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[Akimikoisthecutest]

I love your profile pic @Hmmm lies. It's really cute. I don't mean to sound rude, but are you transfem? 

Edited September 29, 2025 by Akimikoisthecutest

[Hmmm lies she/her]

38 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I love your profile pic @Hmmm lies. It's really cute. I don't mean to sound rude, but are you transfem? 

Yes (I imagine you're on mobile, it's in my signature)

[Akimikoisthecutest]

@Hmmm lies how did you figure it out? I'm questioning myself.

[Hmmm lies she/her]

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

@Hmmm lies how did you figure it out? I'm questioning myself.

I don't know if my story will be super useful, but here goes:

One day, I randomly thought about femboys, and came to the conclusion that I was one. I thought about this for the rest of the day. The next day, I woke up, and realized I was a girl.

 

But maybe that's not what you meant. Something I'm sure would be more useful is the story of how I became 100% sure I was trans. Well, here goes:

Naturally, this was a crazy thing to think about, and it was all I could think about for, well, a while. But after 3 days, I felt something. An overwhelming excitement. I was excited that I could be a girl, I longed to be a girl, I realized I'd be happy to be a girl, far more than a boy, and I felt euphoric, that I was a girl. There was still some doubt, if a tiny amount, after that I think. But the last shred of it was eviscerated after I read this website, the 'Gender Dysphoria Bible', and found that nearly everything in there applied to me. 

 

 So uh yeah, I hope that's helpful. I hope you can discover your identity, whatever it might be. Let me know if you need any more help or have any other questions!

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Thanks so much, @Hmmm lies. That website has helped me get a better idea of my identity, but I'm still not sure. I'll let you all know when I figure it out

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

I love my parents so much I’m not out to them but they are very support of all things lgbtq so they gave me a super gender neutral name that’s actually slightly more feminine so yah also my names Izzy *gasps name reveal*

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

37 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

I love my parents so much I’m not out to them but they are very support of all things lgbtq so they gave me a super gender neutral name that’s actually slightly more feminine so yah also my names Izzy *gasps name reveal*

WOOOOOOO

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

On 9/29/2025 at 8:37 PM, Hmmm lies said:

I don't know if my story will be super useful, but here goes:

One day, I randomly thought about femboys, and came to the conclusion that I was one. I thought about this for the rest of the day. The next day, I woke up, and realized I was a girl.

 

But maybe that's not what you meant. Something I'm sure would be more useful is the story of how I became 100% sure I was trans. Well, here goes:

Naturally, this was a crazy thing to think about, and it was all I could think about for, well, a while. But after 3 days, I felt something. An overwhelming excitement. I was excited that I could be a girl, I longed to be a girl, I realized I'd be happy to be a girl, far more than a boy, and I felt euphoric, that I was a girl. There was still some doubt, if a tiny amount, after that I think. But the last shred of it was eviscerated after I read this website, the 'Gender Dysphoria Bible', and found that nearly everything in there applied to me. 

 

 So uh yeah, I hope that's helpful. I hope you can discover your identity, whatever it might be. Let me know if you need any more help or have any other questions!

I’m reading the link you put in here and so far it has been very enlightening and heavily reinforced the fact that I’m trans so thanks I really appreciate that

[Hmmm lies she/her]

Just now, Honors ghost said:

I’m reading the link you put in here and so far it has been very enlightening and heavily reinforced the fact that I’m trans so thanks I really appreciate that

Haha yeah, that seems to be the effect that it has on people. It gets one to admit "I am not making this up. This is real. This is something real that applies to me" to oneself.

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

3 hours ago, Honors ghost said:

I love my parents so much I’m not out to them but they are very support of all things lgbtq so they gave me a super gender neutral name that’s actually slightly more feminine so yah also my names Izzy *gasps name reveal*

FINALLY

The amount of effort it has taken to not reflexively namedrop you

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

28 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

Haha yeah, that seems to be the effect that it has on people. It gets one to admit "I am not making this up. This is real. This is something real that applies to me" to oneself.

Yah there are a bunch of parts that are liek describing the way people feel and I’m like “that’s literally me” but anyways I rly appreciate it I think some of my friends are too I already sent it to two of them

 

19 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

FINALLY

The amount of effort it has taken to not reflexively namedrop you

hahahah real well now you can NameDrop me all you want

[Hmmm lies she/her]

3 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

I think some of my friends are too I already sent it to two of them

 

It propagates

[momadrac they/them]

Hullo I am back again

I have recently been wondering if I am ace, because I have found myself really grossed out about most *intimacy* though I'm still okay with the idea of things like holding hands and kissing, However I've never actually been in a relationship so I don't really know if its all people who feel like that before or if I'm supposed to feel something.

Ideas? Thoughts? Diagnosis? 

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 minute ago, momadrac said:

Hullo I am back again

I have recently been wondering if I am ace, because I have found myself really grossed out about most *intimacy* though I'm still okay with the idea of things like holding hands and kissing, However I've never actually been in a relationship so I don't really know if its all people who feel like that before or if I'm supposed to feel something.

Ideas? Thoughts? Diagnosis? 

As a proud aro, that sounds a lot like me when I was aroace (yes lol I’m 14 my life is crazy), and I would recommend looking more into the topic. There are many different parts of the asexual spectrum, and each of them have good definitions to help people find one they fit into.

[Keke They/he]

10 minutes ago, momadrac said:

Hullo I am back again

I have recently been wondering if I am ace, because I have found myself really grossed out about most *intimacy* though I'm still okay with the idea of things like holding hands and kissing, However I've never actually been in a relationship so I don't really know if its all people who feel like that before or if I'm supposed to feel something.

Ideas? Thoughts? Diagnosis? 

Hallloooo!!! As a fellow aro and ace i wil put my two cents in 

ace is a spectrum as coder said. Meaning that it yes that can be ace! 

Take me for example. I have the same ish thing. Yeah no nothing intamenncy mmm words. XD but like if i trust you enough id be down to cuddleee.

so technically yes it could be ace. And. Maybe that wil change after you get in a relationship or maybe it wont. You just gotta go thorugh life and see what happens!!!

[momadrac they/them]

4 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Hallloooo!!! As a fellow aro and ace i wil put my two cents in 

ace is a spectrum as coder said. Meaning that it yes that can be ace! 

Take me for example. I have the same ish thing. Yeah no nothing intamenncy mmm words. XD but like if i trust you enough id be down to cuddleee.

so technically yes it could be ace. And. Maybe that wil change after you get in a relationship or maybe it wont. You just gotta go thorugh life and see what happens!!!

 

12 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

As a proud aro, that sounds a lot like me when I was aroace (yes lol I’m 14 my life is crazy), and I would recommend looking more into the topic. There are many different parts of the asexual spectrum, and each of them have good definitions to help people find one they fit into.

Thanks 

Can I be ace but still wanting physical closeness (does that make sense...?)

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Just now, momadrac said:

 

Thanks 

Can I be ace but still wanting physical closeness (does that make sense...?)

Yeah definitely 

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

2 minutes ago, momadrac said:

 

Thanks 

Can I be ace but still wanting physical closeness (does that make sense...?)

Yeah definitely! Stuff like hugging, hand holding and other stuff can also fit under  romantic! Even I, an aro, like to hug people platonically

physical closeness is fine! Whatever you feel comfortable with!

[momadrac they/them]

Okay thank you both 

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

2 minutes ago, momadrac said:

Okay thank you both 

Of course! It’s what us gay disasters do!

[momadrac they/them]

I guess now is when I go...

Yay garlic bread!  

[Keke They/he]

1 hour ago, momadrac said:

 

Thanks 

Can I be ace but still wanting physical closeness (does that make sense...?)

Absolutely! 

29 minutes ago, momadrac said:

I guess now is when I go...

Yay garlic bread!  

Bye bye fren!!! 

(I cant eat garlic bread. Garlic makes me sicko) YAY TOAST!

Edited October 10, 2025 by Hawks

[momadrac they/them]

 

Not go as in leave (I am very much still alive lol) but as in say (I guess)

12 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Absolutely! 

Bye bye fren!!! 

(I cant eat garlic bread. Garlic makes me sicko) YAY TOAST!

Also yes all of the toast  

Edited October 10, 2025 by momadrac

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

IM SO HAPPY MY SCIENCE TEACHER IS GAY this may not sound like a huge deal but considering I live in the Deep South this is awsome I’m so happy

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Let's goooooo