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10 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

okie..

there's also another person who seems to be avoiding it too and I'm slightly more fine with that. i came out to them earlier and yeah.. 

*hugs*

Hopefully they'll get more used to it with time; I hope it's not too painful until then

*hugs even more*

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

14 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

okie..

there's also another person who seems to be avoiding it too and I'm slightly more fine with that. i came out to them earlier and yeah.. 

yah there are friends in out too but the circumstances are dif bc I see them 90% of the time in front of people I don’t want to know so them just defaulting to they or he is fine with them

But my gf is amazing she switches perfectly she almost immediately switched and doesn’t even pause and it’s amazing

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Sorry for the double post but um

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I think I might be a lesbian…….

 

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I spent the entire day with my gf and I never want to date anyone else especially not a man ever again this is amazing I love her so muc

 

[Verdance he/him]

4 minutes ago, Through The Living Ghost said:

Sorry for the double post but um

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I think I might be a lesbian…….

 

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I spent the entire day with my gf and I never want to date anyone else especially not a man ever again this is amazing I love her so muc

 

[Aeoryi she/her]

8 minutes ago, Through The Living Ghost said:

Sorry for the double post but um

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I think I might be a lesbian…….

 

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I spent the entire day with my gf and I never want to date anyone else especially not a man ever again this is amazing I love her so muc

 

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transbian takeoverr

 

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Just now, Through The Living Skies said:

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transbian takeoverr

 

Hehhe

[Verdance he/him]

Wait so like- question, as an uneducated sheltered child from a conservative background-

when you are transgender, does that automatically mean you are attracted to your old gender and you have to state you have become homosexual to state you have become attracted to the original opposite sex? Or is it less defined than that

this is a hard question to ask, please don’t get offended if i storm it up. 

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3 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Wait so like- question, as an uneducated sheltered child from a conservative background-

when you are transgender, does that automatically mean you are attracted to your old gender and you have to state you have become homosexual to state you have become attracted to the original opposite sex? Or is it less defined than that

this is a hard question to ask, please don’t get offended if i storm it up. 

Nope

Your gender identity is generally completely unrelated to your personal attraction

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11 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Wait so like- question, as an uneducated sheltered child from a conservative background-

when you are transgender, does that automatically mean you are attracted to your old gender and you have to state you have become homosexual to state you have become attracted to the original opposite sex? Or is it less defined than that

this is a hard question to ask, please don’t get offended if i storm it up. 

I’m not offended gender and sex have zero correlation, i was bi before i came out as trans i was bi a little after im only now lesbian bc my gf is amazing

[Aeoryi she/her]

11 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Wait so like- question, as an uneducated sheltered child from a conservative background-

when you are transgender, does that automatically mean you are attracted to your old gender and you have to state you have become homosexual to state you have become attracted to the original opposite sex? Or is it less defined than that

this is a hard question to ask, please don’t get offended if i storm it up. 

If a trans woman dates a cis women, that'd be considered gay, I think. If she were to date a cis guy, she'd be straight. (Most of the time). I know sometimes trans people identify as bi because they're not really sure how to answer the question. This is like the question "if you were to suddenly turn into the opposite gender and date that gender is it straight or is it gay"

[Verdance he/him]

3 minutes ago, Through The Living Ghost said:

I’m not offended gender and sex have zero correlation, i was bi before i came out as trans i was bi a little after im only now lesbian bc my gf is amazing

Okay. Sorry, ive sort of understood the question im trying to ask rn a little better.

Im a guy who likes girls. If i become a girl, that doesn’t change that i like girls. Am I lesbian?

again sorry if im butchering terminology, its less about changing who you are and more about terminology 

edit: oof aeoryi basically said exactly what i said right as i said it 

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[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Okay. Sorry, ive sort of understood the question im trying to ask rn a little better.

Im a guy who likes girls. If i become a girl, that doesn’t change that i like girls. Am I lesbian?

again sorry if im butchering terminology, its less about changing who you are and more about terminology 

If you were a trans girl who liked ONLY girls, then yes, you'd be lesbian.

(I say "only" because bi and pan exist too)

 

edit: ya she did

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[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

2 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Okay. Sorry, ive sort of understood the question im trying to ask rn a little better.

Im a guy who likes girls. If i become a girl, that doesn’t change that i like girls. Am I lesbian?

again sorry if im butchering terminology, its less about changing who you are and more about terminology 

edit: oof aeoryi basically said exactly what i said right as i said it 

Yes

[Verdance he/him]

1 minute ago, Through The Living Ghost said:

Yes

OK. Thanks for enlightening me.

anyways CONGRATS  

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5 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

OK. Thanks for enlightening me.

anyways CONGRATS  

THXXX

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

ok idk what thread to put this buuuut

heeeellpppp

I'm just feeling restless and longing and excited and a feeling within my chest and stuffff?

i get the feeling every so often sigh and idk what it means sighsigh

i feel like my member title

"knowing everything, understanding nothing"

sigh

 

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guys am i cringe?

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[Verdance he/him]

2 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

ok idk what thread to put this buuuut

heeeellpppp

I'm just feeling restless and longing and excited and a feeling within my chest and stuffff?

i get the feeling every so often sigh and idk what it means sighsigh

i feel like my member title

"knowing everything, understanding nothing"

sigh

 

 

Friendo why do you ask everyone for help for everything

am I suppressing my emotions like a stereotypical insecure male when i say you don’t have to ask for help all the time? 
i just watched zootopia two and was pleasantly surprised by how they developed the characters further, and now i am literally just nick but without ears and a tail

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But pawbert shouldnt have been a twist villain. He should have been revealed earlier on to be untrustworthy and then given a redemption arc. 

Anyhow that sounds like you are adhd :3

try and take control of yourself. you have a lot of power over your mental state if you put your mind to it. If you can unconsciously make yourself depressed, think about how much more power you have consciously! For example, with artificial depression, sometimes rarely i just tell myself to snap out of it, then smile a bit in the mirror and go do something. For being restless and excited… idk, go play soccer or smt? Might be the forbidden combination of ADHD + C12H22O11, that sounds familiar. But it sounds like you want to be active or smt, unless im horribly wrong

go do something fun! 

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8 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Friendo why do you ask everyone for help for everything

am I suppressing my emotions like a stereotypical insecure male when i say you don’t have to ask for help all the time? 
i just watched zootopia two and was pleasantly surprised by how they developed the characters further, and now i am literally just nick but without ears and a tail

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But pawbert shouldnt have been a twist villain. He should have been revealed earlier on to be untrustworthy and then given a redemption arc. 

Anyhow that sounds like you are adhd :3

try and take control of yourself. you have a lot of power over your mental state if you put your mind to it. If you can unconsciously make yourself depressed, think about how much more power you have consciously! For example, with artificial depression, sometimes rarely i just tell myself to snap out of it, then smile a bit in the mirror and go do something. For being restless and excited… idk, go play soccer or smt? Might be the forbidden combination of ADHD + C12H22O11, that sounds familiar. But it sounds like you want to be active or smt, unless im horribly wrong

go do something fun! 

hhhhhhhh

i am adhd and ive known it for longlong for a whileee

ggggggggvv

i ask for help cuz i want to idk

i like talking to ppl or smth but I'm probably just a cringy person

 

i cant do active

actually i can but I'm "doing homework" rn annaaana annie are you okayyyyyyyy nooooooooo

 

i havent had any sugar today i dont thinkkk???? bht im feeling super ....dmdmmdmdddnndkskwieiidciicjx squirmyyyyyyyyyyy i guess i should just stop and just calm down and go full-on neutral blandy ig

 

edit i was pleasantly surprised when I saw my homescreen and remembered I changed my wallpaper to one super nice instead of a crying sad person hehe

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[Verdance he/him]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

hhhhhhhh

i am adhd and ive known it for longlong for a whileee

ggggggggvv

i ask for help cuz i want to idk

i like talking to ppl or smth but I'm probably just a cringy person

 

i cant do active

actually i can but I'm "doing homework" rn annaaana annie are you okayyyyyyyy nooooooooo

 

i havent had any sugar today i dont thinkkk???? bht im feeling super ....dmdmmdmdddnndkskwieiidciicjx squirmyyyyyyyyyyy i guess i should just stop and just calm down and go full-on neutral blandy ig

… yeah the way you type does give it away a bit XD

you’re not cringy. Maybe clingy, though I hesitate to use that word as its not exactly what im trying to convey, alas the vocabulary is limited 

did you like… microphone that? I dont understand what you’re saying with “annaaana annie are you okayyyyyyyy nooooooooo”

selah moments aren’t bad. Its okay to be chill, to not really be feeling things. That’s not necessarily apathy, just… stillness. Quiet. Or maybe i just have too much autism 

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1 minute ago, Through The Living Grass said:

… yeah the way you type does give it away a bit XD

you’re not cringy. Maybe clingy, though I hesitate to use that word as its not exactly what im trying to convey, alas the vocabulary is limited 

did you like… microphone that? I dont understand what you’re saying with “annaaana annie are you okayyyyyyyy nooooooooo”

selah moments aren’t bad. Its okay to be chill, to not really be feeling things. That’s not necessarily apathy, just… stillness. Quiet. Or maybe i just have too much autism 

SELAH??? WDYM i looked it up and it's a band or smth? smth christian thing?

 

I type and I know I type like that and I do it but I don't not becauseeeee I just don't want to not because why would I become then I would sound cold and formal. For instance, this sentence was typed in a different manner than the previous ones. I know that's a lame example lol but u get the point also I'm probably too unhingedddddd

also no i never voice type/dictattiommn cuz why? annie are you okay just look it up it's a song "smooth criminal" by the great and wonderful wizard of oz michael jackson 

idk if im clingy shrug probably oof that makes sense. .. sigh but it's still probably cringy i mean at least annoying to people sigh sigh sighhhh what am i doing .... ill probably delete this after it's just horrible

[Verdance he/him]

3 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

SELAH??? WDYM i looked it up and it's a band or smth? smth christian thing?

 

I type and I know I type like that and I do it but I don't not becauseeeee I just don't want to not because why would I become then I would sound cold and formal. For instance, this sentence was typed in a different manner than the previous ones. I know that's a lame example lol but u get the point also I'm probably too unhingedddddd

also no i never voice type/dictattiommn cuz why? annie are you okay just look it up it's a song "smooth criminal" by the great and wonderful wizard of oz michael jackson 

idk if im clingy shrug probably oof that makes sense. .. sigh but it's still probably cringy i mean at least annoying to people sigh sigh sighhhh what am i doing .... ill probably delete this after it's just horrible

Its a term that comes from the hebrew shalom, meaning peace. 

like its fine, its not a problem. Just… energetic

oh, okay. Not exactly an MJ fan

no, i am too. You’re not cringy or annoying, you just value connection a lot. I feel it like, way too much, i get anxiety that i post too much online talking too my friends all the time. Its not horrible, its just you, and that’s okay!

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[Verdance he/him]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

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"no, i am too. You’re not cringy or annoying, you just value connection a lot. I feel it like, way too much, i get anxiety that i post too much online talking too my friends all the time. Its not horrible, its just you, and that’s okay!"

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i crave it too much hopefully not unhealthy cuz INTERNET IS BADDDDDD

ughhhhhhhh

why am i typing like a child...

Eh, so yeah, when im on my phone playinh brawl stars or watching youtube or stressing on news sites or whatever the heck im doing, i view that as internet time i need to hold back on. When Im talking with friends on the shard or listening to music with the screen put away, i view that as just friends or music, not internet time. This might not be the healthiest mindset, but it helps reduce a little stress.

Im a storming adult and i dont feel like it so yeah that’s a thing, you prob dont have to stress too much about being incredibly grown up when talking with friends. 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

17 minutes ago, Through The Living Grass said:

Eh, so yeah, when im on my phone playinh brawl stars or watching youtube or stressing on news sites or whatever the heck im doing, i view that as internet time i need to hold back on. When Im talking with friends on the shard or listening to music with the screen put away, i view that as just friends or music, not internet time. This might not be the healthiest mindset, but it helps reduce a little stress.

Im a storming adult and i dont feel like it so yeah that’s a thing, you prob dont have to stress too much about being incredibly grown up when talking with friends. 

okie

 

i dont have that mindesset

 ifeeel like i had a coff3ee

lol i feel so neurodivergent rn

 

do u guys ever feel like u wanna claw urselfves apartt?

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[SpartanBrigade He/Him]

49 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

SELAH??? WDYM i looked it up and it's a band or smth? smth christian thing?

 

I type and I know I type like that and I do it but I don't not becauseeeee I just don't want to not because why would I become then I would sound cold and formal. For instance, this sentence was typed in a different manner than the previous ones. I know that's a lame example lol but u get the point also I'm probably too unhingedddddd

also no i never voice type/dictattiommn cuz why? annie are you okay just look it up it's a song "smooth criminal" by the great and wonderful wizard of oz michael jackson 

idk if im clingy shrug probably oof that makes sense. .. sigh but it's still probably cringy i mean at least annoying to people sigh sigh sighhhh what am i doing .... ill probably delete this after it's just horrible

I mean… you can still sound warm and informal while using coherent sentences