Certified Gay Disasters

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Oh, i'm sorry your parents are like that.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

20 minutes ago, Ruku said:

FIFTEEN- no, I read the Societal Dysphoria one. I plan on reading the rest another time as my anti-lgbtq+ parent(one of two) is home.

Oof yah what akimo said I’m sorry

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

17 hours ago, Ink and Embers said:

The ones I know are platonic, alterous, romantic, sexual, aesthetic, and sensual. There are probably more. 

Platonic: I want to be friends with you

Alterous: I want to be friends with you or date you? Either is cool?

Romantic: I want to date you

Sexual: I want to sleep with you

Aesthetic: Wow that's pretty

Sensual: I want to hug you

As I said, there are almost certainly more!

Personally as an ace I Do Not Understand sexual attraction. Whenever my friends start talking about it I just sit there going "?!! What?!!!". My family automatically assumes anyone who doesn't want to sleep with people is a nun, which is wrong on so many levels. So that's fun

 @Ruku Welcome to the Shard, fellow questioning trans person!!!!! Good luck figuring out your gender!!! (That is not supposed to sound sarcastic; I'm just terrible at tone)

As an aro i dont understand romantic love (ish)

And i dont like to talk about the waking nightmares that keep me asleep at night

[Akimikoisthecutest]

8 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

As an aro i dont understand romantic love (ish)

Real

[Chara She/her]

39 minutes ago, Honors ghost said:

Oof yah what akimo said I’m sorry

I'm used to it. They don't know I'm how I am, but I know this since my elder sis is Bi.

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

6 hours ago, Hawks said:

 

You double posted again *bap*

  Hide contents

should i summon The Mod Will???

hehehe

funny prank 

 

You ping me?

5 hours ago, Honors ghost said:

Hehhehehehe I’ll do it someday I’ll prob come out as nonbinary first at the dojo then officially with my less close friends then gradually come out as trans to dojo then less close friends. Idk man I’m working on it

Ohh see now I understand

 

Also crap I missed a lot ofstufff that I don't have time to go through rn but *hugs* to anbody who needs it

[Hmmm lies she/her]

3 hours ago, Honors ghost said:

@Hmmm lies posted this in here a while ago but here’s a resource tha really helped me figure myself out and it’s kinda a lot but I rly recommend you read all of the chapters https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/social-dysphoria

 

3 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

It is very helpful. I can attest to this.

 

2 hours ago, Ruku said:

That was certainly explanatory.

Yoooo let's go! (Always happy when I can help)

 

And yeah, I would read the whole thing when you've got the time.

[Chara She/her]

1 hour ago, Hmmm lies said:

 

 

Yoooo let's go! (Always happy when I can help)

 

And yeah, I would read the whole thing when you've got the time.

Will do.

@Hawks get over here.

Edited October 28, 2025 by Ruku

[Keke They/he]

2 minutes ago, Ruku said:

Will do.

@Hawks get over here.

Wut?

[Chara She/her]

23 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Wut?

Thanks for telling me of this ~cult~ definitely normal site.

[Hmmm lies she/her]

7 hours ago, Ruku said:

Thanks for telling me of this ~cult~ definitely normal site.

you know I don't think I've actually touched any of the forums outside this single thread in months, except when I want to see what people think about the latest book to come out

[momadrac they/them]

Hiii again

Also do not know what is going on so *hugs* and *gives out garlic bread and cake to everybody* 

[Chara She/her]

1 hour ago, momadrac said:

Hiii again

Also do not know what is going on so *hugs* and *gives out garlic bread and cake to everybody* 

Hey, so actually I had been questioning whether I was Trans, femboy, or a demigirl, and now I'm leaning more towards Trans, so I'm here testing She/They pronouns to see if it actually fits me. I do think I am actually Trans and plan to talk to my therapist about it. Quietly, however, as my parents are anti.

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

2 minutes ago, Ruku said:

Hey, so actually I had been questioning whether I was Trans, femboy, or a demigirl, and now I'm leaning more towards Trans, so I'm here testing She/They pronouns to see if it actually fits me. I do think I am actually Trans and plan to talk to my therapist about it. Quietly, however, as my parents are anti.

*hugs*

[Keke They/he]

11 hours ago, Ruku said:

Thanks for telling me of this ~cult~ definitely normal site.

Ofc!!

4 hours ago, Hmmm lies said:

you know I don't think I've actually touched any of the forums outside this single thread in months, except when I want to see what people think about the latest book to come out

Pfft. Yeah your the Queen of the Queera

2 hours ago, momadrac said:

Hiii again

Also do not know what is going on so *hugs* and *gives out garlic bread and cake to everybody* 

HAIIIIIIIIIIIII

I cant eat itttt am sikkk

[Hmmm lies she/her]

17 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Pfft. Yeah your the Queen of the Queera

*Me undergoing a crisis after realizing I'm an actually important person on this incredibly niche corner of the internet*

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Yeah Lies is like the main person here 

[Keke They/he]

6 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

*Me undergoing a crisis after realizing I'm an actually important person on this incredibly niche corner of the internet*

LIES!!! well like im yelling your name.... anywyas. You are SUPER important!!! And I would be DYING if you werent hwre *hugs*

3 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Yeah Lies is like the main person here 

Yes truth

[Hmmm lies she/her]

Just now, SpartanBrigade said:

Yeah Lies is like the main person here 

*dies from high praise*

Just now, Hawks said:

LIES!!! well like im yelling your name.... anywyas. You are SUPER important!!! And I would be DYING if you werent hwre *hugs*

Yes truth

*revives from more high praise*

It's funny, like 30 pages ago, I just kinda showed up, questioned my gender, and became a part of this place. My queer awakening was less than 2 years ago. I have to give this thread some credit for helping me out on my journey (even if an IRL friend I had arguably helped the most)

The reason I'm one of the go-to experts for all this queer stuff isn't because I'm super experienced with all of it. It's because I'm a massive nerd, and queer stuff is just one of my special interests (In hindsight, maybe it should have ticked me off that I, a 'totally cis guy' had a special interest in queer stuff).

But I'm actually super happy to be a part of this, and every time I help someone, weather it's helping someone discover their identity, or just clearing up confusion over a specific term, I feel real good.

So if y'all think I'm that important... maybe I shouldn't argue.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 hour ago, Hmmm lies said:

*Me undergoing a crisis after realizing I'm an actually important person on this incredibly niche corner of the internet*

Haha Yurp all the homos and all other memebers of the alphabet gang know who you are

[Chara She/her]

1 hour ago, Hmmm lies said:

*dies from high praise*

*revives from more high praise*

It's funny, like 30 pages ago, I just kinda showed up, questioned my gender, and became a part of this place. My queer awakening was less than 2 years ago. I have to give this thread some credit for helping me out on my journey (even if an IRL friend I had arguably helped the most)

The reason I'm one of the go-to experts for all this queer stuff isn't because I'm super experienced with all of it. It's because I'm a massive nerd, and queer stuff is just one of my special interests (In hindsight, maybe it should have ticked me off that I, a 'totally cis guy' had a special interest in queer stuff).

But I'm actually super happy to be a part of this, and every time I help someone, weather it's helping someone discover their identity, or just clearing up confusion over a specific term, I feel real good.

So if y'all think I'm that important... maybe I shouldn't argue.

Meanwhile, my queer awakening: ~2 months ago~

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

1984 might be the straightest book I've read
I did not expect this

Half the book is about how much Winston hates women and the other half is about how  much Winston lusts after women
What

[Keke They/he]

10 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

1984 might be the straightest book I've read
I did not expect this

Half the book is about how much Winston hates women and the other half is about how  much Winston lusts after women
What

Never read it but it sounds?? 

[Hmmm lies she/her]

12 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

1984 might be the straightest book I've read
I did not expect this

Half the book is about how much Winston hates women and the other half is about how  much Winston lusts after women
What

Yeah but Winston isn't supposed to be a "good person," he's just the protagonist

(I've never actually read the book, but I know a lot about it.)

[Chara She/her]

4 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

Yeah but Winston isn't supposed to be a "good person," he's just the protagonist

(I've never actually read the book, but I know a lot about it.)

I step away for 30 minutes and we go from queer to a frigging book...