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[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

50 minutes ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

Meeting with my parents and school went shockingly bad.

 

The principal was horrible. She was like; ABSOLUTELY NO HANGING WITH YEAR SEVEN AT ALL (its due a year seven boy bullying me, I wanna hang with the boys, not girls!)

 

I was like, why are you doing this to me? They were like: its our rules for Jess. I started to cry but it was no use. They rattled me out again about the hotline. Apparently I have to tell them where I am at all times if I’m not in class or in a free. FFS. Then they were like: We’re giving Jess special jobs to do at lunchtime. FOR STORMS SAKE! AAAA.

I told them I don't want to be with my year. Then they’re like: Don’t push people away, people in your year wanna be friends with you!

Me: I’m not being friends with ex-bullies. My friends lie in Year seven. Them: "Don't push people away, Jess!"

 

Mum: *signals* Stop it.

 

Me: *cries eyes out afterwards* People and teachers are getting concerned. The kids probably just want gossip.

 

I told my boyfriend I wanted to throw myself down the stairs on Wednesday. He got scared but said he will do anything to make sure I stay alive and I'm okay

 

*hugs

You've already gone over this with me Ik, but I just felt like saying this again. Never give up. They might keep applying the pressure, slowly applying more and more, but the last thing you can afford to do is to let them win. 

Just now, TwiLyghtSansSparkles said:

You're angry. Things are unfair, and that's understandable. Just don't do anything rash; unfair as it is, the school will probably take any anger-based action on your part as evidence that you need extra supervision. And again, there's an open invitation for you to send me your rants, if you need to. 

Can you text your friends during school? 

Mhm, What Twi said. Come rant to us, and let off some steam. 

1 minute ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

They said they talked to the bullies. I wanna storming be with my friends! I can't talk to them, cause I don't trust them. I can say that sometimes I feel like a demon grows inside of me, I sometimes feel pure evil. I sometimes feel like dying. 

mhm, know how you feel (last part) (no sleep for the wicked )

I'm on if you need me

Also @TwiLyghtSansSparkles, I know I'm a little late heh. But there is nothing you can do but wait and see if he makes an open move and clearly states that he's into you. Then It's time to be a little assertive (Just like you've been with me sometimes *rolls eyes) and make it clear that you're not into him, but you also don't want to burn any bridges. 

*hugs What everyone else has said, You're wonderful! And if we can see it, then someone out there will also see it, just gotta be patient (which you're probably sick of hearing heh). 

[Orlion Blight he/him]

@Queen Elsa Steelheart Be sure to keep communicating with people who care about you. Your boyfriend, out-of-school-counselor, the Shard and anyone else you can think of. As Twi pointed out, what the chullheads are putting you through is unfair, but you can not act rashly or on impulse. These communications will help sort through what you are experience and choose the best path available to you. 

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

2 minutes ago, Orlion Determined said:

@Queen Elsa Steelheart Be sure to keep communicating with people who care about you. Your boyfriend, out-of-school-counselor, the Shard and anyone else you can think of. As Twi pointed out, what the chullheads are putting you through is unfair, but you can not act rashly or on impulse. These communications will help sort through what you are experience and choose the best path available to you. 

Mhm, DO NOT make any decisions while you're feeling off. I have, and I regret every. single. one. of. them.

[Orlion Blight he/him]

@Darkness Ascendant Good add on.

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

1 minute ago, Orlion Determined said:

@Darkness Ascendant Good add on.

What do u mean? You want me to..share those decision? Cos I don't particularly feel comfortable. But I will say one of those decisions involved me. A concussion. A hospital. Suspension. and very pissed off parents.

[StrikerEZ he/him]

Just now, Darkness Ascendant said:

What do u mean? You want me to..share those decision? Cos I don't particularly feel comfortable. But I will say one of those decisions involved me. A concussion. A hospital. Suspension. and very pissed off parents.

No, he meant that your addition to the point he was making was good. At least, that's how I understood it.

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

Just now, StrikerEZ said:

No, he meant that your addition to the point he was making was good. At least, that's how I understood it.

oh.  

[Orlion Blight he/him]

Just now, Darkness Ascendant said:

What do u mean? 

I mean something like, "Good advice!" "I agree!" "Why didn't I think of that?" That sort of complimenting response  

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

1 minute ago, Orlion Determined said:

I mean something like, "Good advice!" "I agree!" "Why didn't I think of that?" That sort of complimenting response  

 Let's just say that was a brash response as well XD 

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

13 minutes ago, Orlion Determined said:

@Queen Elsa Steelheart Be sure to keep communicating with people who care about you. Your boyfriend, out-of-school-counselor, the Shard and anyone else you can think of. As Twi pointed out, what the chullheads are putting you through is unfair, but you can not act rashly or on impulse. These communications will help sort through what you are experience and choose the best path available to you. 

I will. And true. Thank you.

16 minutes ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

*hugs

You've already gone over this with me Ik, but I just felt like saying this again. Never give up. They might keep applying the pressure, slowly applying more and more, but the last thing you can afford to do is to let them win. 

Mhm, What Twi said. Come rant to us, and let off some steam. 

mhm, know how you feel (last part) (no sleep for the wicked )

I'm on if you need me

Also @TwiLyghtSansSparkles, I know I'm a little late heh. But there is nothing you can do but wait and see if he makes an open move and clearly states that he's into you. Then It's time to be a little assertive (Just like you've been with me sometimes *rolls eyes) and make it clear that you're not into him, but you also don't want to burn any bridges. 

*hugs What everyone else has said, You're wonderful! And if we can see it, then someone out there will also see it, just gotta be patient (which you're probably sick of hearing heh). 

Thank you. I'll keep ranting here Ranting is good.  Thanks for support

20 minutes ago, TwiLyghtSansSparkles said:

You're angry. Things are unfair, and that's understandable. Just don't do anything rash; unfair as it is, the school will probably take any anger-based action on your part as evidence that you need extra supervision. And again, there's an open invitation for you to send me your rants, if you need to. 

Can you text your friends during school? 

I can't. Year sevens aren't allowed their phones. 

[StrikerEZ he/him]

Also, @Queen Elsa Steelheart, while this may seem like a rough time, things will definitely get better. It may seem like it never will and everyone's out to get you, but trust me, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Plus, you have your friends and your boyfriend, who all really seem to care for you. Don't do anything rash that could affect them as well. And you always have us here on the 17th Shard to help you out too, if you ever need anything.

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

1 minute ago, StrikerEZ said:

Also, @Queen Elsa Steelheart, while this may seem like a rough time, things will definitely get better. It may seem like it never will and everyone's out to get you, but trust me, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Plus, you have your friends and your boyfriend, who all really seem to care for you. Don't do anything rash that could affect them as well. And you always have us here on the 17th Shard to help you out too, if you ever need anything.

Thank you so much 

 

Up votes for you all

Edited March 19, 2017 by Queen Elsa Steelheart

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

3 minutes ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

Thank you so much 

 

Up votes for you all

of course, upvotes are the only reason we're here 

No worries Elsa  

[Hemalurgic Headshot he/him]

I wonder if there is some sort of legal pursuit for this problem. Perhaps this could be solved in court, if necessary. I mean, they can't shame you for doing that because  nowadays, people take the stupidest things to court. And this is not a stupid case. I'm sure the 17th Shard has enough connections to help you out.

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

Just now, Hemalurgic_Headshot said:

I wonder if there is some sort of legal pursuit for this problem. Perhaps this could be solved in court, if necessary. I mean, they can't shame you for doing that because  nowadays, people take the stupidest things to court. And this is not a stupid case. I'm sure the 17th Shard has enough connections to help you out.

Legal pursuit will only complicate matters. And Elsa is going through her final year, so she needs time to focus on studying for exams.

Perhaps after they are completed. Good idea though. And yeah, I could totally pass off as Phoenix Wright.

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

1 minute ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

of course, upvotes are the only reason we're here 

No worries Elsa  

Hahahahahahaha!  

1 minute ago, Hemalurgic_Headshot said:

I wonder if there is some sort of legal pursuit for this problem. Perhaps this could be solved in court, if necessary. I mean, they can't shame you for doing that because  nowadays, people take the stupidest things to court. And this is not a stupid case. I'm sure the 17th Shard has enough connections to help you out.

The school would probably expel me anyway.... 

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

1 minute ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

The school would probably expel me anyway.... 

The amount of times I've said I wanted to throttle your principal...

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

1 minute ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

The amount of times I've said I wanted to throttle your principal...

Ditto 

[Hemalurgic Headshot he/him]

1 minute ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

The amount of times I've said I wanted to throttle your principal...

How did he even get the job, anyway?

[TwiLyghtSansSparkles she/her]

4 minutes ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

Hahahahahahaha!  

The school would probably expel me anyway.... 

Sue their pants off! Take your story to the media!

[Hemalurgic Headshot he/him]

3 minutes ago, TwiLyghtSansSparkles said:

Sue their pants off! Take your story to the media!

Exactly.

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

2 minutes ago, TwiLyghtSansSparkles said:

Sue their pants off! Take your story to the media!

mhm, but like I said, it'll just complicate matters... :/ And Elsa needs to focus on studying for exams if she ever want's to get that medical degree  

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

5 minutes ago, Hemalurgic_Headshot said:

How did he even get the job, anyway?

It's a woman from Singapore. She took away funny names on Year 12 jumpers as soon as she got to my school. She's an idiot. She should stayed in Singapore. 

1 minute ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

mhm, but like I said, it'll just complicate matters... :/ And Elsa needs to focus on studying for exams if she ever want's to get that medical degree  

You know me well  

Edited March 19, 2017 by Queen Elsa Steelheart

[Darkness Ascendant he/him]

1 minute ago, Queen Elsa Steelheart said:

It's a woman from Singapore. She took away funny names on Year 12 jumpers as soon as she got to my school. She's an idiot. She should stayed in Singapore. 

You know me well  

and vice versa XD

And that Singapore woman...where does she live?  I could grab my...erm...rag...

[Queen Elsa Steelheart she/her]

1 minute ago, Darkness Ascendant said:

and vice versa XD

And that Singapore woman...where does she live?  I could grab my...erm...rag...

MUHAHAHAHAH