Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Don't downplay your achievements you sounded very happy with that name :3 No problem either I was :3 Now idk im probably making myself feel or not feel happy about it or something like that and that probably was unintelligible... edit: I defo see a few signs that im trans from when i was a youth... edit2: and i keep feeling giddy and squirmy (in a good way) when i think about being a girl and my name or pronouns Edited January 14 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Theory said: I was :3 Now idk im probably making myself feel or not feel happy about it or something like that and that probably was unintelligible... That's how happiness works, you know. And besides, even if it was you making yourself happy that just proves that you actually wanted to use the name Lily. Checkmate. 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: That's how happiness works, you know. And besides, even if it was you making yourself happy that just proves that you actually wanted to use the name Lily. Checkmate. But what if I expect myself to want to use it because I think I think I'm trans so I'm just following the expected things? Also see my edits to previous post. Also, I am very aware that practically everything I'm saying is probably a sign that I'm trans but literally it's still what I feel and think. It's like...just because you tell someone it's normal to doubt if they're trans, they can still doubt that they're trans. Maybe they're like "oh, doubts are normal. I'm doubting. But what if it's not a sign? What if I'm just doubting because I actually am not trans?" (and you can see how they think they're trans, then doubt that they're trans, then use those doubts to fuel further doubts, which...yeah. Also this hypothetical person is basically just Lily. She's very doubtful. Also why did that give me euphoria.) Edit: also...I do like using the name Lily, but...that doesn't mean I'm trans hehe......my arguments probably sound very weak but they are real) edit2: i guess i just...dont wanna accept that i might be trans idk...because what if im wrong? i guess i wouldn't even need to commit full-on, right away, but still... Edited January 14 by Theory 2
certifiedcranedriver she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 6 minutes ago, Theory said: because what if im wrong? i guess i wouldn't even need to commit full-on, right away, but still (okay this isnt necessarily something im experienced in helping, but im still gonna try) well, its okay to be wrong. gender identity is a very complex thing which can take some time to figure out, and its okay to not fully commit. take your time to figure out what feels good to you. (apologies if this is ineffective, but i just wanted to help a little)
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 Just now, certifiedcranedriver said: (okay this isnt necessarily something im experienced in helping, but im still gonna try) well, its okay to be wrong. gender identity is a very complex thing which can take some time to figure out, and its okay to not fully commit. take your time to figure out what feels good to you. (apologies if this is ineffective, but i just wanted to help a little) thx :3 ur right... it's like a journey i guess. self-discovery
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 2 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Matilda OMG I DID MATILDA ONCE I LOVE THAT SHOWWW Holy rust this thread been active that’s great ofc but it means I’ve got a lot to read through 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: OMG I DID MATILDA ONCE I LOVE THAT SHOWWW Holy rust this thread been active that’s great ofc but it means I’ve got a lot to read through Yeah hehe :3 17 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: OMG I DID MATILDA ONCE I LOVE THAT SHOWWW Holy rust this thread been active that’s great ofc but it means I’ve got a lot to read through pretty much 30+ new pages in the last like 5 days, which = like 700+ replies Edited January 14 by Theory
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 23 hours ago, Aeoryi said: Interestingly enough I haven't. My parents are on the older range. I have bought *some* fem clothes but I still need to get more (such as programmer socks) Spoiler found this meme hehe edit: those are "programmer socks," right? I had to look up the term.. Edited January 14 by Theory 2
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 6 minutes ago, Theory said: Reveal hidden contents found this meme hehe edit: those are "programmer socks," right? I had to look up the term.. Yes, I neeeed some of those myself 1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said: Yes, I neeeed some of those myself Me too girl
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said: Yes, I neeeed some of those myself All i have are...like...regular socks that barely reach my knees (they don't, but close).
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 hour ago, Theory said: But what if I expect myself to want to use it because I think I think I'm trans so I'm just following the expected things "how do I know I'm not making this up" Also Lily: 2 hours ago, Theory said: and i keep feeling giddy and squirmy (in a good way) when i think about being a girl and my name or pronouns 1 hour ago, Theory said: edit2: i guess i just...dont wanna accept that i might be trans idk...because what if im wrong? i guess i wouldn't even need to commit full-on, right away, but still... Yeah it's scary to commit to it. Some people do lots of stuff. Some people don't. It's ultimately up to you. 12 minutes ago, Theory said: Reveal hidden contents found this meme hehe Neeeeeeeeddddddd 1 hour ago, Theory said: Maybe they're like "oh, doubts are normal. I'm doubting. But what if it's not a sign? What if I'm just doubting because I actually am not trans?" (and you can see how they think they're trans, then doubt that they're trans, then use those doubts to fuel further doubts, which...yeah. Also this hypothetical person is basically just Lily. She's very doubtful. Also why did that give me euphoria.) cis people who want to be trans are trans people 1 hour ago, certifiedcranedriver said: (okay this isnt necessarily something im experienced in helping, but im still gonna try) well, its okay to be wrong. gender identity is a very complex thing which can take some time to figure out, and its okay to not fully commit. take your time to figure out what feels good to you. (apologies if this is ineffective, but i just wanted to help a little) ^this 2
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: "how do I know I'm not making this up" Also Lily: Yeah it's scary to commit to it. Some people do lots of stuff. Some people don't. It's ultimately up to you. Neeeeeeeeddddddd cis people who want to be trans are trans people ^this Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler (^false luckily) 16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: cis people who want to be trans are trans people "CIS PEOPLE who want to be trans" 16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Neeeeeeeeddddddd Why do ppl like them? 16 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: "how do I know I'm not making this up" Also Lily: I never said that. Lily did. also I'm out of excuses at the moment Edited January 14 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 13 minutes ago, Theory said: "CIS PEOPLE who want to be trans" they're trans, they don't know it yet 13 minutes ago, Theory said: Why do ppl like them? they go well well with the skirt I have (I hope) 14 minutes ago, Theory said: never said that. Lily did Lily is a name for you not for someone else who talks for you 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: they're trans, they don't know it yet they go well well with the skirt I have (I hope) Lily is a name for you not for someone else who talks for you At the moment I'm not rlly feeling anything in particular (as per usual) so I can't rlly come up with excuses or say more about how I might be trans. i need smth to relate to...or smth... Edited January 14 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 2 minutes ago, Theory said: At the moment I'm not rlly feeling anything in particular (as per usual) so I can't rlly come up with excuses or say more about how I might be trans. i need smth to relate to...or smth... ok well I can tell you from a young age I always wanted a female name, to use female pronouns I mean here's a good analogy: There is a button here that can turn you into a girl no questions asked. You have five seconds. Do you press it?
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: ok well I can tell you from a young age I always wanted a female name, to use female pronouns I mean here's a good analogy: There is a button here that can turn you into a girl no questions asked. You have five seconds. Do you press it? *takes longer than 5 seconds to think about it* (also I've seen that question a few times in the past few days but always avoided answering it cuz I either know what the answer will be or don't want to or idk) uhhhhmmmmmmmmm mmmmm eeeeee uhhh probably
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 Just now, Theory said: *takes longer than 5 seconds to think about it* (also I've seen that question a few times in the past few days but always avoided answering it cuz I either know what the answer will be or don't want to or idk) uhhhhmmmmmmmmm mmmmm eeeeee uhhh probably what's making you hesitate?
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: what's making you hesitate? i guess im hesitating less than before. idk. im a Chidi at heart. (Have you seen The Good Place?) Edited January 14 by Theory 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 Just now, Theory said: i guess im hesitating less than before. idk. im a Chidi at heart. (Have you seen The Good Place?) What's causing you to hesitate though
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: what's making you hesitate? I guess I think I would press it but...idk Just now, Aeoryi said: What's causing you to hesitate though i dont know.....
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Theory said: i guess im hesitating less than before. idk. im a Chidi at heart. (Have you seen The Good Place?) Yoo, peak show
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 Just now, Theory said: I guess I think I would press it but...idk i dont know..... okay, here's a better question. What's compelling you to press the button? Spoiler there's no wrong answer btw don't worry about that
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 14 Posted January 14 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: What's causing you to hesitate though im wavering between deciding whether i have no good reasons left to not press it and so i do wanna press but still feel like i dont or dont know cuz that's what i was like before, or ... idk thats probably the reason Edited January 14 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 14 Posted January 14 1 minute ago, Theory said: im wavering between deciding whether i have no good reasons left to not press it and so i do wanna press but still feel like i dont or dont know cuz that's what i was like before, or ... idk thats probably the reason You can be whoever you want to be in this world, Lily. That's the beauty of it. 1
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