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Posted
7 hours ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

If you're questioning it, it's usually an actual problem

General rule of thumb

Otherwise, like, go to a doctor

mm but how do you know

preferably w/out a dr bc i'm rly scared of them

Posted
1 minute ago, Just-A-Stick said:

mm but how do you know

preferably w/out a dr bc i'm rly scared of them

...

Without a doc, you don't know

But like

Again. You're questioning it, which suggests it's legit

Posted
1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

...

Without a doc, you don't know

But like

Again. You're questioning it, which suggests it's legit

i dont want to get my parents involved and i'm still on their insurance... so no dr unless i tell them which i cant

Posted
8 hours ago, Just-A-Stick said:

*waves*

does anyone know how i can tell if i have an actual serious problem or if i'm faking/being dramatic/imagining it?

specifically w/ eating disorders

if it's impacting your everyday life... It is a problem worth respecting

Posted
Just now, Aeoryi said:

if it's impacting your everyday life... It is a problem worth respecting

...maybe... idk i guess i'm just scared

Posted
2 minutes ago, Just-A-Stick said:

...maybe... idk i guess i'm just scared

It's alright

Deep breaths

It'll be okay

If it's really this bad, girlie, they're right

And I know it's hard to think about but you shouldn't have to feel guilty for taking care of yourself, alright?

Please please try to get help 🫂

Posted
1 minute ago, Through The Living Glass said:

It's alright

Deep breaths

It'll be okay

If it's really this bad, girlie, they're right

And I know it's hard to think about but you shouldn't have to feel guilty for taking care of yourself, alright?

Please please try to get help 🫂

trying

Posted
2 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

Talking helps

Processing how you're feeling

Motivation and encouragement

Stuff like that ❤️

okay... i feel lost and hurt and my heart feels ready to explode (in a bad way) and my brain feels fuzzy an confused

Posted
5 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

🫂

Why do you think that is?

unpacked a lot with my mentor earlier in terms of why my image of myself is so screwed up and how that relates to my dad not being the father figure i needed as a kid

Posted
1 minute ago, Just-A-Stick said:

unpacked a lot with my mentor earlier in terms of why my image of myself is so screwed up and how that relates to my dad not being the father figure i needed as a kid

Ahh 🫂

I'm so sorry 🫂

Is there anything physical about how you're feeling right now?

Posted
Just now, Through The Living Glass said:

Ahh 🫂

I'm so sorry 🫂

Is there anything physical about how you're feeling right now?

headache, nauseous, cold and muscles feel shaky... my lungs feel rly heavy, like they're tired and want to stop working so hard and my eyes are blurry

Posted (edited)
5 minutes ago, Just-A-Stick said:

headache, nauseous, cold and muscles feel shaky... my lungs feel rly heavy, like they're tired and want to stop working so hard and my eyes are blurry

Do you need water? 🫂

Edited by Through The Living Glass
Posted (edited)
10 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said:

Do you need water? 🫂

most definitly

 

i talked with my soon-to-be boss last night about all this yk cuz she's an adult and stuff and she seemed supportive of me not being so stressed out and actually eating/taking care of myself...

she's the best and i cant wait to work for her because she said i can play whatever (clean) music i want while i work and when its slow (its a store so just customer service is my job) i can work on homework/be on my laptop whenever so long as i'm friendly w/ customers and help them

so work won't be stressful which is really good bc i need the moneys

Edited by Just-A-Stick
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Posted
6 hours ago, Just-A-Stick said:

most definitly

 

i talked with my soon-to-be boss last night about all this yk cuz she's an adult and stuff and she seemed supportive of me not being so stressed out and actually eating/taking care of myself...

she's the best and i cant wait to work for her because she said i can play whatever (clean) music i want while i work and when its slow (its a store so just customer service is my job) i can work on homework/be on my laptop whenever so long as i'm friendly w/ customers and help them

so work won't be stressful which is really good bc i need the moneys

Glad to hear that 

and for the rest

*megahug*

 

yeah i agree that if you think it's a problem, and it negatively affects your life, then it's probably indeed a problem

this might sound self-evident, but it's not always easy to see those kinds of things from the inside

 

I'm not a doc, so I can't tell you precisely what's happening

but you should try to get a medical opinion

I know doctors are scary, but most of them are cool honestly

It will work out

I promise you

*hugs again*

*more hugs*

*more more hugs*

Posted
11 hours ago, Just-A-Stick said:

most definitly

 

i talked with my soon-to-be boss last night about all this yk cuz she's an adult and stuff and she seemed supportive of me not being so stressed out and actually eating/taking care of myself...

she's the best and i cant wait to work for her because she said i can play whatever (clean) music i want while i work and when its slow (its a store so just customer service is my job) i can work on homework/be on my laptop whenever so long as i'm friendly w/ customers and help them

so work won't be stressful which is really good bc i need the moneys

Good!! That's really good 🫂

You need anything? ❤️

Posted
5 hours ago, Throw TheLiving Silverware said:

Glad to hear that 

and for the rest

*megahug*

 

yeah i agree that if you think it's a problem, and it negatively affects your life, then it's probably indeed a problem

this might sound self-evident, but it's not always easy to see those kinds of things from the inside

 

I'm not a doc, so I can't tell you precisely what's happening

but you should try to get a medical opinion

I know doctors are scary, but most of them are cool honestly

It will work out

I promise you

*hugs again*

*more hugs*

*more more hugs*

*hugs back* thank you for the advice and hugs

31 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

Good!! That's really good 🫂

You need anything? ❤️

*hugs*

i don't know

Posted

I had a rough conversation with a friend today, basically she has (I think it’s called) double depression that is med resistant I think is the term so basically meds do pretty much nothing and the statistics for people with like her specific stuff is that most don’t live past 21 and so she’s pretty much given up on living and like bc of it the school doesn’t count her absent so she just often just doesn’t show up to school and I rly care abt her and it hurts to see her just give up but I also know if I was in her shoes I would too

Posted

help

im feeling perfectly fine and not depressed atm and slightly happy but also not deep down maybe just cuz I didn't get enough sleep and tired and weird today but also I'm perfectly fine but also not because intrusive thoughts go brrr kinda but they are a different variety of intrusive thoughts than the ones i was plagued by before

and idk what's an intrusive thought and what's an actual thought that might need help for

Posted

I got a job! I'll be working at a hospital cleaning rooms and anything else that needs done. Hoping im good at the job and this can last a while. 

Posted
32 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

help

im feeling perfectly fine and not depressed atm and slightly happy but also not deep down maybe just cuz I didn't get enough sleep and tired and weird today but also I'm perfectly fine but also not because intrusive thoughts go brrr kinda but they are a different variety of intrusive thoughts than the ones i was plagued by before

and idk what's an intrusive thought and what's an actual thought that might need help for

intrusive thoughts you can't control they just come up and whether you educate them or not is a different story but like il

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