Hmmm. Cool idea!
I like this a lot, especially for Kaladin. I find it a bit similar to the fourth ideal, but there is certainly enough of a meaningful difference. Kaladin struggled to accept that his squad was breaking apart in RoW, and even though the fourth ideal somewhat covers this, I find your idea a nice addition. Sure, there are some people that Kaladin can't protect, but it's important for him to understand how to give people the tools they need to protect themselves, and then trust them enough to go and do it.
This also reminds me of something that was theorized a little while ago. I don't remember who said this and I might be phrasing it wrong but something like "I will teach others to protect themselves"? I really like these ideas.
Also, welcome to the shard!