Having a Bad Day?: Get 'yer Hugs here!!

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

3 minutes ago, The Bookwyrm said:

...How do you know my address?

*giggles*

*vanishes*

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

[TwinStorm He/Him]

6 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*hugs*

I literally cannot think rn so I don't have any comforting words except for that you're incredible

*hugs*

Edited February 3, 2025 by TwinStorm

[kajsa ㅇㅅㅇ she/her]

6 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*hugs*

that feeling sucks so bad bestie i’m so sorry

we love you, and you’re so so amazing, and you can do this. you’re strong and beautiful and ilysm.  i hope you’re feeling better this morning. <33333333333

[Mags she/they]

7 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*huuuuugs*

That happens to me all the time. I hope you feel better this morning 

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

8 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*hugs*

I don't know what to say except that I can understand, and offer you all my sympathy.

Btw, your dumb logical brain is very smart and worth listening.

[The Wandering Wizard he/him]

10 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*hugs fiercely*

[Ookla de los Cuervos he/him]

ever just look at yourself in the mirror and don't recognize the person who looks back at you? I looked so empty...

[Throw TheLiving Silverware he/him/il/lui]

3 minutes ago, TheRavenHasLanded said:

ever just look at yourself in the mirror and don't recognize the person who looks back at you? I looked so empty...

Oh wow *hugs*

Are you okay?

If you want a chat, advice or just a place to vent, my PMs will always be open.

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

5 minutes ago, TheRavenHasLanded said:

ever just look at yourself in the mirror and don't recognize the person who looks back at you? I looked so empty...

Yeah.......

*hugs* 

We all have our times. It'll pass, and things will get better. Feel free to PM me if you wanna rant about anything. 

[Ookla de los Cuervos he/him]

13 minutes ago, Just A Silvereye said:

Oh wow *hugs*

Are you okay?

If you want a chat, advice or just a place to vent, my PMs will always be open.

I'm fine, it just mostly startled me. I looked so tired. could've just been that it was night time too, but it seemed to go deeper than that.

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

10 hours ago, Halcyon The Only said:

Idk, I just

 I was gonna go to bed and then that darn chemical imbalance hit and now I’m questioning the meaning of my life and whether anything’s worthwhile and now I don’t really wanna go to bed anymore

 I’m going to bed tho because that’s what my dumb logical brain is telling me to do

 oh well

 I’m suuure something good will happen tomorrow

*HUG*

I'm sorry, Haly. Love ya, girlie

Lemme know if I can help

23 minutes ago, TheRavenHasLanded said:

ever just look at yourself in the mirror and don't recognize the person who looks back at you? I looked so empty...

*hug*

Edited February 3, 2025 by Through The Living Glass

[strmblsd he/him]

ok my day just isnt getting better. so i was justdoing normal day stuff but it is off i cant function properly i have a deep feeling in me that im not wanted and that my friends just want me to go away. durng lunch the people i sit wiht my friends alwaya have conversations but im like never part of them and im not in them i dont feel like i have a group. solid athazagoraphobia (look it up)

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

16 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

ok my day just isnt getting better. so i was justdoing normal day stuff but it is off i cant function properly i have a deep feeling in me that im not wanted and that my friends just want me to go away. durng lunch the people i sit wiht my friends alwaya have conversations but im like never part of them and im not in them i dont feel like i have a group. solid athazagoraphobia (look it up)

*hug*

I'm sorry 

[The Wandering Wizard he/him]

18 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

ok my day just isnt getting better. so i was justdoing normal day stuff but it is off i cant function properly i have a deep feeling in me that im not wanted and that my friends just want me to go away. durng lunch the people i sit wiht my friends alwaya have conversations but im like never part of them and im not in them i dont feel like i have a group. solid athazagoraphobia (look it up)

That was me during my highschool years, it really sucks  

*hugs fiercely*

[OOKLA_the LIV She/They/Lesbian/hungry]

18 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

ok my day just isnt getting better. so i was justdoing normal day stuff but it is off i cant function properly i have a deep feeling in me that im not wanted and that my friends just want me to go away. durng lunch the people i sit wiht my friends alwaya have conversations but im like never part of them and im not in them i dont feel like i have a group. solid athazagoraphobia (look it up)

that's not easy.

sometimes people can suck, and its hard to get through.

It is hard to feel needed by people who have a solid group already.

I get it, and all I can say is eventually it will get better.

School will end, friends will come who care,

and, until then, you always have us.

 I lost the game.

[strmblsd he/him]

7 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*hug*

I'm sorry 

*huggs*

5 minutes ago, The Wandering Wizard said:

That was me during my highschool years, it really sucks  

*hugs fiercely*

*hugggss*

 

3 minutes ago, OOKLA_the LIV said:

that's not easy.

sometimes people can suck, and its hard to get through.

It is hard to feel needed by people who have a solid group already.

I get it, and all I can say is eventually it will get better.

School will end, friends will come who care,

and, until then, you always have us.

 I lost the game.

this solid group has been my group for 4 years now and they just dont seem to want me constantly and it hurts

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

28 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

ok my day just isnt getting better. so i was justdoing normal day stuff but it is off i cant function properly i have a deep feeling in me that im not wanted and that my friends just want me to go away. durng lunch the people i sit wiht my friends alwaya have conversations but im like never part of them and im not in them i dont feel like i have a group. solid athazagoraphobia (look it up)

 

3 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

*huggs*

*hugggss*

 

this solid group has been my group for 4 years now and they just dont seem to want me constantly and it hurts

*squeezes* 

Yeah, I know how that feels 

I'm so sorry 

[OOKLA_the LIV She/They/Lesbian/hungry]

1 minute ago, strmblsd said:

*huggs*

*hugggss*

 

this solid group has been my group for 4 years now and they just dont seem to want me constantly and it hurts

aw...

I used to have a really good group. 

they lived in my neighborhood, too.

one day they stopped talking to me,

and it was really hard.

at first I still hung around them, but then I gave up on that, too.

I have since found some better friends, after a while of being alone.

it WILL get better. just don't give up. NEVER give up because its not an out, it just makes it hurt more.

instead, look around for other friends,

or conversely talk to that group and try to figure out what's going on.

I know you can do it. 

I mean, I did, and anything I can do has gotta be pretty easy, right?

[The Wandering Wizard he/him]

16 minutes ago, strmblsd said:

*huggs*

*hugggss*

 

this solid group has been my group for 4 years now and they just dont seem to want me constantly and it hurts

That really sucks  

*hugs more*

[echo74 she/her]

today i was looking at this thing abt best friends and i was thinking abt my best friend

and it made me really sad because i realized that i don't really have one anymore

at the beginning of this school year, i thought i had three

so the first one is my one friend who i've known for many many years and we've been really close but then one day she just started ignoring me for no reason

i had to text her many many times before she would text me back but then eventually we talked stuff out (it wasn't even abt me lol) and i kinda felt like i was walking on eggshells and then i made a huge mistake and i broke a huge commitment i'd made to her and then she wouldn't talk to me or anything for months but now we're talking again but we never really ever made up and it makes me uneasy bc sometimes i'm worried i'll go back to being invisible

the second one is my friend who i've known for like two years but we became really close and i love her so much

but lately idk i just haven't been feeling super connected to her and idk if that just means that we're drifting apart or if it was something i did idk

the third one is my sister

and this one makes me the saddest because out of everyone, i've always had my sister to depend on and now she's gone off to college and we were going to call every day but it's become more of a once a week thing and it makes me really sad bc i love her

and i know that we've slowly been drifting apart and i don't know what to do and it's really scaring me

and i feel like i need to find a new best friend bc all the ones i've had in the past have slowly disappeared from my life

and i...

i just want a hug

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

7 minutes ago, echo74 said:

today i was looking at this thing abt best friends and i was thinking abt my best friend

and it made me really sad because i realized that i don't really have one anymore

at the beginning of this school year, i thought i had three

so the first one is my one friend who i've known for many many years and we've been really close but then one day she just started ignoring me for no reason

i had to text her many many times before she would text me back but then eventually we talked stuff out (it wasn't even abt me lol) and i kinda felt like i was walking on eggshells and then i made a huge mistake and i broke a huge commitment i'd made to her and then she wouldn't talk to me or anything for months but now we're talking again but we never really ever made up and it makes me uneasy bc sometimes i'm worried i'll go back to being invisible

the second one is my friend who i've known for like two years but we became really close and i love her so much

but lately idk i just haven't been feeling super connected to her and idk if that just means that we're drifting apart or if it was something i did idk

the third one is my sister

and this one makes me the saddest because out of everyone, i've always had my sister to depend on and now she's gone off to college and we were going to call every day but it's become more of a once a week thing and it makes me really sad bc i love her

and i know that we've slowly been drifting apart and i don't know what to do and it's really scaring me

and i feel like i need to find a new best friend bc all the ones i've had in the past have slowly disappeared from my life

and i...

i just want a hug

*HUUUUUUG*

Oh girlie

I'm so sorry

That's heartbreaking

[The Wandering Wizard he/him]

10 minutes ago, echo74 said:

today i was looking at this thing abt best friends and i was thinking abt my best friend

and it made me really sad because i realized that i don't really have one anymore

at the beginning of this school year, i thought i had three

so the first one is my one friend who i've known for many many years and we've been really close but then one day she just started ignoring me for no reason

i had to text her many many times before she would text me back but then eventually we talked stuff out (it wasn't even abt me lol) and i kinda felt like i was walking on eggshells and then i made a huge mistake and i broke a huge commitment i'd made to her and then she wouldn't talk to me or anything for months but now we're talking again but we never really ever made up and it makes me uneasy bc sometimes i'm worried i'll go back to being invisible

the second one is my friend who i've known for like two years but we became really close and i love her so much

but lately idk i just haven't been feeling super connected to her and idk if that just means that we're drifting apart or if it was something i did idk

the third one is my sister

and this one makes me the saddest because out of everyone, i've always had my sister to depend on and now she's gone off to college and we were going to call every day but it's become more of a once a week thing and it makes me really sad bc i love her

and i know that we've slowly been drifting apart and i don't know what to do and it's really scaring me

and i feel like i need to find a new best friend bc all the ones i've had in the past have slowly disappeared from my life

and i...

i just want a hug

I agree with glass *hugs fiercely*

[echo74 she/her]

10 minutes ago, Through The Living Glass said:

*HUUUUUUG*

Oh girlie

I'm so sorry

That's heartbreaking

8 minutes ago, The Wandering Wizard said:

I agree with glass *hugs fiercely*

thanks guys

[Through the Living Wrath he/him]

43 minutes ago, echo74 said:

today i was looking at this thing abt best friends and i was thinking abt my best friend

and it made me really sad because i realized that i don't really have one anymore

at the beginning of this school year, i thought i had three

so the first one is my one friend who i've known for many many years and we've been really close but then one day she just started ignoring me for no reason

i had to text her many many times before she would text me back but then eventually we talked stuff out (it wasn't even abt me lol) and i kinda felt like i was walking on eggshells and then i made a huge mistake and i broke a huge commitment i'd made to her and then she wouldn't talk to me or anything for months but now we're talking again but we never really ever made up and it makes me uneasy bc sometimes i'm worried i'll go back to being invisible

the second one is my friend who i've known for like two years but we became really close and i love her so much

but lately idk i just haven't been feeling super connected to her and idk if that just means that we're drifting apart or if it was something i did idk

the third one is my sister

and this one makes me the saddest because out of everyone, i've always had my sister to depend on and now she's gone off to college and we were going to call every day but it's become more of a once a week thing and it makes me really sad bc i love her

and i know that we've slowly been drifting apart and i don't know what to do and it's really scaring me

and i feel like i need to find a new best friend bc all the ones i've had in the past have slowly disappeared from my life

and i...

i just want a hug

*hug*
M’friends, sadly, have been growing more aware of “trends” and what is “cool”, while I’ve been growing more eccentric.

*empathetic hug*