Aeoryi she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 maybe waiting isn't that awful if I can like pass as fem by uni then like that'd be optimal #realistictransitiongoals nini my friends 4
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 8 hours ago, Aeoryi said: maybe waiting isn't that awful if I can like pass as fem by uni then like that'd be optimal #realistictransitiongoals nini my friends *hugs* if that’s how you feel then that’s great
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 13 Posted January 13 8 hours ago, Aeoryi said: maybe waiting isn't that awful if I can like pass as fem by uni then like that'd be optimal #realistictransitiongoals nini my friends *hugs* I stared at that for a good eight minutes before I realized you were shortening "night-night" 1
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 21 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: *hugs* I stared at that for a good eight minutes before I realized you were shortening "night-night" I stared at it for less and.... didn't realize 1
ParaTulip fae/faer (declines as she/her) Posted January 13 Posted January 13 8 hours ago, Aeoryi said: #realistictransitiongoals Oh, since you seem to be thinking about this a bunch: Have you talk to your mom about either clothes or makeup? Obviously none of that is essential, but it can be helpful to learn some background "How do I interface with the commodity culture" information if you want an easier time. I was unfortunately in the position where my mom had passed away by the time I started my transition, so I had to deal with the awkwardness of either asking a friend or going online when one wasn't around. 4
momadrac they/them Posted January 13 Posted January 13 17 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, since you seem to be thinking about this a bunch: Have you talk to your mom about either clothes or makeup? Obviously none of that is essential, but it can be helpful to learn some background "How do I interface with the commodity culture" information if you want an easier time. I was unfortunately in the position where my mom had passed away by the time I started my transition, so I had to deal with the awkwardness of either asking a friend or going online when one wasn't around. are you a new people or did u change your name? if new people, welcome if not, welcome (again)
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 43 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, since you seem to be thinking about this a bunch: Have you talk to your mom about either clothes or makeup? Obviously none of that is essential, but it can be helpful to learn some background "How do I interface with the commodity culture" information if you want an easier time. I was unfortunately in the position where my mom had passed away by the time I started my transition, so I had to deal with the awkwardness of either asking a friend or going online when one wasn't around. Yooo, it's ParaTulip. I see you on the forums arguing with people a lot, and usually agree with said arguments.
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 57 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, since you seem to be thinking about this a bunch: Have you talk to your mom about either clothes or makeup? Obviously none of that is essential, but it can be helpful to learn some background "How do I interface with the commodity culture" information if you want an easier time. I was unfortunately in the position where my mom had passed away by the time I started my transition, so I had to deal with the awkwardness of either asking a friend or going online when one wasn't around. Hey I’ve seen you around
ParaTulip fae/faer (declines as she/her) Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) 2 hours ago, momadrac said: are you a new people or did u change your name? if new people, welcome if not, welcome (again) See first attachment or forum profile. "a new people" is hard to parse. 2 hours ago, Hmmm lies said: ... usually agree with said arguments. *notices your forum signature* Yeah, you would. I think part of the arguing is being the Elsecaller personality type. Not to uncritically platform the idea of personality types, but it is a mood. 2 hours ago, Honors Ghost said: Hey I’ve seen you around The feel is asymmetric, but nice to meet you. Edited January 13 by ParaTulip Noticed some stuff was italics for no good reason. 1
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) 6 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Noticed some stuff was italics for no good reason. Same, but I declined to point it out So, are you new to CGD (Certified Gay Disasters) or not? I didn't really understand what "See first attachment or forum profile" meant. But, welcome! I'm pretty new to CGD too. Edited January 13 by Theory 1
ParaTulip fae/faer (declines as she/her) Posted January 13 Posted January 13 1 minute ago, Theory said: So, are you new to CGD (Certified Gay Disasters) or not? Oh, yes. That I am new to.
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 13 Posted January 13 8 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: See first attachment or forum profile. "a new people" is hard to parse. *notices your forum signature* Yeah, you would. I think part of the arguing is being the Elsecaller personality type. Not to uncritically platform the idea of personality types, but it is a mood. The feel is asymmetric, but nice to meet you. Hi Welcome (or welcome back, idk) 1
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: or welcome back, idk See above post 1 minute ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, yes. That [CGD] I am new to. Edited January 13 by Theory 1
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 13 Posted January 13 1 minute ago, Theory said: See above post Yeah I saw it after I posted 1
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 13 Posted January 13 18 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, yes. That I am new to. Hello! Welcome! I would guess this is a yes from your pronouns, but are you also an enjoyer of the Fae?
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 42 minutes ago, ParaTulip said: Oh, yes. That I am new to. Ohh heyy I’ve seen you before 1
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) Yall, do you have anything someone might find relatable if they turned out to be trans? Asking for a friend. For totally cis reasons. Edited January 13 by Theory 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 2 minutes ago, Theory said: Yall, do you have anything someone might find relatable if they turned out to be trans? Asking for a friend. For totally cis reasons. Looking back, and feeling like you should have realized it earlier.
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Just now, Hmmm lies said: Looking back, and feeling like you should have realized it earlier. How so?
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 3 minutes ago, Theory said: How so? I remember, especially in the years leading up to me realizing it, that I was envious of girls. I also would usually choose female characters in video games and write female characters in my writing. I also remember thinking that gender stereotypes were dumb and stupid and bad.
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: I remember, especially in the years leading up to me realizing it, that I was envious of girls. I also would usually choose female characters in video games and write female characters in my writing. I also remember thinking that gender stereotypes were dumb and stupid and bad. One of the things I've related when reading stuff in the past few days is that envy, I think. I've seen ppl say choosing female characters, but I honestly don't play that many videogames, and only had a female character maybe once (for a short time I believe). I also play D&D (a roleplaying game), but my characters are never female, even if I consider it. I guess I just think it would be too weird? I do, however, write female characters in writing, "to have variety." Tho in reality I would probably always or nearly always write female characters if I didn't think that wouldn't come across as odd. Depends on the stereotypes for me ig, but I probably agree w/u on that. Edit: I've actually never done much writing before two weeks ago, and I enjoyed writing female characters then. Whenever I thought about starting a story in the months/weeks prior, I always obsessed about what gender to make the characters. Also, I like reading books with FMCs (female main characters) like Shallan hehe (I know most people hate her but she's my fave character). Edit again: read the whole thing, this might sound odd at first: What are/were your thoughts when you think/thought of guys? I don't mean in a romantic/attraction sense, but, like, do/did (before you realized you were trans, maybe even after idk) ever think of yourself belonging with them? What about online (like forums or the like)? Did you imagine guys there as...I guess dudebros, or just like...idk how to explain it. I guess online I like talking to girls/women (hopefully that doesn't sound bad), and guys...less so. Tho I did talk to at least one guy who I "liked" (as in, was sort of a friend with, not as in being "attracted" to.) IRL...the story's different. Since I'm pretty/very introverted. Edited January 13 by Theory
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Just now, Theory said: One of the things I've related when reading stuff in the past few days is that envy, I think. Gender envy is so real 2 minutes ago, Theory said: I also play D&D (a roleplaying game), but my characters are never female, even if I consider it. I guess I just think it would be too weird? Yeah, it was honestly similar with me 3 minutes ago, Theory said: I do, however, write female characters in writing, "to have variety." Tho in reality I would probably always or nearly always write female characters if I didn't think that wouldn't come across as odd. I think I have more fun writing when I don't add DEI male characters (half joking, I do have more fun, but I realize the quality of my writing suffers. Still, I have like never written about a straight couple).
6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: Gender envy is so real Yeah, it was honestly similar with me I think I have more fun writing when I don't add DEI male characters (half joking, I do have more fun, but I realize the quality of my writing suffers. Still, I have like never written about a straight couple). I edited my previous post a bunch btw while u were typing. Edited January 13 by Theory
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 13 Posted January 13 11 minutes ago, Theory said: Edit: I've actually never done much writing before two weeks ago, and I enjoyed writing female characters then. Whenever I thought about starting a story in the months/weeks prior, I always obsessed about what gender to make the characters. Also, I like reading books with FMCs (female main characters) like Shallan hehe (I know most people hate her but she's my fave character). Oh yeah I totally agree, actually. (I don't hate Shallan, but she's not my favorite either) Female main characters will always get me more invested, as a general rule. 1
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