You and me both. There seems to mostly be an attempt to define feminism as something that it is not and repudiating the straw-man of the "radical feminist". Outside of the comic @The Honor Spren posted, there isn't much in the way of feminism being discussed, from my perspective.
Feminism does not deal solely in abstract equality. It is meant to address the specific inequality women face, the causes of which are different from inequality caused by, say, racism or different economical class.
Which leads to another tangent: What does one mean by equality? Equality of pay has different solutions then equality of opportunity which is even different from equality of being secured in one's person or equality of expectations or equality of etc and so forth.