Certified Gay Disasters

[momadrac they/them]

8 hours ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Guys remember this?

I tried to explain what aromantic is to my friends

and they just kept on asking me ‘but if you did have a crush on someone, which gender would it be?” And I was just like ‘that’s not how that works T^T”

I'm sorry that sucks

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

8 hours ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Dost thou need better friends?

Sounds like i

1 hour ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

I agree with Spartan

52 minutes ago, momadrac said:

I'm sorry that sucks

Their just ignorant

I like talking to them about non-sensitive things

and that’s what I’ve been saying!!!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

7 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Their just ignorant

I like talking to them about non-sensitive things

and that’s what I’ve been saying!!!

I have one male friend (I’m not counting you Kansas your too gay to count) and yah he is so emotionally inept but he’s one of my best friends bc we can just hang out play video games and I can just tell him stuff and he doesn’t understand it but tha doesn’t bother either of us.

all that to say I don’t think you need better friends you just need other friends that you can talk to about thatbstuff

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

3 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

I have one male friend (I’m not counting you Kansas your too gay to count) and yah he is so emotionally inept but he’s one of my best friends bc we can just hang out play video games and I can just tell him stuff and he doesn’t understand it but tha doesn’t bother either of us.

all that to say I don’t think you need better friends you just need other friends that you can talk to about thatbstuff

Ya

but last time I got one of those friend groups…

I don’t even remember how it happened

it was all a blur

[Akimikoisthecutest]

9 hours ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Guys remember this?

I tried to explain what aromantic is to my friends

and they just kept on asking me ‘but if you did have a crush on someone, which gender would it be?” And I was just like ‘that’s not how that works T^T”

I also agree with Spartain. That just doesn't make any sense.

Edited October 17, 2025 by Akimikoisthecutest

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Me too. That just doesn't make any sense.

Yeah

i I will say, I do have a friend group that was able to comprehend aromanticism, but they still don’t have too high of an emotional (opposite of inept, eptness?)

[momadrac they/them]

9 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Yeah

i I will say, I do have a friend group that was able to comprehend aromanticism, but they still don’t have too high of an emotional (opposite of inept, eptness?)

At least that's someone

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 minute ago, momadrac said:

At least that's someone

I guess

It can do until I find a therapist or better friend group

At least they understand me.

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

*hugs*

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

*hugs*

Thank you spartan

if one of you could kindly teleport to me so I could sigh and talk to you about my feelings while I walk to school, that would be great

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

*hugs as well*

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

24 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

*hugs as well*

thank you

ahhhh just finished odyssey test ah

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[momadrac they/them]

7 hours ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

thank you

ahhhh just finished odyssey test ah

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

All the hugs

+ cats if that's your thing

Edited October 17, 2025 by momadrac

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

15 hours ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Thank you spartan

if one of you could kindly teleport to me so I could sigh and talk to you about my feelings while I walk to school, that would be great

*hugs*

We could try telepathy? Not so sure about teleporting though. Sorry about the irritating people.

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

10 hours ago, Ink and Embers said:

*hugs*

We could try telepathy? Not so sure about teleporting though. Sorry about the irritating people.

Telepathy would be great, thank you

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Howdy folks

So there’s an LGBTQ+ youth group I’m volunteering with at a church 

But we’re still in the preparation phase so nobody is there yet 

We’re still educating the team
And the team is really old
Like old to the point where queer was still being used derogatorily and they think Trans is the newest part of the community 

Anyways for my thing I’m to compile a list of common queer terms 
Like different genders and orientations and what they mean cause they’re still at gay and lesbian

Anyways I wanted to get y’all’s input cause I’ve learned a lot the past year or two but there’s still a bunch of stuff I’m not entirely clear on
And also I’m a cis male 

But I was thinking to start with the basics 
Gay
Lesbian
Bi
Pan
Ace

etc

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

23 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Howdy folks

So there’s an LGBTQ+ youth group I’m volunteering with at a church 

But we’re still in the preparation phase so nobody is there yet 

We’re still educating the team
And the team is really old
Like old to the point where queer was still being used derogatorily and they think Trans is the newest part of the community 

Anyways for my thing I’m to compile a list of common queer terms 
Like different genders and orientations and what they mean cause they’re still at gay and lesbian

Anyways I wanted to get y’all’s input cause I’ve learned a lot the past year or two but there’s still a bunch of stuff I’m not entirely clear on
And also I’m a cis male 

But I was thinking to start with the basics 
Gay
Lesbian
Bi
Pan
Ace

etc

If they’re gonna be working with kids then you might want to educate them on some of the slang used to refer to queer relationships and people and what not. Is there anything like your specifically asking or like idk. I would also like to say I myself am not the best to answer this bc other than the shard I’m barely online ever so idrk much. You might want to add like enby and explain that and what nonbinary is if they don’t know that

Edited October 19, 2025 by Honors ghost

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Things like how you define asexuality since it’s not always the complete absence of  attraction or even romantic relationships

Or pan vs bi

Or how bi is even defined because it technically means two but a lot bi folks like me can be attracted to people of other genders too which would technically make it pan?

This stuff is vexing 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Things like how you define asexuality since it’s not always the complete absence of  attraction or even romantic relationships

Or pan vs bi

Or how bi is even defined because it technically means two but a lot bi folks like me can be attracted to people of other genders too which would technically make it pan?

This stuff is vexing 

That it is lol it’s very slightly pretty dang confusing honestly I think the most important thing to make sure they know is that there’s a lot more stuff nowadays and that if they don’t understand something to ask the kids or look it up and to keep a open mind abt it all

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

59 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Things like how you define asexuality since it’s not always the complete absence of  attraction or even romantic relationships

Or pan vs bi

Or how bi is even defined because it technically means two but a lot bi folks like me can be attracted to people of other genders too which would technically make it pan?

This stuff is vexing 

Yeahh good luck with that

I mostly just call myself bi cause the flag is cooler, I don't really see a clear difference

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

40 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Yeahh good luck with that

I mostly just call myself bi cause the flag is cooler, I don't really see a clear difference

Same

Bi also sounds cooler than a kitchen appliance 

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

28 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Same

Bi also sounds cooler than a kitchen appliance 

I mean...I do appreciate a good smacking tool

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

7 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

I mean...I do appreciate a good smacking tool

Combat pan

[Hmmm lies she/her]

6 hours ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Howdy folks

So there’s an LGBTQ+ youth group I’m volunteering with at a church 

But we’re still in the preparation phase so nobody is there yet 

We’re still educating the team
And the team is really old
Like old to the point where queer was still being used derogatorily and they think Trans is the newest part of the community 

Anyways for my thing I’m to compile a list of common queer terms 
Like different genders and orientations and what they mean cause they’re still at gay and lesbian

Anyways I wanted to get y’all’s input cause I’ve learned a lot the past year or two but there’s still a bunch of stuff I’m not entirely clear on
And also I’m a cis male 

But I was thinking to start with the basics 
Gay
Lesbian
Bi
Pan
Ace

etc

I'll edit this post later to give advice when I have time

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

8 hours ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Howdy folks

So there’s an LGBTQ+ youth group I’m volunteering with at a church 

But we’re still in the preparation phase so nobody is there yet 

We’re still educating the team
And the team is really old
Like old to the point where queer was still being used derogatorily and they think Trans is the newest part of the community 

Anyways for my thing I’m to compile a list of common queer terms 
Like different genders and orientations and what they mean cause they’re still at gay and lesbian

Anyways I wanted to get y’all’s input cause I’ve learned a lot the past year or two but there’s still a bunch of stuff I’m not entirely clear on
And also I’m a cis male 

But I was thinking to start with the basics 
Gay
Lesbian
Bi
Pan
Ace

etc

8 hours ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Things like how you define asexuality since it’s not always the complete absence of  attraction or even romantic relationships

Or pan vs bi

Or how bi is even defined because it technically means two but a lot bi folks like me can be attracted to people of other genders too which would technically make it pan?

This stuff is vexing 

okay so

there is more than just Asexual and Aromantic (there is like Aplatonic or smth) but I will just explain those 2

Asexual: Absence of sexual attraction; is a spectrum, look it up to learn more

Aromantic: Absence of romantic attraction; is also a spectrum, look it up to learn more

dats it