Certified Gay Disasters

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

They are

It's also heavy in the South

I should know, I was raised the same way

Yay, trauma! Yay, trust issues!

Si

[momadrac they/them]

2 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Quite messed up

I think most straight guys are trained to repress emotions and kinda cut themselves off
Even with their friends they don’t open up very much and so they’re really lonely
Aaaand that causes issues cause it leads to them not being very well balanced 

EXACTLY

I’ve never understood how people lock eyes for two seconds, go “awooga”, and bang they’re together 

Like cavemen

Huh????

YES

awooga is crazy, literally

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

I feel like you need to be friends for like

At least a year before getting romantic feelings

Idk

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

2 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

I feel like you need to be friends for like

At least a year before getting romantic feelings

Idk

Well

Idk

I have certainly formed them sooner in some cases, but at least after some time knowing the person

[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

Fair enough

Just

Friends for a while first 

[Keke They/he]

7 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said:

I feel like you need to be friends for like

At least a year before getting romantic feelings

Idk

 

4 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Well

Idk

I have certainly formed them sooner in some cases, but at least after some time knowing the person

 

1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Fair enough

Just

Friends for a while first 

Yeah.

Tbh it feels weird to say but in general im not sure i have any of the mainstream feelings for my bf (romantic or sexual) which ofc makes sense cause im aroace. 

But Im worried if i tell someone they will be like

Oooh so your leading him on or your faking. 

No chat there's more to it then that. 

There's like 5 other forms of attraction T_T.

Anyways ima tag my cuz in here so she can find this thread

@Ruku

[Chara She/her]

6 minutes ago, Hawks said:

 

 

Yeah.

Tbh it feels weird to say but in general im not sure i have any of the mainstream feelings for my bf (romantic or sexual) which ofc makes sense cause im aroace. 

But Im worried if i tell someone they will be like

Oooh so your leading him on or your faking. 

No chat there's more to it then that. 

There's like 5 other forms of attraction T_T.

Anyways ima tag my cuz in here so she can find this thread

@Ruku

YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?!!!!

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

Just now, Ruku said:

YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?!!!!

Pfft new person finding out oldish lore

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Ruku said:

YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?!!!!

I SWEAR IF YOU TELL ANYONE IM COOKED OK!?!?

What happens in the shard stays on the shard

Just now, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Pfft new person finding out oldish lore

Guys listen no one irl but some school friends know.

[Chara She/her]

Just now, Hawks said:

I SWEAR IF YOU TELL ANYONE IM COOKED OK!?!?

What happens in the shard stays on the shard

Guys listen no one irl but some school friends know.

Right. I have a boyfriend too. Nonbinary/trans, so I have a boyfriend, girlfriend, amd they/themfriend

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

1 minute ago, Hawks said:

I SWEAR IF YOU TELL ANYONE IM COOKED OK!?!?

What happens in the shard stays on the shard

Guys listen no one irl but some school friends know.

Cept for stuff @Honors ghost says. Then I will tease her if applicable irl

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Ruku said:

Right. I have a boyfriend too. Nonbinary/trans, so I have a boyfriend, girlfriend, amd they/themfriend

SINCE WHEN? 

WHO?

DETAILS DUKE

DETAILS

Just now, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Cept for stuff @Honors ghost says. Then I will tease her if applicable irl

Bro I gotta get honors and hmmmlies online cause they are our transfems. 

[Chara She/her]

2 minutes ago, Hawks said:

I SWEAR IF YOU TELL ANYONE IM COOKED OK!?!?

What happens in the shard stays on the shard

Guys listen no one irl but some school friends know.

Dawg this is still news to me

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

Just now, Hawks said:

SINCE WHEN? 

WHO?

DETAILS DUKE

DETAILS

Bro I gotta get honors and hmmmlies online cause they are our transfems. 

Izzy has either already gone to bed, or her parents took her phone and she went to bed

Or she's about to sneak it and hop on at like midnight

[Chara She/her]

Just now, Hawks said:

SINCE WHEN? 

WHO?

DETAILS DUKE

DETAILS

Bro I gotta get honors and hmmmlies online cause they are our transfems. 

I actually don't like "Duke" as a name but yeah, I got a partner, Sorella. Going strong since March 15 for a year.

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Ruku said:

Dawg this is still news to me

*pats pat*

Just now, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Izzy has either already gone to bed, or her parents took her phone and she went to bed

Or she's about to sneak it and hop on at like midnight

Mmmm

Real

Just now, Ruku said:

I actually don't like "Duke" as a name but yeah, I got a partner, Sorella. Going strong since March 15 for a year.

Okie thanks for that

Wait one year

Lemme think

SO YOU DIDNT TELL ME EVEN AFTER OUR WHOLE ENTIRE COMVERSATIONS THE LAST TKME I WAS DOWN THERE!?

wow

[Chara She/her]

2 minutes ago, Hawks said:

*pats pat*

Mmmm

Real

Okie thanks for that

Wait one year

Lemme think

SO YOU DIDNT TELL ME EVEN AFTER OUR WHOLE ENTIRE COMVERSATIONS THE LAST TKME I WAS DOWN THERE!?

wow

To be fair, I've been busy with the mental storm titled "Questioning LGBTQ+"

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Ruku said:

To be fair, I've been busy with the mental storm titled "Questioning LGBTQ+"

Fair fair

*pat pat* smol child

Tis ok

You shall figure life out soon enough

[Chara She/her]

1 minute ago, Hawks said:

Fair fair

*pat pat* smol child

Tis ok

You shall figure life out soon enough

*screaming white kitten meme*

2 minutes ago, Hawks said:

Fair fair

*pat pat* smol child

Tis ok

You shall figure life out soon enough

Also, did you notice my PFP yet?

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Ruku said:

*screaming white kitten meme*

??

[Chara She/her]

Just now, Hawks said:

??

Just texted u

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

2 hours ago, momadrac said:

I just can't

No offence everyone but I don't understand the media saying things like "We met at a bar, known each other for two minutes and I'm in LOVE", its like why would you want to date someone you only just met you need time (I'm also demiromantic so......... yeah. Probably also missed the point) 

 

1 hour ago, SpartanBrigade said:

Quite messed up

I think most straight guys are trained to repress emotions and kinda cut themselves off
Even with their friends they don’t open up very much and so they’re really lonely
Aaaand that causes issues cause it leads to them not being very well balanced 

EXACTLY

I’ve never understood how people lock eyes for two seconds, go “awooga”, and bang they’re together 

Like cavemen

Huh????

EXACTLY

1 hour ago, Hawks said:

 

 

Yeah.

Tbh it feels weird to say but in general im not sure i have any of the mainstream feelings for my bf (romantic or sexual) which ofc makes sense cause im aroace. 

But Im worried if i tell someone they will be like

Oooh so your leading him on or your faking. 

No chat there's more to it then that. 

There's like 5 other forms of attraction T_T.

Anyways ima tag my cuz in here so she can find this thread

@Ruku

What are the other 5 again?

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

2 hours ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

EXACTLY

What are the other 5 again?

The ones I know are platonic, alterous, romantic, sexual, aesthetic, and sensual. There are probably more. 

Platonic: I want to be friends with you

Alterous: I want to be friends with you or date you? Either is cool?

Romantic: I want to date you

Sexual: I want to sleep with you

Aesthetic: Wow that's pretty

Sensual: I want to hug you

As I said, there are almost certainly more!

Personally as an ace I Do Not Understand sexual attraction. Whenever my friends start talking about it I just sit there going "?!! What?!!!". My family automatically assumes anyone who doesn't want to sleep with people is a nun, which is wrong on so many levels. So that's fun

 @Ruku Welcome to the Shard, fellow questioning trans person!!!!! Good luck figuring out your gender!!! (That is not supposed to sound sarcastic; I'm just terrible at tone)

[Hmmm lies she/her]

8 hours ago, Ruku said:

I actually don't like "Duke" as a name but yeah, I got a partner, Sorella. Going strong since March 15 for a year.

Huh, that's exactly 1 day before I realized I was trans. Interesting.

Also hi, I'm one of the resident transfems you've heard so much about. I wasn't here when you joined, but it's nice to see another egg possibly begin to crack

(egg as slang term definition if you don't know)

Spoiler

A trans person who hasn't yet realized they're trans.

We'll all be here to help if you need it or have questions or stuff.

Edited October 27, 2025 by Hmmm lies

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

9 hours ago, momadrac said:

Yeah also true

 

By the way, off topic, but @Honors ghost, I love your new profile picture!

Hehehehe thxxxxx Gwen Stacy is my queen

8 hours ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Cept for stuff @Honors ghost says. Then I will tease her if applicable irl

I won’t be back til January good luck getting meere

8 hours ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

Izzy has either already gone to bed, or her parents took her phone and she went to bed

Or she's about to sneak it and hop on at like midnight

I can’t do that anymore they hid my phone so instead I get on my Nintendo and play Minecraft and watch trans TikTok compilations bc they make me happy

heheheh this is so fun more trans people :3333

Edited October 27, 2025 by Honors ghost