momadrac
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I have never really felt like a "girl" and I also feel like gender is used too often to objectify people or force them in a box I kinda was fine with she/her and still am fine (thats a lie) but one day my enby friend referred to me as they/them because they do that for everyone and it sent me into a questioning rabbit hole I dunno bottom line is that it feels better and I don't really have a connection to either femininity or masculinity
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YAYYYY EMOTIONAL SUPPORT IS ALWAYS THE BEST I'm with Ink what's she like??
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To say in a science way because I am a nerd Romantic love is more exciting and volatile, like sodium + water, or like salt, a great addition to your dinner but can be terrible when done wrong. Attraction is usually a part of it, not necessarily physical. For example I am primarily attracted to people's personalities, ideas, way of speaking, and interests but not body at all (I feel nill physical attraction) except for hands for some reason There's this one British person who has a YouTube channel where he is a barista and just makes coffee and his hands are *chef's kiss* Platonic is more like noble gasses. Not really reactive and isn't attraction based. More grounded, patient, kind and not prone to jealosy. I did get this metaphor off of reddit when I was questioning this myself about 3 months ago but it really worked for me I'm going to be so for real though, i personally think those are labels imposed by society because my definition is essentially 'would i be okay kissing this person' Because sexual/physical attraction does not exist for me, a romantic relationship is just my very best friend who I snuggle and kiss and its nice
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that's excellent! You got this!!!!! *emotional support squish*
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oooo yum I prefer tea but I honestly thrive off of caffiene so you gotta take what u can get ig
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yayyy was they chill abt it? *were they chill about it?
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huh makes sense *shrugs* sorry you have a headache sowwyyyy
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what is this
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same people as before i'll figure it out eventually one day
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sure, for what tho? for whom? not much too, tryna work up courage to ask crush on a date tho *gay paniks*
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yasss
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same lol
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fair =P
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so what's up
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go put on some lofi or smth chill and make a cup of tea and go read 'a lesbiana's guide to catholic school' or 'roll for love' or some equally gay, lighthearted romance novel outside
