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Posted
Just now, Aeoryi said:

You just say hey btw I'm <label>. That means <description>. 

i guess

and it's probably not that hard but like... idk???

Idk why it's hard, it shouldn't be

But family is different than friends
At least queer vs cishet.

 

Posted
4 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

i guess

and it's probably not that hard but like... idk???

Idk why it's hard, it shouldn't be

But family is different than friends
At least queer vs cishet.

 

What are you coming out as

Posted
2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

What are you coming out as

Probably trans.

I did have the thought that it would be easier to just do, like, enby or smth and use they/them...

but that would probably... idk not be coming out fully lol

Posted
Just now, Usseewa said:

Probably trans.

I did have the thought that it would be easier to just do, like, enby or smth and use they/them...

but that would probably... idk not be coming out fully lol

Just say that you're trans be clear with what you expect and what you want them to do and your privacy and for them to uphold it

Posted
2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Just say that you're trans be clear with what you expect and what you want them to do and your privacy and for them to uphold it

ok                          aaaaaaaaaaaa                           aaaaeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeooooooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiiiiiii

maybe

 

but i dont want them to see me weirdly or differently

 

i also dont want them to keep *shudder* seeing me as a man

like...it's kinda cringe sometimes, but also it feels so ... old... like when they use he/him or male-gendered terms... it feels weird and ugh idk how to describe it

Posted
4 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ok                          aaaaaaaaaaaa                           aaaaeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeooooooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiiiiiii

maybe

 

but i dont want them to see me weirdly or differently

 

i also dont want them to keep *shudder* seeing me as a man

like...it's kinda cringe sometimes, but also it feels so ... old... like when they use he/him or male-gendered terms... it feels weird and ugh idk how to describe it

just be straightforward with it

it's never going to happen if you don't do it

Posted
Just now, Aeoryi said:

just be straightforward with it

it's never going to happen if you don't do it

but- but- but

 

where's the right time

do i just say, like, 'i gotta talk to u 'bout smth'

but what if they either dont take it seriiously or, like, dont understnad or ... just dont rlly say anything...

Posted
Just now, Usseewa said:

but- but- but

 

where's the right time

do i just say, like, 'i gotta talk to u 'bout smth'

but what if they either dont take it seriiously or, like, dont understnad or ... just dont rlly say anything...

I don't wanna bully you into doing it but like just make the conversation yourself by being mature and initiating conversation

"I have to tell you something"

Posted (edited)
9 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I don't wanna bully you into doing it but like just make the conversation yourself by being mature and initiating conversation

"I have to tell you something"

ill consider it ig..

i could do it soon..

if i wanted to...

 

ill probably just wait.. i dont rlly wanna come out to them rn?

Edited by Usseewa
Posted
37 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ill consider it ig..

i could do it soon..

if i wanted to...

 

ill probably just wait.. i dont rlly wanna come out to them rn?

Then don't come out to then

Posted
51 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ill consider it ig..

i could do it soon..

if i wanted to...

 

ill probably just wait.. i dont rlly wanna come out to them rn?

🫂

Don't do it if you don't feel safe or feel like the time is right

You don't owe them anything

Do it on your own time

Posted
Just now, Through The Living Glass said:

🫂

Don't do it if you don't feel safe or feel like the time is right

You don't owe them anything

Do it on your own time

ty

ig im just not ready, or don't wanto rn.

Just now, Aeoryi said:

You can always just... un-come out

wdym...

but then i'd've told them and stuff

Posted
3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ty

ig im just not ready, or don't wanto rn.

wdym...

but then i'd've told them and stuff

you just say "forget that" and most people will 

Posted
2 hours ago, Usseewa said:

Any advice for coming out to family?

 

Like I keep saying I will and then ... don't.

Idk if I want to, but I know I probably should.

Actually, I think I do want to, but just worried it'll be...weird?

come out using a meme?

Spoiler

coming out memes : r/TransMasc

or smth

idk I came out in a screaming argument when my dad was like "OMG YOU'RE GOING TO READ THESE EXPLICIT BOOKS AND IT WILL CREATE FEELINGS IN YOU"

"NO DAD THATS REALLY GROSS AND I DO NOT UNDERSTAND YOU AND MOM OR OTHER HUMANS I'M ASEXUAL oops"

1 hour ago, CoderDrag0n8 said:

Yes you can

heh excellent one momento

Posted (edited)
2 minutes ago, momadrac said:

come out using a meme?

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coming out memes : r/TransMasc

or smth

idk I came out in a screaming argument when my dad was like "OMG YOU'RE GOING TO READ THESE EXPLICIT BOOKS AND IT WILL CREATE FEELINGS IN YOU"

"NO DAD THATS REALLY GROSS AND I DO NOT UNDERSTAND YOU AND MOM OR OTHER HUMANS I'M ASEXUAL oops"

but...

Spoiler

they probably don't even know what trans means.

 

also that's fun lol..

 

edit: i love that tho. it'd probably work, just with different people. maybe friends if i had any

Edited by Usseewa
Posted (edited)
3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

but...

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they probably don't even know what trans means.

 

also that's fun lol..

oof that really sucks then sorry

yeah they think its fake........ I haven't told them abt being bi yet......

 

@SpartanBrigade

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made a copy of a pride flyer I already made

Edited by momadrac
Posted (edited)
4 minutes ago, momadrac said:

oof that really sucks then sorry

yeah they think its fake........ I haven't told them abt being bi yet......

well... i guess i could explain it... it would be weird tho idk. they might not even get it.

oof srry too. mb u should. when ur ready ofc!!!! why would they think it's fake lol

4 minutes ago, momadrac said:

oof that really sucks then sorry

yeah they think its fake........ I haven't told them abt being bi yet......

 

@SpartanBrigade

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made a copy of a pride flyer I already made

OMG I WANTTTTRTT

to come to one of those

 

actually i am involved in smth similar :3

 

sidenote: anyone else love pickin' out their outfit?

omg. i just made a pun. out as in out of the closet. out-fit. tehe

Edited by Usseewa
Posted
1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

well... i guess i could explain it... it would be weird tho idk. they might not even get it.

oof srry too. mb u should. when ur ready ofc!!!! why would they think it's fake lol

OMG I WANTTTTRTT

to come to one of those

 

actually i am involved in smth similar :3

yess you should come to Spartan and i's gay pity depression party!!

I explained it to my parents but they were like it will hit when ur older..... for demi 'isn't that everyone' NO

parents can suck sowwy

gotta go to bed now byee

Posted
6 minutes ago, momadrac said:

oof that really sucks then sorry

yeah they think its fake........ I haven't told them abt being bi yet......

 

@SpartanBrigade

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made a copy of a pride flyer I already made

What’s up

I’ve missed several pages

Posted

o, @momadrac and everyone, btw im already out to some of my fam, but not all.. if that makes sense

Just now, SpartanBrigade said:

What’s up

I’ve missed several pages

i forgor

 

i think we were talking about coming out

Posted
4 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

well... i guess i could explain it... it would be weird tho idk. they might not even get it.

oof srry too. mb u should. when ur ready ofc!!!! why would they think it's fake lol

OMG I WANTTTTRTT

to come to one of those

 

actually i am involved in smth similar :3

 

sidenote: anyone else love pickin' out their outfit?

omg. i just made a pun. out as in out of the closet. out-fit. tehe

Yes, well depends, in the morning for school no bc I no wear feminine clothes but at night or at a party, Yes

Posted
1 minute ago, SpartanBrigade said:

What’s up

I’ve missed several pages

Gay pity party

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