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[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

I'm not the kind of person to dye my hair but I know it's cool tbh purple and black go well together

can I ask how you normally present if that's something you're comfortable with

wdym how i normally present?

[Aeoryi she/her]

7 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

wdym how i normally present?

Like what do you wear and stuff 

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

Like what do you wear and stuff 

why?

im fine telling but curious why 

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

why?

im fine telling but curious why 

Idk I'm curious 

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Idk I'm curious 

uhm ok well

i wear like pants and shirt or croptop and hoodie or cardigan-type thing..?

uhhhh

yeah?

[Aeoryi she/her]

11 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

uhm ok well

i wear like pants and shirt or croptop and hoodie or cardigan-type thing..?

uhhhh

yeah?

interesting crop tops huh

do you think you look femme or like are you boymodding

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

interesting crop tops huh

do you think you look femme or like are you boymodding

they arent *that* cropped... well i have a few more cropsd idkkdkdkdkkdndkdkkdkdkkdk

ehy do u ask so much

i hope i look femme

im out in general so idk

[Aeoryi she/her]

6 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

they arent *that* cropped... well i have a few more cropsd idkkdkdkdkkdndkdkkdkdkkdk

ehy do u ask so much

i hope i look femme

im out in general so idk

interesting I'm not out in general yet (nor do I think I will be) I don't even think I could present femme if I tried I guess

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

20 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

they arent *that* cropped... well i have a few more cropsd idkkdkdkdkkdndkdkkdkdkkdk

ehy do u ask so much

i hope i look femme

im out in general so idk

*giggles* I love crop tops, I present fairly fem, on a good day I look like a masc lesbian on a less good day I look like a RLY flamboyant gay guy but yeah my crop tops range I got some that cover my entire torso but just come up if I raise my arms and I’ve got some others that are basically loose bras atp hehehe I love them all

I usually (currently at least) present more “masc” but in like a masc lesbian way bc I’d rather look good and a little masc then bad and femme yk?

Someday I’d like to wear a princess dress but that just doesn’t work for me rn

16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

interesting I'm not out in general yet (nor do I think I will be) I don't even think I could present femme if I tried I guess

If I were you I would look at some masc lesbians, like cus then you can present a little fem and not look outta place yk?

[Aeoryi she/her]

20 minutes ago, Honors Spectral Image said:

*giggles* I love crop tops, I present fairly fem, on a good day I look like a masc lesbian on a less good day I look like a RLY flamboyant gay guy but yeah my crop tops range I got some that cover my entire torso but just come up if I raise my arms and I’ve got some others that are basically loose bras atp hehehe I love them all

I usually (currently at least) present more “masc” but in like a masc lesbian way bc I’d rather look good and a little masc then bad and femme yk?

Someday I’d like to wear a princess dress but that just doesn’t work for me rn

If I were you I would look at some masc lesbians, like cus then you can present a little fem and not look outta place yk?

yeah idk I kinda just am aiming for androgyny at this point.

But if I were able to wear a princess dress I totally would tbh

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

9 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

yeah idk I kinda just am aiming for androgyny at this point.

But if I were able to wear a princess dress I totally would tbh

Is good idea, I think in terms of style it be gradual as you look more and more femme bc of e and what not yk? 

[momadrac they/them]

happy QUEER MONTH =3

ima go to pride fest with my lesbian besties and the crush

also if yall care i cut my hair to shoulder length and bought a lot more baggy clothes 

eventually i want a pixie cut but i don't want to give my mum a heart attack

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

1 hour ago, momadrac said:

happy QUEER MONTH =3

ima go to pride fest with my lesbian besties and the crush

also if yall care i cut my hair to shoulder length and bought a lot more baggy clothes 

eventually i want a pixie cut but i don't want to give my mum a heart attack

Lol cool have fun!

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 hour ago, momadrac said:

happy QUEER MONTH =3

ima go to pride fest with my lesbian besties and the crush

also if yall care i cut my hair to shoulder length and bought a lot more baggy clothes 

eventually i want a pixie cut but i don't want to give my mum a heart attack

Oh yeah that's super cool! I know it takes a lot of bravery to change your appearance too, so I wanted to commend you on that

[momadrac they/them]

5 minutes ago, 6 7 said:

Lol cool have fun!

i will 

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

Oh yeah that's super cool! I know it takes a lot of bravery to change your appearance too, so I wanted to commend you on that

thank you!!!

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

What's up guys

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How's it going

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

Just now, Kansas Stormcursed said:

What's up guys

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How's it going

It's aight

I dyed my hair finally and it's epic

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

51 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

What's up guys

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How's it going

Pretty good

[Akimikoisthecutest]

19 hours ago, Aeoryi said:

interesting I'm not out in general yet (nor do I think I will be) I don't even think I could present femme if I tried I guess

I doubt I could either...

19 hours ago, Honors Spectral Image said:

*giggles* I love crop tops, I present fairly fem, on a good day I look like a masc lesbian on a less good day I look like a RLY flamboyant gay guy but yeah my crop tops range I got some that cover my entire torso but just come up if I raise my arms and I’ve got some others that are basically loose bras atp hehehe I love them all

I usually (currently at least) present more “masc” but in like a masc lesbian way bc I’d rather look good and a little masc then bad and femme yk?

Someday I’d like to wear a princess dress but that just doesn’t work for me rn

If I were you I would look at some masc lesbians, like cus then you can present a little fem and not look outta place yk?

I love turtlenecks and cardigans, but I present fully masc... All the time.... And I'm not out to very many people, and I don't live in a supportive area, so I think it would be really hard for me to be able to change the way I look...

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

24 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I doubt I could either...

I love turtlenecks and cardigans, but I present fully masc... All the time.... And I'm not out to very many people, and I don't live in a supportive area, so I think it would be really hard for me to be able to change the way I look...

Heheheh I love in rural Arkansas and if I can change my look you can, if you find your community it is not that hard

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

14 hours ago, Kansas Stormcursed said:

What's up guys

Appearing very briefly just to check in

How's it going

Good! Not yet collapsed from exhaustion, but approaching it! How are you doing?

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

3 hours ago, Ink and Embers said:

Good! Not yet collapsed from exhaustion, but approaching it! How are you doing?

That is good. I'm doing fine, thanks

[Usseewa ✾ They♡Them ✾]

So uhm I think I might be enby?

But not sure...

 

and uhh

I also thought of a name that

I

Kinda

might wanna

try using and

I'm also not sure cuz now I've maybe supressed it or out of it back to feeling normal/"normal" so uhh

and idk how to feel about anything and everything is confusing and

uhmmm

i also feel bad if i just switch my name *again* and people gotta use a new name and what if i switch it agaaain and aghhh and what if

..

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

17 hours ago, Usseewa said:

So uhm I think I might be enby?

But not sure...

 

and uhh

I also thought of a name that

I

Kinda

might wanna

try using and

I'm also not sure cuz now I've maybe supressed it or out of it back to feeling normal/"normal" so uhh

and idk how to feel about anything and everything is confusing and

uhmmm

i also feel bad if i just switch my name *again* and people gotta use a new name and what if i switch it agaaain and aghhh and what if

..

Awesome!!!! *hugs*

Don't worry about names!!! Your name is supposed to be good for you, so whichever you feel most comfortable with is best.

Do you want us to try and call you another name on the Shard so you can try it out? (the Internet is often a good place to trial names, and if you don't want to do it on a public site, you can try things such as changing what your calendar / Spotify account / YouTube account (if you just lurk) calls you)

[momadrac they/them]

19 hours ago, Usseewa said:

So uhm I think I might be enby?

But not sure...

 

and uhh

I also thought of a name that

I

Kinda

might wanna

try using and

I'm also not sure cuz now I've maybe supressed it or out of it back to feeling normal/"normal" so uhh

and idk how to feel about anything and everything is confusing and

uhmmm

i also feel bad if i just switch my name *again* and people gotta use a new name and what if i switch it agaaain and aghhh and what if

..

one of us

one of us

one of us

welcome

On 6/8/2026 at 8:17 PM, Kansas Stormcursed said:

What's up guys

Appearing very briefly just to check in

How's it going

good more or less

its gay month

i figured out i have enby tendancies

i might be poly? idk i'm fine with 1 person relationships but i also tend to have crushes on 2 or more people at once and i'm not sure if thats normal

help

Edited 1 hour ago by momadrac