KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 3 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: Ugh, screw that. I'd give some advice on what you could say to them, but I know they're probably just too dumb to listen to you. They're not dumb, just... Bleah idk. They are very set in their ways. Ironically its been the, "I'm not a lesbian, I just like girls" sister who's been doing that today. I love my siblings to death. They just aren't perfect people sometimes. *sigh* Sorry. Not trying to be mean, and thank you for the support. I just... I get too defensive of them. Sorry. 8 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: *bows too queen lies* …that’s very frustrating… here’s a soft combat pan bc Kansas is busy and you don’t wanna hurt your siblings too bad Also true I’m too insane to run a cult that’s not built on human sacrifice yeah. Thanks! I might use it gently. And yea, you are. ur still awesome tho! 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 1 minute ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: They're not dumb, just... Bleah idk. They are very set in their ways. Ironically its been the, "I'm not a lesbian, I just like girls" sister who's been doing that today. I love my siblings to death. They just aren't perfect people sometimes. *sigh* Sorry. Not trying to be mean, and thank you for the support. I just... I get too defensive of them. Sorry. No, I don't blame you. I just get rather pissed off when I see homo/transphobia, especially from people close to the person they're being like that to, but I don't really know what your siblings are like, and I can't necessarily say that about them. Quote "I'm not a lesbian, I just like girls" sister who's been doing that today. Also wait what?
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 7 Posted January 7 20 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: I feel like I'm the cult leader here, not because of my own choice but because it seems like a lot of you just formed a cult around me. Yes Indeed 14 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: " @Honors Ghost started the cult, then they chose a competent leader who wasn't insane like , and settled on you," vibes. Also, small rant. So, I mentioned to my siblings (and just my siblings cause parents are firmly homophobic) that I was such trying going by He/They pronouns (cause I didn't want to tell them more yet) and they kinda laughed it off completely and said, quote, "You're a man. Trust us, we know." And one of them has spent all day calling me, "Manly Man" at every point she gets and it just bugs me yk? Asdfghjkl. Anyway. 14 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: *bows too queen lies* …that’s very frustrating… here’s a soft combat pan bc Kansas is busy and you don’t wanna hurt your siblings too bad Also true I’m too insane to run a cult that’s not built on human sacrifice Screw this Take this *extra-bonky combat pan*
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Yes Indeed Screw this Take this *extra-bonky combat pan* Why are you, someone who identifies as bi and not pan, giving people combat pans anyway? 1
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: No, I don't blame you. I just get rather pissed off when I see homo/transphobia, especially from people close to the person they're being like that to, but I don't really know what your siblings are like, and I can't necessarily say that about them Thanks. And yeah, I get it being annoyed at them. Were I not their sibling, and I saw me in this situation, I would be very annoyed. 8 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: Also wait what? Yeah. She has told me she would rather date a girl than a guy, and if she had to have sex, she would much rather do it with a girl, and she comments on how pretty girls she sees are all the time, and in every D&D game I've played or run with her in it she has played a charismatic romantic who is blaring lesbian, almost as much as you. But she says she's straight. She is sadly kinda transphobic tho 7 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Yes Indeed Screw this Take this *extra-bonky combat pan* But I don't wanna hurt them Edited January 7 by KnightSkye Reforged
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 Just now, KnightSkye Reforged said: Yeah. She has told me she would rather date a girl than a guy, and if she had to have sex, she would much rather do it with a girl, and she comments on how pretty girls she sees are all the time, and in every D&D game I've played or run with her in it she has played a charismatic romantic who is blaring lesbian, almost as much as you. Wrong, no transphobe could be as nearly as gay as me. But also yeah wow that's just... what a lesbian is? Like does she not get that? Like "Yes I am a girl who likes girls, that doesn't make me gay" That's like saying "Yeah, I love talking to people and being in social situations and hate being alone but I'm still an introvert" 2
momadrac they/them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 31 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: Drac ima be so for real you are literally the first person to ever call me grounded and for that I thank you 25 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: Also, small rant. So, I mentioned to my siblings (and just my siblings cause parents are firmly homophobic) that I was such trying going by He/They pronouns (cause I didn't want to tell them more yet) and they kinda laughed it off completely and said, quote, "You're a man. Trust us, we know." And one of them has spent all day calling me, "Manly Man" at every point she gets and it just bugs me yk? Asdfghjkl. Anyway. Oof I'm sorry family can suck sometimes even if you love them
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 6 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: Wrong, no transphobe could be as nearly as gay as me. But also yeah wow that's just... what a lesbian is? Like does she not get that? Like "Yes I am a girl who likes girls, that doesn't make me gay" That's like saying "Yeah, I love talking to people and being in social situations and hate being alone but I'm still an introvert" Yeah... She's a special one. She might, maybe be bi. But she is firmly in denial about it. Mostly I think cause of how homophobic our parents are, so she'd rather not being and not have to deal with it.
momadrac they/them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 (edited) so um question what does it mean to have pronouns she/they or he/they Edited January 7 by momadrac 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 1 minute ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: Yeah... She's a special one. She might, maybe be bi. But she is firmly in denial about it. Mostly I think cause of how homophobic our parents are, so she'd rather not being and not have to deal with it. Oh that makes sense doesn't it... Ugh, stuff like this is so annoying, when parents are bigoted like this, and it just makes everything worse for the children. Either they're too afraid/it's not safe to come out or they end up like the parents, not being taught better. But I probably need to calm down, I could rant all I want about bigotry, but it wouldn't do a damn thing, and everything there is to say has already been said.
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 7 Posted January 7 28 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: Why are you, someone who identifies as bi and not pan, giving people combat pans anyway? Because I am also a martial artist And, from my perspective, as inferior as pans are in actual combat They're sick as hell in combat. And seem almost made for bonking and whacking 22 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: Thanks. And yeah, I get it being annoyed at them. Were I not their sibling, and I saw me in this situation, I would be very annoyed. Yeah. She has told me she would rather date a girl than a guy, and if she had to have sex, she would much rather do it with a girl, and she comments on how pretty girls she sees are all the time, and in every D&D game I've played or run with her in it she has played a charismatic romantic who is blaring lesbian, almost as much as you. But she says she's straight. She is sadly kinda transphobic tho But I don't wanna hurt them NO *bonk* Now go bonk them Lightly, maybe
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Because I am also a martial artist And, from my perspective, as inferior as pans are in actual combat They're sick as hell in combat. And seem almost made for bonking and whacking NO *bonk* Now go bonk them Lightly, maybe Nah, I'll be fine. I just won't mention it to them. I don't mind if people keep assuming I'm a guy. Not rn anyway. I'm honestly still figuring out if I'm a demiboy or just a mostly masc presenting NB. 2
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 KnightSkye: Yeah so my siblings were pretty unsupportive Everyone else for some reason: VIOLENCE 2
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 7 Posted January 7 2 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: Nah, I'll be fine. I just won't mention it to them. I don't mind if people keep assuming I'm a guy. Not rn anyway. I'm honestly still figuring out if I'm a demiboy or just a mostly masc presenting NB. Hmph Just now, Hmmm lies said: KnightSkye: Yeah so my siblings were pretty unsupportive Everyone else for some reason: VIOLENCE This is my response Always Windrunner/Stoneward combo
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 13 minutes ago, momadrac said: so um question what does it mean to have pronouns she/they or he/they So, in general it means you identify only partially with one gender, and partially as something else, or you feel kinda like neither gender, but identify more with one of them. Im still trying to figure out if I'm a Demiboy (He/They) or Non Binary (They/Them) Other people probably have more or better to say on this, like @Keke and @Hmmm lies (ofc) so maybe they can give a better answer. 3 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: KnightSkye: Yeah so my siblings were pretty unsupportive Everyone else for some reason: VIOLENCE I mean, I get it. And I would be on the violence train most of the time, but im sibling blind so... Yeah. Ask @Through The Living Glass about her having to talk to me about this same sister recently. 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Hmph This is my response Always Windrunner/Stoneward combo oh go "hmph" yourself ahole. im fine. And your gaydar is winning, so be happy with that kind. 2
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 (edited) 3 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: So, in general it means you identify only partially with one gender, and partially as something else, or you feel kinda like neither gender, but identify more with one of them. Im still trying to figure out if I'm a Demiboy (He/They) or Non Binary (They/Them) Other people probably have more or better to say on this, like @Keke and @Hmmm lies (ofc) so maybe they can give a better answer. @Keke would do a much better job I'm sure, since he actually uses he/they pronouns I think I know more about various queer identities than most people who don't have those identities, but I know my understanding will never be as great as those who do. (Of course, I am still the bestest explainer of transfem and lesbian stuff) For how to use them though, it pretty much means that both the gendered pronouns (whichever is shown) and they/them pronouns can be used, though some might have their own specific preferences on how to use them. (Fun fact, the name for multiple sets of pronouns like this is 'rolling pronouns' Edited January 7 by Hmmm lies 1
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 7 Posted January 7 3 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: So, in general it means you identify only partially with one gender, and partially as something else, or you feel kinda like neither gender, but identify more with one of them. Im still trying to figure out if I'm a Demiboy (He/They) or Non Binary (They/Them) Other people probably have more or better to say on this, like @Keke and @Hmmm lies (ofc) so maybe they can give a better answer. I mean, I get it. And I would be on the violence train most of the time, but im sibling blind so... Yeah. Ask @Through The Living Glass about her having to talk to me about this same sister recently. oh go "hmph" yourself ahole. im fine. And your gaydar is winning, so be happy with that kind. True nough
momadrac they/them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 5 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said: So, in general it means you identify only partially with one gender, and partially as something else, or you feel kinda like neither gender, but identify more with one of them. Im still trying to figure out if I'm a Demiboy (He/They) or Non Binary (They/Them) Other people probably have more or better to say on this, like @Keke and @Hmmm lies (ofc) so maybe they can give a better answer. I mean, I get it. And I would be on the violence train most of the time, but im sibling blind so... Yeah. Ask @Through The Living Glass about her having to talk to me about this same sister recently. oh go "hmph" yourself ahole. im fine. And your gaydar is winning, so be happy with that kind. Okay thanks I had my 1st semester of health today and she asked us to write preferred names and pronouns on paper and I literally put 'I don't care, call me what you want, just not he/him' cause I have no strong connection to my gender and I really don't care so I was just curious if that were the correct pronouns 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 1 minute ago, momadrac said: Okay thanks I had my 1st semester of health today and she asked us to write preferred names and pronouns on paper and I literally put 'I don't care, call me what you want, just not he/him' cause I have no strong connection to my gender and I really don't care so I was just curious if that were the correct pronouns That's perfectly valid! No need to format it in any specific way or anything.
Keke They/he Posted January 7 Posted January 7 41 minutes ago, momadrac said: so um question what does it mean to have pronouns she/they or he/they Qell to be honest. I dont feel fully male at times. I was debating trans or nonbinary because both feel right. Being referred to as them feels right, same as he. Sometimes more he sometimes more they. So loke... genderfluid with he and they? 2
KnightSkye Reforged They/Them Posted January 7 Posted January 7 19 minutes ago, Keke said: Qell to be honest. I dont feel fully male at times. I was debating trans or nonbinary because both feel right. Being referred to as them feels right, same as he. Sometimes more he sometimes more they. So loke... genderfluid with he and they? *Well. (you can never escape the spell checking. Not even here. >:}) 1
certifiedcranedriver she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 Your historical LGBTQ+ fun fact of the day is: Before the apocalyptic Nazis, the "Weimar Repbulic" (Germany post-World War 1, pre Nazis) had a famously progressive culture, especially on LGBT topics. Cross-dressing and homosexual relationships got entire bars or places to meet and converse, and trans people were "discovered" (in a modern sense, though they've of course existed forever). This whole thing of course got ended later, but for about a decade, Germany was pretty gay. Given this time was a golden age pre-economic crisis, this is further proof of LGBTQ+ supremacy. 3
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 Yall this sucks I have to ride on the boys bus home from school and it’s like dysphoria x10 plus smelly annoying boys
certifiedcranedriver she/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 2 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: Yall this sucks I have to ride on the boys bus home from school and it’s like dysphoria x10 plus smelly annoying boys okay this might sound weird, but yall have gender segregated buses? i've never heard of that. 1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 7 Posted January 7 Just now, certifiedcranedriver said: okay this might sound weird, but yall have gender segregated buses? i've never heard of that. Yeah we do we have too may kids to put on one bus so they segregate them
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