Certified Gay Disasters

[6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾]

6 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

Uh yeah pretty much. I just notice when a new user is posting a lot, I and just saw that a lot of stuff was site questions. Your curiosity and inquisition intrigued me.

cool, nice, yeah

i even got warned (by a regular user, not admin thankfully) that i was possibly spamming the SA/Cosmere forums with short "theories" (some were kinda baddd...)

edit 2: also i forgot to say...u said "inquisition" hehe *takes of cool sunglasses to expose Inquisitor... features*

edit: yay, 200th page!

edit3: tho some of my more extensive theories that i actually had thought about never got ppl saying anything...

Edited January 11 by Theory

[Aeoryi she/her]

15 minutes ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

WHOA

Remember, you can still be one or the other, you dont need to be both or neither (learned that the existential crisis-hard way)

yeah apparently you can like women AND be one which is pretty epic 

16 minutes ago, momadrac said:

What happened?

(crush?)

I just merely realized that me not ever having any relationships ever doesn't mean I'm aro ace

[certifiedcranedriver she/her]

Your historical LGBTQ+ fun fact of the day is: (I forgor for a few days alright? I was busy trolling.)

As a sequel to the previous mention of the Weimar Republic (for those who lack context, that refers to the German government from ~1919-1933ish, otherwise known as the pre-Nazi period), they also got up to some trans stuff too. The famous Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (Institute for Sexual Science) basically invented modern sex-reassignment surgery, and while their procedures were certainly not the most... safe, they functioned well enough for those undergoing them. They also prescribed HRT to transfems, though unfortunately testosterone hadn't been synthesized yet, so nothing for transmascs (sad). Transvestite (terminology of the time, don't kill me if its outdated) passes were even handed out to allow those using them to not be arrested (in cooperation with the Berlin police) since technically it was still illegal. Further proof of LGBTQ+ supremacy.

edit: 200th page.

Edited January 11 by certifiedcranedriver
200th page! also forgor my famous ending line.

[Hmmm lies she/her]

3 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

yeah apparently you can like women AND be one which is pretty epic 

I just merely realized that me not ever having any relationships ever doesn't mean I'm aro ace

I haven't been in a relationship either, and that doesn't make the yearning any less great for me, but idk how stuff feels for you.

Edit: Everyone's editing their posts to mention that this is the 200th page, so I'll do that.

Edited January 11 by Hmmm lies

[6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Hmmm lies said:

I haven't been in a relationship either, and that doesn't make the yearning any less great for me, but idk how stuff feels for you.

lol same....

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Goodnight Y'all

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Hmmm lies said:

I haven't been in a relationship either, and that doesn't make the yearning any less great for me, but idk how stuff feels for you.

I used to have this really big crush on a girl in my grade Uhhhhh never asked her out or anything 

I just sat next to her in math a few years back and it was fun

[momadrac they/them]

Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Goodnight Y'all

Sleep well

[6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾]

3 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Goodnight Y'all

g'night to you too

3 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I used to have this really big crush on a girl in my grade Uhhhhh never asked her out or anything 

I just sat next to her in math a few years back and it was fun

*me wishing i even had that*

 

yo, cgd is trending

Spoiler

Edited January 11 by Theory

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

3 minutes ago, Theory said:

g'night to you too

*me wishing i even had that*

 

yo, cgd is trending

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YAYAYAYAY MAY THE QUEERS RULE THE WORLLLD

also night yalll

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

29 minutes ago, Theory said:

Where'd everyone go?

 

edit: totally didnt sit here refreshing for 20 minutes....nope...

At DnD rn

1 hour ago, Hmmm lies said:

So most people on this thread use it to mean queer in general, which kinda annoys me honestly, as I use it just for homosexual people

1 hour ago, Theory said:

do you all use "gay" to mean gay (as in gay and lesbian) or just like queer in general? I need to learn some of the lingo i guess, or the usage of it.

I, and most of the people I know, use gay as a general category

Honestly I think Lies is the first person I've met who doesn't

[6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

YAYAYAYAY MAY THE QUEERS RULE THE WORLLLD

also night yalll

Everybody Wants to Rule the World (i luv making references and blurting out song lyrics dont mind me...)

[Hmmm lies she/her]

1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

At DnD rn

I, and most of the people I know, use gay as a general category

Honestly I think Lies is the first person I've met who doesn't

Well I'm always right so

As I understand it, it's a regional thing. I think in more progressive areas where there's more understanding of queer issues they have more distinction like that.

[Aeoryi she/her]

6 minutes ago, Theory said:

g'night to you too

*me wishing i even had that*

 

yo, cgd is trending

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it's been SOOO long 

Spoiler

And she has a boyfriend

We were close friends too and like other people in the class kept on telling me "I think she's into you" argggggg

3 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

At DnD rn

I, and most of the people I know, use gay as a general category

Honestly I think Lies is the first person I've met who doesn't

I don't/!

[momadrac they/them]

2 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

At DnD rn

I, and most of the people I know, use gay as a general category

Ooooh what's ur class

I use gay as a general category bc all of the queer people I know irl don't mind

1 minute ago, Theory said:

Everybody Wants to Rule the World (i luv making references and blurting out song lyrics dont mind me...)

Real

[certifiedcranedriver she/her]

35 minutes ago, Theory said:

Where'd everyone go?

 

edit: totally didnt sit here refreshing for 20 minutes....nope...

yep, I suffer from this too. I (perhaps obsessively) refresh this page like every 10 minutes. I just wanna see if more stuff got posted alright?

[6 7 ✾ She♡Her ✾]

4 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

Well I'm always right so

As I understand it, it's a regional thing. I think in more progressive areas where there's more understanding of queer issues they have more distinction like that.

ive met ppl who say gay to mean queer, i personally stick with lgbtq+/queer i think

2 minutes ago, certifiedcranedriver said:

yep, I suffer from this too. I (perhaps obsessively) refresh this page like every 10 minutes. I just wanna see if more stuff got posted alright?

i think u can enable push notifs (notifs for ur phone like when u get a text msg). but i dont. honestly it'd prob be too much.

 

ive always been a refresher.

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[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

4 minutes ago, momadrac said:

Ooooh what's ur class

I use gay as a general category bc all of the queer people I know irl don't mind

Real

Well...it's modified DnD, using the rules but completely disregarding class and race rules. Cause we wanted to go epic

[Hmmm lies she/her]

 So, The Matrix, (1999). A huge trans allegory.

Non-spoiler stuff: The sisters who wrote/directed it were both trans women, who realized this some time after making it. They later stated that it was a trans allegory, though they did not realize this at the time of making it.

Spoiler stuff (if you are trans or like good movies you should watch it)

Spoiler

In The Matrix, our protagonist Neo finds out that the life he's been living has been a lie, and goes to the real world, after choosing between a red pill and a blue pill. After this, he is extremely distressed, but grows to accept this true reality. This moment is pretty much breaking out of the egg, realizing that one is trans. It's really scary to realize that your life has been an illusion, but eventually, one grows to accept it. And after one realizes this? Everything seems more real. (At least, this was my experience. After realizing I was a girl, I felt more passionate and cared more about things, was more emotional, and just felt like my previous life had been fake. Let me know if you experienced something similar) The blue pill is never figuring it out. Your life doesn't go into disarray, but you continue living a lie that you won't truly be yourself in.

There was also a scrapped plotline where the character Swatch was, due to a programming error, in a male body in the real world but a female body in the Matrix. This is obviously trans as hell. (They scrapped it because they thought it would be both too radical for the time, and because they didn't want to have to get 2 actors.)

 

[Aeoryi she/her]

2 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

 So, The Matrix, (1999). A huge trans allegory.

Non-spoiler stuff: The sisters who wrote/directed it were both trans women, who realized this some time after making it. They later stated that it was a trans allegory, though they did not realize this at the time of making it.

Spoiler stuff (if you are trans or like good movies you should watch it)

  Hide contents

In The Matrix, our protagonist Neo finds out that the life he's been living has been a lie, and goes to the real world, after choosing between a red pill and a blue pill. After this, he is extremely distressed, but grows to accept this true reality. This moment is pretty much breaking out of the egg, realizing that one is trans. It's really scary to realize that your life has been an illusion, but eventually, one grows to accept it. And after one realizes this? Everything seems more real. (At least, this was my experience. After realizing I was a girl, I felt more passionate and cared more about things, was more emotional, and just felt like my previous life had been fake. Let me know if you experienced something similar) The blue pill is never figuring it out. Your life doesn't go into disarray, but you continue living a lie that you won't truly be yourself in.

There was also a scrapped plotline where the character Swatch was, due to a programming error, in a male body in the real world but a female body in the Matrix. This is obviously trans as hell. (They scrapped it because they thought it would be both too radical for the time, and because they didn't want to have to get 2 actors.)

 

damn uh

I needed to hear that

 

[certifiedcranedriver she/her]

4 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

(At least, this was my experience. After realizing I was a girl, I felt more passionate and cared more about things, was more emotional, and just felt like my previous life had been fake. Let me know if you experienced something similar)

I can mildly agree to this, though I instead get both sides of the spectrum. I get to be more emotional and passionate sometimes, other times I get to be reserved and chill (because of my functionally dual life. I'm only out to like 2 people).

Edited January 11 by certifiedcranedriver
clarification

[Hmmm lies she/her]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

damn uh

I needed to hear that

 

How so?

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Hmmm lies said:

How so?

The part about choosing whether to never come to terms with it and always being regretful of what could be, or choosing to embrace the new you

For me I had separated my life into an online "female" persona and an offline "male" persona and I kept both of them very separate. When I finally got to choose between the two I kinda just realized I liked being female more. But for years and years I just sort of hid it away as some sort of weird obsession I had, and I never gave myself the option to take the other pill. And it was awful for me. 

Nothing felt more real to me, but I will say that when I boymode it seems more fake to me now. But so does the "real" me, so to speak, for some reason (mostly relating to the incongruence of identity I had going on for a good three-four years). Because of the amount of time I spent telling myself I wasn't a girl, and that I couldn't be, and that it was normal, and whatever, I now find it extremely difficult to be who I want to be 

[Hmmm lies she/her]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

The part about choosing whether to never come to terms with it and always being regretful of what could be, or choosing to embrace the new you

For me I had separated my life into an online "female" persona and an offline "male" persona and I kept both of them very separate. When I finally got to choose between the two I kinda just realized I liked being female more. But for years and years I just sort of hid it away as some sort of weird obsession I had, and I never gave myself the option to take the other pill. And it was awful for me. 

Nothing felt more real to me, but I will say that when I boymode it seems more fake to me now. But so does the "real" me, so to speak, for some reason (mostly relating to the incongruence of identity I had going on for a good three-four years). Because of the amount of time I spent telling myself I wasn't a girl, and that I couldn't be, and that it was normal, and whatever, I now find it extremely difficult to be who I want to be 

Girl that's so real.

Huh, this kinda surprised me. I just kinda assumed that since it seemed like you knew you were trans for longer than I do, you would have more of a handle on it and stuff, but I realize now that that's not necessarily the case.

I'd love to try and help you out, give you advice/support if you wanna talk about this more.

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

22 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

it's been SOOO long 

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And she has a boyfriend

We were close friends too and like other people in the class kept on telling me "I think she's into you" argggggg

I don't/!

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Ohhhhhhh you thought you were a boy before, so she was straight

that makes more sense, now that i think about it