SmilingPanda19 Any! Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 21 minutes ago, That1Cellist said: Yes. It does make sense, and I agree. I love your assertion that as your mental age increases, so does your level sadness. It really does feel too true. If life is a journey, experiences are for while you walk it, not when you've traversed and investigated every crevice. To move a direction is to learn, and part of a journey is learning and growing more. Obviously, we should make sure that we are responsible before making long term, important decisions, but I do feel like we should make decisions before the end of the adventure. Additionally, I believe that having a companion can help us greatly to improve and become much more than we could have become otherwise. Yeah but in simple terms all the guys at my school are dog poop and the one guy I had a chance with lives 8 hours away and has left me on read for over two weeks.
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 3 hours ago, SmilingPanda19 said: Oh I’ve felt romantic attraction, but something about this time in my life doesn’t seem right. I could want it desperately but I don’t really see it being the right time. I mean I’ve been the same person since I was young. I’ve simply matured enough to express myself and be self conscious of myself. I mean people think I’m 3 years older than I am all the time and my family even recognizes my mental age is much higher than my actual age, but that’s basically saying “You got depressed faster than most.” But even if I feel ready I feel I need to figure out myself. Some people say you need to find yourself before you date, but I don’t believe that. I think you need to see who are now and look at who you want to be and as you are walking in that direction find someone who is walking at the same pace you are for the same goal. Does that make sense? I agree with 99% of it, but what I slightly disagree with isn't pertinent to start another in depth conversation about- So I won't bring it up. I feel that though, Panda. I'm the same, like I really don't think it's time for myself, but I know that there will be a time when I will want to have a romantic relationship and I'll do that. I think you have the right idea about all of this, something that a lot of people haven't figured out for themselves. I myself have realized this over the process of seeing two friends of mine have a relationship (me having a previous crush on one of them) and how they've been progressing with it. the way that they're doing it, slow and steady, has made me realize that it's really just depends on who it is and if you are mature enough to take it slowly enough so that it isn't too rushed.
Immortal Platypus Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 1 hour ago, SmilingPanda19 said: Yeah but in simple terms all the guys at my school are dog poop and the one guy I had a chance with lives 8 hours away and has left me on read for over two weeks. yikes. I feel the same way about guys at my school (though I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone, especially not a guy). 54 minutes ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: I agree with 99% of it, but what I slightly disagree with isn't pertinent to start another in depth conversation about- So I won't bring it up. I feel that though, Panda. I'm the same, like I really don't think it's time for myself, but I know that there will be a time when I will want to have a romantic relationship and I'll do that. I think you have the right idea about all of this, something that a lot of people haven't figured out for themselves. I myself have realized this over the process of seeing two friends of mine have a relationship (me having a previous crush on one of them) and how they've been progressing with it. the way that they're doing it, slow and steady, has made me realize that it's really just depends on who it is and if you are mature enough to take it slowly enough so that it isn't too rushed. Yeah, jr. high, and even high school romance is bizarre, and I avoid it to avoid the drama that comes with it
That1Cellist he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 2 minutes ago, SmilingPanda19 said: Yeah but in simple terms all the guys at my school are dog poop and the one guy I had a chance with lives 8 hours away and has left me on read for over two weeks. 3 minutes ago, Being of Cacophony said: yikes. I feel the same way about guys at my school (though I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone, especially not a guy). Yeah, jr. high, and even high school romance is bizarre, and I avoid it to avoid the drama that comes with it You know, as a young guy myself, I have a really hard time with this. Because I understand how you humans are feeling. I see it every day. I feel it. And it hurts. Why can't we be better? It's challenging to be part of a group that a lot of people seem to write off as idiots. I know that most of them are better than that. Better than how they act. But... Anyway, it's very confusing to me. I'm not quite saying this right. But I understand what you humans are saying.
Immortal Platypus Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 6 minutes ago, That1Cellist said: You know, as a young guy myself, I have a really hard time with this. Because I understand how you humans are feeling. I see it every day. I feel it. And it hurts. Why can't we be better? It's challenging to be part of a group that a lot of people seem to write off as idiots. I know that most of them are better than that. Better than how they act. But... Anyway, it's very confusing to me. I'm not quite saying this right. But I understand what you humans are saying. i'm also a young guy, and I don't necessarily think they're idiots, more that they're stereotypical popular boys, that are just annoying. The worst is when I get lumped in with them, so I get what you're saying. 2
Quivil Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 (edited) see this is part of what college is for meeting people Edited September 19, 2023 by Quirksliver
Immortal Platypus Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 6 hours ago, Cinnamon said: this is our mascot. 1
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 12 hours ago, Cinnamon said: I glanced at the post and thought four things in the following order. "that's a fadran post" "that's a cool post.' "that is not a fadran post." "Why haven't I asked Cinn to be shard buddies yet?" Speeeeaaaaaking of which... wanna be shard buddies? 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 27 minutes ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: I glanced at the post and thought four things in the following order. "that's a fadran post" "that's a cool post.' "that is not a fadran post." "Why haven't I asked Cinn to be shard buddies yet?" Speeeeaaaaaking of which... wanna be shard buddies? Fadran posts are always ruined by my comments
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 Just now, Aeoryi said: Fadran posts are always ruined by my comments not always- Take a glance at his SW posts.
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 Just now, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: not always- Take a glance at his SW posts. SW?
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: SW? Star Wars. Nothing can ruin a post praising Star Wars content (unless it's the sequel trilogy, Mando s3, obi-wan's show or the dialogue in the prequels, then go right ahead and ruin it.) 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 1 minute ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: Star Wars. Nothing can ruin a post praising Star Wars content (unless it's the sequel trilogy, Mando s3, obi-wan's show or the dialogue in the prequels, then go right ahead and ruin it.) Mando 1 and 2 were god
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 19, 2023 Posted September 19, 2023 Just now, Aeoryi said: Mando 1 and 2 were god yes, yes they were. season three had a trash finale and didn't really do anything with all the lore they had. They didn't proceed with the nuance and the brilliant writing that started in the first season, nor did they have the bombastic expansion that s2 gave to it, which carried a long at least a good portion of the writing from season one (though not all of it). Season three had a lot of problems imo, the biggest was that they leaned too much into the kid's show side of it.
Cinnamon Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 On 20/9/2023 at 8:17 AM, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: I glanced at the post and thought four things in the following order. "that's a fadran post" "that's a cool post.' "that is not a fadran post." "Why haven't I asked Cinn to be shard buddies yet?" Speeeeaaaaaking of which... wanna be shard buddies? You thinking that was a Fadran post is a compliment of the highest degree Smoooooth transition lol Speeeeeaaaaaaaking of which… YEAH I’d be honoured to be your Shardbuddy! On 20/9/2023 at 8:49 AM, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: Star Wars. Nothing can ruin a post praising Star Wars content (unless it's the sequel trilogy, Mando s3, obi-wan's show or the dialogue in the prequels, then go right ahead and ruin it.) Agreed.
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 Just now, Cinnamon said: You thinking that was a Fadran post is a compliment of the highest degree Smoooooth transition lol Speeeeeaaaaaaaking of which… YEAH I’d be honoured to be your Shardbuddy! Agreed. Fadran posts can be anything from "This is the geology I found when thinking one day" to "Goku frickin sucks"
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 2 minutes ago, Cinnamon said: You thinking that was a Fadran post is a compliment of the highest degree Smoooooth transition lol Speeeeeaaaaaaaking of which… YEAH I’d be honoured to be your Shardbuddy! Agreed. Awesome- I'll put you in the signature. 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: Fadran posts can be anything from "This is the geology I found when thinking one day" to "Goku frickin sucks" He likes to keep us on our toes.
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 1 minute ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: Awesome- I'll put you in the signature. He likes to keep us on our toes. He likes to be on the next dimension
Cinnamon Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 44 minutes ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: Awesome- I'll put you in the signature. As shall I!
Aeoryi she/her Posted September 21, 2023 Posted September 21, 2023 37 minutes ago, Cinnamon said: As shall I! Connie is still my shardbuddy
Rallohir Posted October 10, 2023 Posted October 10, 2023 Don't you think it's ironic that the Single Pringles are the ones that haven't talked with each other since Sep 20th? We gotta represent!
Ravenclawjedi42 Posted October 10, 2023 Posted October 10, 2023 ALL RIGHT! I’M AROMANTIC SO I APPLY HERE! I DON’T KNIW WHY I’M IN ALL CAPS! YAY!
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