Mental health club!

[Keke They/he]

3 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

I might be able to come to Dragonsteel... Depends on cost of plane tickets...

COME

WE CAN HAVE A MHC GROUP HUG!

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

10 hours ago, Bird Furious said:

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As an addendum

the second mental health comes I to the discussion, you can feel the judgement from all sides 

the only respectable thing to do in this society is to hide it and function normally 

it even feels weak

sure, if it’s discovered, it gets better attention, and we always say “get help”, but we don’t mean it 

we just want people to function properly and be the people we know and love 

Even if those people we know are just masks 

the only way to get attention without seeming extra is, coincidentally, to be extra. if you get my drift. To be extreme, to make it OBVIOUS that you’re suffering and a danger to yourself. 

I guess that’s the end of it then. No attention for me. I’ll keep being fake and hope it never gets to that threshold.

night, all. Sorry about the addendum. It felt necessary. 

edit: changed my mind about the all nighter. Either it’s the stupid teenage emotions again, or I just hate myself too much to do anything useful wirh it  

 

*squeeze*

It's not a bad thing to talk about this kind of stuff. It's not only for attention, and we only want to help you. We're not judging you or anything, so don't feel like you need to put yourself down or that we don't care about you.

Love you

Glad you changed your mind

[Shatter He/Him]

Ok. Right now, plane ticket for Dec 4-8 are around $925.00CAD

[Keke They/he]

Just now, The Shattered Cosmere said:

Ok. Right now, plane ticket for Dec 4-8 are around $925.00CAD

DAN-

Oh Canada money

[Mags she/they]

Tbh I thought flights were way more expensive

but that is just me being stupid loll

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

1 hour ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

Ok. Right now, plane ticket for Dec 4-8 are around $925.00CAD

*converts*

dang though

still

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*converts*

dang though

still

OOOOF GD THATS PRICY 

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

15 minutes ago, Hawks said:

OOOOF GD THATS PRICY 

This is kinda normal

[Shatter He/Him]

yeah. flight from toronto (ill use your boring old american green bills) is $512.80 USD and from montréal it's $462.79 USD. I'll probably take montréal's flight. AND THE STOPOFF IS "Detroit Metropolitan Wayne County Airport"!!!!!

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

1 minute ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

yeah. flight from toronto (ill use your boring old american green bills) is $512.80 USD and from montréal it's $462.79 USD. I'll probably take montréal's flight. AND THE STOPOFF IS "Detroit Metropolitan Wayne County Airport"!!!!!

wAYYYYYYYYYYYNE

IT'S M'BOY WAYNEEEEE

[Keke They/he]

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

Just now, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

oh no . . .

*hug*

Aw, Hawks

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Through The Living Glass said:

oh no . . .

*hug*

Aw, Hawks

I wrote about it in a su

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

1 minute ago, Hawks said:

I wrote about it in a su

I just saw

[Hoid Slayer He/Him]

8 hours ago, Hawks said:

Yepsssies

Most people on the shard pass my hug alowed test. 

COME TO DRAGONSTEEL PLEASE PLEASE

I can't 

I'm literally in another country...

4 hours ago, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

*squeezes again*

[ANHlittleinsane girl but gendern't mostly]

4 hours ago, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

yesyesyesyesyes

my best friend moved when i was seven, and then again to the UK recently

*hugshugshugshugshugs*

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

1 hour ago, Hoid Slayer said:

I'm literally in another country...

6 hours ago, Hawks said:

I hung out with two separate last year who flew in from Germany, so it's technically possible /j 

[Keke They/he]

2 hours ago, Hoid Slayer said:

I can't 

I'm literally in another country...

*squeezes again*

*hugs* 

Come anyways

2 hours ago, alittleinsane said:

yesyesyesyesyes

my best friend moved when i was seven, and then again to the UK recently

*hugshugshugshugshugs*

*hugs*

[Through the Living Wrath he/him]

7 hours ago, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

*huuuuugs*
In my case, I was the one moving. It gets better.

[Keke They/he]

Just now, SpiritOfWrath said:

*huuuuugs*
In my case, I was the one moving. It gets better.

*hugs*

I remembered..... two of my other friends are also moving. Literally half my friends. 

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

12 minutes ago, Hawks said:

I remembered..... two of my other friends are also moving. Literally half my friends. 

*hugs*

Just want to remind everyone of two things:
1) GET SLEEP. Good sleep is good for you for a lot of reasons, but it has been proven to have a major positive impact on mental health

2) A large portion of the time, people tend to be more depressed/anxious at night. This is how it goes for a lot of people, because A) We don't process things throughout the day and so everything hits us at once when we're trying to sleep, and B.), we're by ourselves, and so will feel more lonely. So if you're ever feeling really depressed, and it's late at night, often one of the best things to do is just go to sleep. It's often good to quickly journal (or vent here if you want) out all the stresses/things bothering you to get them out of your head and onto paper, then do what you can to hit the hay. Get off screens, try to clear your mind, and really just try and fall asleep. People always say that everything looks better in the daylight, and that's scientifically true from a mental health standpoint. Things won't be fixed, but your outlook on them might be better in the morning.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk. 

[Keke They/he]

7 minutes ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

*hugs*

Just want to remind everyone of two things:
1) GET SLEEP. Good sleep is good for you for a lot of reasons, but it has been proven to have a major positive impact on mental health

2) A large portion of the time, people tend to be more depressed/anxious at night. This is how it goes for a lot of people, because A) We don't process things throughout the day and so everything hits us at once when we're trying to sleep, and B.), we're by ourselves, and so will feel more lonely. So if you're ever feeling really depressed, and it's late at night, often one of the best things to do is just go to sleep. It's often good to quickly journal (or vent here if you want) out all the stresses/things bothering you to get them out of your head and onto paper, then do what you can to hit the hay. Get off screens, try to clear your mind, and really just try and fall asleep. People always say that everything looks better in the daylight, and that's scientifically true from a mental health standpoint. Things won't be fixed, but your outlook on them might be better in the morning.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk. 

*hugs*

Thanks, the part about stuff at night i get alot

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

11 hours ago, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

*hugs*

4 hours ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

I hung out with two separate last year who flew in from Germany, so it's technically possible /j 

Actually the first time I’ll probably be able to go to Dragonsteel is when I’m over in Germany…

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

To everyone who needs it: *hugs attack*

I'll be answering some messages in more detail later when I get some time (tonight or tomorrow hopefully)

Remember everyone, I and many others love you

Znd you're all incredible people

Yes even you who are reading this

Good night 

[Shatter He/Him]

18 hours ago, Hawks said:

Dyall get super attached to people then they tell you their gonna move and now your dead. 

I have a friend (we'll call him A1) who is not moving, but he's going to Israel for yeshiva (essentially jewish college). We've  been friends since Grade 2. 11 YEARS! He'll be going at the end of the summer.