Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: Way of Kings is peak Reading Kaladin's storyline is amazing. I just don't know how Sanderson made it so... Real. ughhhhh when will i be able to appreciate all the artistic details and such probably after reread(s) 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: Way of Kings is peak Reading Kaladin's storyline is amazing. I just don't know how Sanderson made it so... Real. but the question is...is it peak ? Better than gender euphoria ? Edited January 17 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 17 Posted January 17 1 minute ago, Theory said: ughhhhh when will i be able to appreciate all the artistic details and such probably after reread(s) but the question is...is it peak ? Better than gender euphoria ? Nothing is better than gender euphoria Might actually go shave my legs again. Was amazing last time. Who cares that I have soccer tomorrow!
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 Just now, Aeoryi said: Nothing is better than gender euphoria Might actually go shave my legs again. Was amazing last time. Who cares that I have soccer tomorrow! sis stop taunting meeee....
The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns Posted January 17 Posted January 17 26 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: I don't lie often. And I don't like Shallan either. I used to skip over all the Shallan chapters. I was that kind of person. Yeah the transfem number has increased drastically I think from what it was before in this thread. And the PFP thing. The PFP thing?
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) 2 minutes ago, The Aspiring Archivist said: The PFP thing? The same anime-style character. It's like a trans mascot I think. A bunch of ppl here use some variation of it as their pfp. edit: this one Spoiler Edited January 17 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 17 Posted January 17 13 minutes ago, Theory said: sis stop taunting meeee.... tehe
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) :3 Edit (meme): (Hope this is funny and not disrespectful or anything. I didn't really know which terms to use.) Spoiler POV transmasc people: Edited January 17 by Theory
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 17 Posted January 17 2 hours ago, Theory said: :3 Edit (meme): (Hope this is funny and not disrespectful or anything. I didn't really know which terms to use.) Reveal hidden contents POV trans AFAB people: Trans men would be the preferred term, but the core concept is still funny
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 Just now, Hmmm lies said: Trans men would be the preferred term, but the core concept is still funny Thx :3 Updated
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) 1 minute ago, Ink and Embers said: Or enbies! Well, that's why I said AFAB at first. Because then the person could be enby or transmasc Edited January 17 by Theory 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 17 Posted January 17 Perhaps trans mascs would work slightly better, as it doesn't necessarily mean male, just more masculine than a gal. Or maybe I'm overthinking it, and it was fine. @Keke can tell us.
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) @Aeoryi Y'all guess what? I shaved my legs. they're sooo smooth now its like...yeahh. definitely gonna do again. idk if i got euphoria tho. but i think i felt a little happier. and it was fun. I'll have to do it again to get rid of the rest but yeah... sTilL cIs ThO Edited January 17 by Theory 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) Guysguysguys why does it feel weird like now that I'm actually starting to realize that I might actually be trans. Also what if: I don't feel euphoria, am I not trans? I do feel it but don't know how to recognize it. I don't feel it but make myself feel it I don't feel it but make myself pretend or think I feel it I feel it but make myself not If feel it but make myself pretend or think I don't I don't feel it enough My thoughts and expectations are contaminating my euphoria or absence thereof ...And more Edited January 17 by Theory help 3
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 17 Posted January 17 11 minutes ago, Theory said: Guysguysguys why does it feel weird like now that I'm actually starting to realize that I might actually be trans. Also what if: I don't feel euphoria, am I not trans? I do feel it but don't know how to recognize it. I don't feel it but make myself feel it I don't feel it but make myself pretend or think I feel it I feel it but make myself not If feel it but make myself pretend or think I don't I don't feel it enough My thoughts and expectations are contaminating my euphoria or absence thereof ...And more Well I think your trans if you say you are, I think you’ll be trans if you dress masculine you’ll be trans as long as that is who you say you are
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 17 Posted January 17 (edited) 2 hours ago, Honors Ghost said: Well I think your trans if you say you are, I think you’ll be trans if you dress masculine you’ll be trans as long as that is who you say you are but...how do I know what if im not trans... why dont i know what im feeling... How do I tell if what im feeling is dysphoria from my "current gender," dysphoria from trying things (is that even a thing?), anxiety, anxiety that I have the latter type of dysphoria, anxiety that I don't have the former, etc. etc. Like if I end up getting dysphoric cuz I, say, shave my legs or use she/her or something, then am I not trans? And how do I even know if its dysphoria or if im just anxious ill get dysphoria so i mistake anxiety for dysphoria and then yeah And I know yall have lives and stuff but still...its hard when no one responds [quickly] And yall probably also have your own troubles to deal with... then I just end up enjoying nothing... maybe im just...putting too much on this forum. i shouldn't be anxiously waiting to talk to yall. instead i should just...idk whatever, yk? what if im feeling dysphoria cuz i shaved my legs, or dysphoria cuz there not completely shaved and there's still little hairs and bits I missed and also not the whole legs???? Or neither? Or dysphoria cuz i finally realized im trans, even tho i didnt!!! (at least i dont think so) What if the reason i dont know what im feeling is because its not dysphoria or euphoria or anything, which would be obvious? Why are these worries sounding ridiculous even if they're true And if that means that they are ridiculous, im still back to square one. Or am i. idk. maybe if i ignore all of what i said above, then i can think better about what im feeling, if you catch my drift. doubt it'll work tho. When ur not yet used to ur new pfp and u are desperately waiting for someone to respond to you and you see someone on CGD, but... Spoiler ...you realize its just u and, as a counterpoint to my worries, why was I looking forward to shaving so much??? hmmmmm??????? if i "didnt like it" then why could i barely wait to it???? guy pls... Edited January 18 by Theory when ppl keep repping ur posts but don't offer the answers you crave... 3
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 18 Posted January 18 Wait a sec where are y'all isnt it the weekend?
Shatter He/Him Posted January 18 Posted January 18 2 hours ago, Theory said: but...how do I know what if im not trans... why dont i know what im feeling... How do I tell if what im feeling is dysphoria from my "current gender," dysphoria from trying things (is that even a thing?), anxiety, anxiety that I have the latter type of dysphoria, anxiety that I don't have the former, etc. etc. Like if I end up getting dysphoric cuz I, say, shave my legs or use she/her or something, then am I not trans? And how do I even know if its dysphoria or if im just anxious ill get dysphoria so i mistake anxiety for dysphoria and then yeah And I know yall have lives and stuff but still...its hard when no one responds [quickly] And yall probably also have your own troubles to deal with... then I just end up enjoying nothing... maybe im just...putting too much on this forum. i shouldn't be anxiously waiting to talk to yall. instead i should just...idk whatever, yk? what if im feeling dysphoria cuz i shaved my legs, or dysphoria cuz there not completely shaved and there's still little hairs and bits I missed and also not the whole legs???? Or neither? Or dysphoria cuz i finally realized im trans, even tho i didnt!!! (at least i dont think so) What if the reason i dont know what im feeling is because its not dysphoria or euphoria or anything, which would be obvious? Why are these worries sounding ridiculous even if they're true And if that means that they are ridiculous, im still back to square one. Or am i. idk. maybe if i ignore all of what i said above, then i can think better about what im feeling, if you catch my drift. doubt it'll work tho. When ur not yet used to ur new pfp and u are desperately waiting for someone to respond to you and you see someone on CGD, but... Reveal hidden contents ...you realize its just u and, as a counterpoint to my worries, why was I looking forward to shaving so much??? hmmmmm??????? if i "didnt like it" then why could i barely wait to it???? guy pls... @Keke I'm not very good at this because… well… I'm a cis ally. I don't truly understand (I'm basically mental health support), but my bestie can help you. 3 minutes ago, Theory said: Wait a sec where are y'all isnt it the weekend? for some reason the shard is quieter on the weekend
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 18 Posted January 18 Just now, Shatter said: for some reason the shard is quieter on the weekend :(.... well, thx anyway
Shatter He/Him Posted January 18 Posted January 18 Just now, Theory said: :(.... well, thx anyway I'm sorry. T-T I wish I could help more Do you have a discord account? If so, DM me wif it caue I can't DM you.
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 18 Posted January 18 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Shatter said: I'm sorry. T-T I wish I could help more Do you have a discord account? If so, DM me wif it caue I can't DM you. No, I don't use Discord. 'Tis fine, rlly... Edited January 18 by Theory
Shatter He/Him Posted January 18 Posted January 18 5 minutes ago, Theory said: No, I don't use Discord. Ok *hugs* sorry. Gender dysphoria is not really my forte as I have not experienced it. All I can give is *hugs* and a hopefully inspiring quote “Truth is individual… Your truth is what you see.” You are what you DECIDE you are. If deciding feels like too much right now or has too much stress, just do what you like and what feels right, and ignore whether whatever it is you're doing is 'trans' or 'cis'. Do not focus on the labels. Focus on the actions. What feels right?
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 18 Posted January 18 Just now, Shatter said: Do not focus on the labels. Focus on the actions. What feels right? I'll...try. My first response was to say "i CaN't" but then I realized I should at least try, yk? 1 minute ago, Shatter said: Gender dysphoria is not really my forte as I have not experienced it. I don't even know if I have... 1
Shatter He/Him Posted January 18 Posted January 18 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Theory said: I'll...try. My first response was to say "i CaN't" but then I realized I should at least try, yk? You can do anything you put your mind to. I see it in you. 2 minutes ago, Theory said: I don't even know if I have... Gender dysphoria and Gender Questioning are not my forte. basically anything gender related. I'm very good with mental stuff tho. Edited January 18 by Shatter
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 18 Posted January 18 3 minutes ago, Shatter said: You can do anything you put your mind to. I see it in you. Now I'm at the point where there are lingering-yet-fizzled remnants of my doubts and objections. So I just have to acknowledge that I'm not some...incapable foolperson. side note: i risk depression and anxiety just by peeking at the mental health thread, which is a bit unfortunate. But luckily I'm not rlly depressed or anything rn. I saw you were? You feelin' better?
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