Certified Gay Disasters

[Koloss17 She/They]

WOOOOO GAY MONTH!!!!!!!!

[Cinnamon]

Seeing that pride 17th shard logo makes me so inexplicably happy  

[Hmmm lies she/her]

I like the new pronouns feature, it's like I'm gendered correctly by someone every time I look at one of my posts.

[Soulbinder she/her]

Hypothetically speaking, how would one know if they’re gay?

[Koloss17 She/They]

50 minutes ago, Soulbinder said:

Hypothetically speaking, how would one know if they’re gay?

Are you asking about yourself or someone else? Because if it’s the latter, generally asking em is a good move.

[Soulbinder she/her]

2 hours ago, Koloss17 said:

Are you asking about yourself or someone else? Because if it’s the latter, generally asking em is a good move.

…hypothetically speaking, me.

[AonEne he/him]

10 hours ago, Soulbinder said:

…hypothetically speaking, me.

Well, hypothetically, have you felt attracted to girls, whether romantically or sexually? Have any crushes on men felt more like you chose a friend or generally good-looking person and went "yeah he seems good" or thinking of him as a way to married life, stability, or something of the sort rather than someone you deeply love and want to date? Or hypothetically, have you ever thought "if I was into girls, I'd totally date her" or had detailed and emotionally invested fantasies (as in, not just "huh I wonder what that's like") about going out with or having sex with a girl? This is not an all-encompassing list, but it may give a hypothetical person somewhere to start. 

[Koloss17 She/They]

And a big thing to keep in mind is that romantic or sexual attraction to one gender doesn’t immediately disqualify feelings for another. Sexuality is a spectrum, and it can be weird.

[Soulbinder she/her]

Thanks guys! That was helpful.

[Koloss17 She/They]

Me when women 

[Kings_way he/they]

My pride flag count for this month is disappointingly low (Utah) but at least I have my lock screen.

Also I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

[Koloss17 She/They]

1 hour ago, ShrubSeph said:

My pride flag count for this month is disappointingly low (Utah) but at least I have my lock screen.

Also I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

Honestly? I don’t really know. I’m a she/they gal, and I generally define myself as transfemme, and for the normies trans woman. Though I also do like me the term femmeby (as opposed to enby), though I dunno about the masc variant.

Transmasc is always out there, but past that, I’m right there with ya brother (lest sib be the preferable tangential familial term)

Edited June 26, 2024 by Koloss17

[Kings_way he/they]

On 6/26/2024 at 5:43 PM, Koloss17 said:

Transmasc is always out there, but past that, I’m right there with ya brother (lest sib be the preferable tangential familial term)

I don't think transmasc really applies, I'm more transitioning away from being 100% male

[Koloss17 She/They]

8 minutes ago, ShrubSeph said:

I don't think transmasc really applies, I'm more transitioning away from being 100% male

Ah. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I honestly dunno. Whatever term you feel describes you the most, or whatever you jive with is what you should use. Past that advice, I’m struggling to think of something.

@AonEne, good friend and queer, might you have thoughts?

 

[AonEne he/him]

Hello hello I'm super late but yes! 

On 6/26/2024 at 4:29 PM, ShrubSeph said:

I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

I'll lob some links at you, and you can scroll through there and see if anything describes you well - note that not all terms listed in these wikis are commonly used or identified with, but it's somewhere to start: 

https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Man 
https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transmasculine 
https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transfeminine 
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Masculine 
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Transfeminine_Man 

It's also just fine to stick with umbrella terms if those feel most applicable - 'nonbinary man', 'masc enby', 'transfem man', and so on. 

Edited July 26, 2024 by AonEne
sent before i meant to -_-

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

FINALLY! Tracked down the queer group!

[Koloss17 She/They]

41 minutes ago, Drehy said:

FINALLY! Tracked down the queer group!

Woah! It’s the token gay character from SA in the flesh!

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

Best name I could think of. Couldn’t find a definitely bi male person in SA.

[Hmmm lies she/her]

19 minutes ago, Koloss17 said:

Woah! It’s the token gay character from SA in the flesh!

Oh come on, what about the guy Drehy is seeing, Dru, who shows up *checks notes* a whole three times.

[Comatose he/him]

On 8/11/2024 at 8:47 PM, Drehy said:

Best name I could think of. Couldn’t find a definitely bi male person in SA.

Wait, are you saying Bi King Adolin Kholin isn't "definitely bi" and that's only in my head?  After Chapter 12 of RoW?

Welcome here!

[Koloss17 She/They]

1 hour ago, Comatose said:

Wait, are you saying Bi King Adolin Kholin isn't "definitely bi" and that's only in my head?  After Chapter 12 of RoW?

Welcome here!

Let me tell you I’m devastated that due to Mormonism, Shakadolin will never be a thing ;( 

[Comatose he/him]

55 minutes ago, Koloss17 said:

Let me tell you I’m devastated that due to Mormonism, Shakadolin will never be a thing ;( 

Just because (SA Spoilers)

Spoiler

Kaladin is "too much of a prude" doesn't mean Adolin isn't interested (or Kaladin, for that matter  ).  
Like Veil says, no harm in appreciating beauty, haha.  

 

[Hmmm lies she/her]

I enter high school soon. Gonna be fun when everyone who "knew" me before sees me in full fem mode.

[Koloss17 She/They]

42 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

I enter high school soon. Gonna be fun when everyone who "knew" me before sees me in full fem mode.

Yayyyy! I believe in you.

[Hmmm lies she/her]

5 minutes ago, Koloss17 said:

Yayyyy! I believe in you.

Hehe thanks

Things are somewhat complicated by the fact that I plan to not come out during the new student orientation.

But I can probably handle it