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[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

Well...idk rn. They use they/them mostly (I didn't tell them to, but don't usually mind it when they do), but idk idk idk if i'll like she/her idk

idk what pronouns to use.......

today has been weird that way

Say she they and ask them to try to use both

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Ah, I still want to come out to my D&D group but I'm too scared to do it.

How queer are they? Are they allies?

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Say she they and ask them to try to use both

ok mb...

im kinda nervous now idkwhy

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Ah, I still want to come out to my D&D group but I'm too scared to do it.

Real

I’m kinda out to my dnd group, they use they/them but as thy say “know im basically a trans woman”

Just now, Usseewa said:

How queer are they? Are they allies?

ok mb...

im kinda nervous now idkwhy

That’s totally fair

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

I’m kinda out to my dnd group, they use they/them but as thy say “know im basically a trans woman”

Ye idk how much they picked up yet

I still think it's worth (for u [and me]) coming out to them, even if "they know."

Someone once told me that it's good to, like, tell ppl even if they prob already know. Like it shows...idk i forgor

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

Ye idk how much they picked up yet

I still think it's worth (for u [and me]) coming out to them, even if "they know."

Someone once told me that it's good to, like, tell ppl even if they prob already know. Like it shows...idk i forgor

No Ik I will eventually I just idk I need to figure stuff out first

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

No Ik I will eventually I just idk I need to figure stuff out first

Ok..

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

55 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Guys pls don't hate on me but:

What should I refer to collegiate female students as? In a "fiction" story I'm writing.

Woman or girl?

Girl seems like it might be demeaning, but woman seems old?

I don't like boy/man/girl/woman. "Guy" is the only one that sounds right imo, but it's usually ("hey, guys!") for the male people ("I saw this guy, and he was ...").

 

Edit:

I suppose the same goes for the male collegiates. "A man sat down next to me" doesn't sound as good imo as "a guy sat down next to me." And "boy" definitely doesn't work. So, is it the same with "girl"?

 

Edit2:

For high schoolers, I assume it's guy/girl?

 

Is there a female version of "guy"? Or a gender-neutral version? I feel like there should be, if not. Maybe there's an obvious one that I'm just not thinking of lol.

So I have three sisters, and a bunch of female friends, so the words we usually use are:

Guy/Gals
Dude/Dudette
Bro (for both).
Wereman/Wifman (Old English and Norse, cause nerds)
The (put number in birth order here) one
Laddies/Ladies 
Lad/Lass
Lords/Ladies
It
The being
and Edain.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

3 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said:

So I have three sisters, and a bunch of female friends, so the words we usually use are:

Guy/Gals
Dude/Dudette
Bro (for both).
Wereman/Wifman (Old English and Norse, cause nerds)
The (put number in birth order here) one
Laddies/Ladies 
Lad/Lass
Lords/Ladies
It
The being
and Edain.

The being is my fav

[Akimikoisthecutest]

47 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

How queer are they? Are they allies?

Three of them are confirmed queers, 4 aren't but 3 are for sure allies and the last at least puts up with our gay antics

[Hmmm lies she/her]

(quoting is annoying on mobile, this is for Lily)

I'd say it's probably be good to say she/they, and then if you don't end up liking it, you can always ask them to change what they use.

Edit: you can even mention that you're still figuring things out

Edited February 11 by Hmmm lies

[Aeoryi she/her]

People using she/they is more normal than you might think tbh

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

24 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

(quoting is annoying on mobile, this is for Lily)

I'd say it's probably be good to say she/they, and then if you don't end up liking it, you can always ask them to change what they use.

Edit: you can even mention that you're still figuring things out

 

16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

People using she/they is more normal than you might think tbh

 

ok, I'll try that, thx!

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

10 hours ago, momadrac said:

Maybe you're demiromantic? Its definitely on the aro spectrum, and what I feel

You only form romantic attraction to people you're really close too

So for me, I have had 2 crushes in my entire life 

welcome back!!!

ohhhhh really?

bet

that could be it

[Hmmm lies she/her]

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

Spoiler

An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

[Akimikoisthecutest]

1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said:

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

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An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

IT'S SO GOOD! Is this about @certifiedcranedriver?

[certifiedcranedriver she/her]

oh hi again.

25 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

IT'S SO GOOD! Is this about @certifiedcranedriver?

idk probably, it fits me pretty well i guess :3

cool, now i have poetry about me. good poem btw @Hmmm lies

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

50 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

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An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

POME

[Hmmm lies she/her]

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

IT'S SO GOOD! Is this about @certifiedcranedriver?

 

51 minutes ago, certifiedcranedriver said:

oh hi again.

idk probably, it fits me pretty well i guess :3

cool, now i have poetry about me. good poem btw @Hmmm lies

Yup that's right :3

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said:

 

Yup that's right :3

Pome

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

2 hours ago, Hmmm lies said:

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

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An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

Oooo bars!!!!

[Vielence She/Her]

On 2/10/2026 at 8:56 PM, momadrac said:

I want the book rec, extra points if romance

My throne of glass books 6 and 7 are coming tmmr but until then I have nothing to read 

*gasp*

I LOVE THRONE OF GLASS
Currently midway through #7

*screams*

'tis very, very good

On 2/10/2026 at 9:00 PM, momadrac said:

did you just make a 67 joke lol

No but its by the same author and its really good!! 

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just curse Rowan the hot elf boy who has overtaken the fandom CHAOL IS BETTER

 

Spoiler

Allllllll the boys are good

But I'm a sucker for Fae lol

But Chaol

AHHHH

On 2/10/2026 at 9:03 PM, Honors Ghost said:

Should I read, Kansas tells me too but me has long reading list, starts with tress and ends with… the Bible… sooo ye I’ve got a min before I can start a new book

Pfft

On 2/10/2026 at 9:08 PM, Through The Living Glass said:

*barrels through wall*

CELAENA SARDOTHIEN??

:3

I WILL NOT BE AFRAID

yes

On 2/10/2026 at 9:09 PM, momadrac said:

do you mean AELIN ASHRYVER GALANTHIUS (or smth)

:3

See above lol

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

10 hours ago, Hmmm lies said:

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

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An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

Love it!

[CoderDrag0n8 He/They]

14 hours ago, Hmmm lies said:

New @Hmmm lies poem just dropped!

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An unassuming one
Strange, but not troubled
Or… so I thought, at the time
Now, she reveals depths
Depths I never realized she had

So I comfort her
Give her the help she’s been lacking
She’s more open then she’s ever been
And it’s clear she’s needed this for so long
After closing even herself off for years

So I hold her
Let her be the self she loves
She’s happier then she’s ever been
And it’s wonderful giving her joy this way
After learning how she felt

An unassuming one
Withdrawn, but different inside
A unique girl, unlike any other
One who begins to awaken
One whom I’m close to

 

BARS

[momadrac they/them]

16 hours ago, VieB13 said:

*gasp*

I LOVE THRONE OF GLASS
Currently midway through #7

*screams*

'tis very, very good

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Allllllll the boys are good

But I'm a sucker for Fae lol

But Chaol

AHHHH

Pfft

I WILL NOT BE AFRAID

yes

See above lol

YES QUEEN

Actually same! I read 6 yesterday and I sacrificed my sleep for the 1st 25 chapters of 7

Spoiler

I'm partial to Sam, myself lol

I DON'T CARE THAT HE'S DEA-

on a slightly different note after breaking kinda up with my kinda bf, I'm going ALL OUT today so I'm wearing a crop top (with very high waisted leggings, but still its cute as hell) and I actually wore makeup

This is coming from the girl who wears leggings and baggy sweaters 90% of the time so whee

Edited February 13 by momadrac

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

20 minutes ago, momadrac said:

on a slightly different note after breaking kinda up with my kinda bf, I'm going ALL OUT today so I'm wearing a crop top (with very high waisted leggings, but still its cute as hell) and I actually wore makeup

This is coming from the girl who wears leggings and baggy sweaters 90% of the time so whee

YAY!!!!

I'm very glad for you :3

 

Edit for clarity: glad that ur wearing nice stuff lol

Edited February 13 by Usseewa