad term. 

Q is for both Queer and Questioning

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep, that's true. Pretty cool. ]

Something stupid I just thought of, how people say that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for ally not asexual/aromantic. Like it can be both.

 

 

A is for both Ally and Aromantic/Asexual

16 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah. You should check out the forums on asexuality.org. They're pretty awesome.

Can Aromantic people join asexuality.org?

[Keke They/he]

28 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah. You should check out the forums on asexuality.org. They're pretty awesome.

Huh I will later

Am watching spn

11 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Q is for both Queer and Questioning

A is for both Ally and Aromantic/Asexual

Can Aromantic people join asexuality.org?

Huh learn something new daily 

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

Just now, Hawks said:

Huh I will later

Am watching spn

Huh learn something new daily 

ya like if someone isnt sure abt it then they count

everyone who aint straight non-transgender non-ally is in lgbtqia

[Akimikoisthecutest]

30 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Can Aromantic people join asexuality.org?

It's for the entire acespec community and anyone who wants to learn more about us.

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said:

It's for the entire acespec community and anyone who wants to learn more about us.

Ah. Ok! (I already know quite a bit because of my multiple aroace exestential crisises)

[Keke They/he]

Ok genuine question and i mean no harm by asking. I just wanna make sure i get it right

so i have a character thats they/them

so when like normally you’d say himself herself

but like

is it themself

but grammatically talking about they would be themselves but its one one they so… themself???????

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

2 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Ok genuine question and i mean no harm by asking. I just wanna make sure i get it right

so i have a character thats they/them

so when like normally you’d say himself herself

but like

is it themself

but grammatically talking about they would be themselves but its one one they so… themself???????

Speaking from knowing a nonbinary friend, they use themselves. But honestly I don't know how much it matters except to the person.

[Keke They/he]

2 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Speaking from knowing a nonbinary friend, they use themselves. But honestly I don't know how much it matters except to the person.

Alrighty thanks!

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

13 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Alrighty thanks!

That said, I myself am not nonbinary, so that's secondhand information

[Hmmm lies she/her]

I'm pretty sure themselves is correct, however it does kinda sound like there's multiple people. This is a problem I've had with the English language for a while now, that the only gender-neutral pronouns we have are also used to describe multiple people. This leads me into a discussion topic:

 

Should neopronouns be adopted as singular gender-neutral pronouns?

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said:

I'm pretty sure themselves is correct, however it does kinda sound like there's multiple people. This is a problem I've had with the English language for a while now, that the only gender-neutral pronouns we have are also used to describe multiple people. This leads me into a discussion topic:

 

Should neopronouns be adopted as singular gender-neutral pronouns?

Yes

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

5 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

I'm pretty sure themselves is correct, however it does kinda sound like there's multiple people. This is a problem I've had with the English language for a while now, that the only gender-neutral pronouns we have are also used to describe multiple people. This leads me into a discussion topic:

 

Should neopronouns be adopted as singular gender-neutral pronouns?

What’s a neopronoun?

[Hmmm lies she/her]

Just now, CoderDrag0n8 said:

What’s a neopronoun?

(Opportunity to infodump identified)

 

A neopronoun (literally means new-pronoun) is a personal pronoun outside of he/him or she/her or they/them. Some common examples are xe/xer and ze/zem. I'm honestly not the biggest expert on them, but they're typically used by non-binary people who don't feel like standard pronouns fit them. I've commonly seen them be used by xenogendered people, however I feel like there should be a standard gender-neutral pronoun that isn't plural like them/them is.

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

10 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

Should neopronouns be adopted as singular gender-neutral pronouns?

Yeah