Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 23 Posted January 23 7 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said: Can I say something? It’a brilliant that this is a space for transfem folks to talk to each other. There needs to be a place for that, and the T is and always will be a part of LGBTQ+. Just… at the same time the original premise of the thread was that it was a place for everyone, be they gay, lesbian, bi, pan, ace, trans, or anything else. It feels like recently a lot of us queer boys, gals, and non-binary pals who aren’t transfem have been sort of… smothered out. I know I myself have pretty much stopped posting here and I’ve noticed the same thing with other friends too. You're right. What about that other thread? was that a good idea? should we use it again? 2
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 23 Posted January 23 3 minutes ago, Theory said: You're right. What about that other thread? was that a good idea? should we use it again? A good idea, if others feel left out. I'll focus my gay endeavors here, with more trans stuff on the other thread. 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 23 Posted January 23 25 minutes ago, SpartanBrigade said: Can I say something? It’a brilliant that this is a space for transfem folks to talk to each other. There needs to be a place for that, and the T is and always will be a part of LGBTQ+. Just… at the same time the original premise of the thread was that it was a place for everyone, be they gay, lesbian, bi, pan, ace, trans, or anything else. It feels like recently a lot of us queer boys, gals, and non-binary pals who aren’t transfem have been sort of… smothered out. I know I myself have pretty much stopped posting here and I’ve noticed the same thing with other friends too. This thread has had a surge of activity tbh. Not all of it has been trans stuff but a significant portion of it has. But as theory said maybe extended conversations might be best moved to the trans thread instead. 2
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 1 hour ago, SpartanBrigade said: Can I say something? It’a brilliant that this is a space for transfem folks to talk to each other. There needs to be a place for that, and the T is and always will be a part of LGBTQ+. Just… at the same time the original premise of the thread was that it was a place for everyone, be they gay, lesbian, bi, pan, ace, trans, or anything else. It feels like recently a lot of us queer boys, gals, and non-binary pals who aren’t transfem have been sort of… smothered out. I know I myself have pretty much stopped posting here and I’ve noticed the same thing with other friends too. That's what I've been trying to say. But they often just disappear again 1
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 30 Posted January 30 (edited) @SpartanBrigade @Keke @Ink and Embers @KnightSkye Reforged @Kansas Stormcursed @everyone else I forgot Return to this thread Edited January 30 by Akimikoisthecutest 2
Keke They/he Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: @SpartanBrigade @Keke @Ink and Embers @KnightSkye Reforged @Kansas Stormcursed @everyone else I forgot AH IM BACK sorry
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said: @SpartanBrigade @Keke @Ink and Embers @KnightSkye Reforged @Kansas Stormcursed @everyone else I forgot Return to this thread I've been here I just didn't have anything to say Just straight panic happening on my end, for once. No gay panic However, since I'm here *chops @KnightSkye Reforged*
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 (edited) On 1/23/2026 at 4:28 PM, SpartanBrigade said: Can I say something? It’a brilliant that this is a space for transfem folks to talk to each other. There needs to be a place for that, and the T is and always will be a part of LGBTQ+. Just… at the same time the original premise of the thread was that it was a place for everyone, be they gay, lesbian, bi, pan, ace, trans, or anything else. It feels like recently a lot of us queer boys, gals, and non-binary pals who aren’t transfem have been sort of… smothered out. I know I myself have pretty much stopped posting here and I’ve noticed the same thing with other friends too. Yeah I agree with this 9 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: I've been here I just didn't have anything to say Just straight panic happening on my end, for once. No gay panic However, since I'm here *chops @KnightSkye Reforged* oooh drama? wanna share? I'm good at understanding girls if its straight bi panik =))))) 11 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: @SpartanBrigade @Keke @Ink and Embers @KnightSkye Reforged @Kansas Stormcursed @everyone else I forgot Return to this thread I have arrived again sorry y'all that I've been gone some mental health stuff going on but I'm mostly better now and I'll be on a lot more also anything significant happen lately? anyone came out, etc? Edited January 30 by momadrac
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, momadrac said: sorry y'all that I've been gone some mental health stuff going on but I'm mostly better now and I'll be on a lot more (I'm Theory, I just changed my username+PFP) I hate mental health stuff... not fun at all... 2 minutes ago, momadrac said: also anything significant happen lately? anyone came out, etc? I don't think so
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 Just now, Usseewa said: (I'm Theory, I just changed my username+PFP) I hate mental health stuff... not fun at all... I don't think so ooooh okay yeah it sucks
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 30 Posted January 30 13 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: I've been here I just didn't have anything to say Just straight panic happening on my end, for once. No gay panic However, since I'm here *chops @KnightSkye Reforged* I’m rly good at setting people up, as long as I’m not one of them
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 3 minutes ago, momadrac said: Yeah I agree with this oooh drama? wanna share? I'm good at understanding girls if its straight bi panik =))))) I have arrived again sorry y'all that I've been gone some mental health stuff going on but I'm mostly better now and I'll be on a lot more also anything significant happen lately? anyone came out, etc? *hugs* Nah this thread has been quiet Well, not really much help can be given. I've confirmed she doesn't like me back, so I'm just kinda enjoying talking to her. Still panicking though cause what else does one do? Just now, Honors Ghost said: I’m rly good at setting people up, as long as I’m not one of them Yeah that ain't happening 1
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said: I’m rly good at setting people up, as long as I’m not one of them lol real 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: *hugs* Nah this thread has been quiet Well, not really much help can be given. I've confirmed she doesn't like me back, so I'm just kinda enjoying talking to her. Still panicking though cause what else does one do? thanks *hugs back* oh that sucks I'm sorry what happened to that one guy with a gf?
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 7 minutes ago, momadrac said: lol real thanks *hugs back* oh that sucks I'm sorry what happened to that one guy with a gf? I wasn't able to see him anymore. The job we had had to stop due to lack of funding, so now he's back to doing his thing and I'm back to doing mine. Our paths only cross at big dojo events now
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: I wasn't able to see him anymore. The job we had had to stop due to lack of funding, so now he's back to doing his thing and I'm back to doing mine. Our paths only cross at big dojo events now god that sucks not only did you lose the guy you lost your job the two biggest pains of life
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 2 minutes ago, momadrac said: god that sucks not only did you lose the guy you lost your job the two biggest pains of life Yeah Well there was no shot with the guy anyway And I traded it for another job at my dojo, so not too bad. Just two months of reduced income, operating solely on my other job. End of this month is my first paycheck for the new job again, and then I'm back to normal 1
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Yeah Well there was no shot with the guy anyway And I traded it for another job at my dojo, so not too bad. Just two months of reduced income, operating solely on my other job. End of this month is my first paycheck for the new job again, and then I'm back to normal Good job being positive I need a job chat I'm really screwed without one
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 Just now, momadrac said: Good job being positive I need a job chat I'm really screwed without one Ain't much else I can do. Depression gets me everywhere, gotta fight it somehow Spoiler Go do martial arts. Get good at it. It can offer jobs Or Barnes & Noble. That'd be a sick job
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Ain't much else I can do. Depression gets me everywhere, gotta fight it somehow Reveal hidden contents Go do martial arts. Get good at it. It can offer jobs Or Barnes & Noble. That'd be a sick job yesssss read behind the counter and get paid depression thing is real 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 30 Posted January 30 7 minutes ago, Kansas Stormcursed said: Ain't much else I can do. Depression gets me everywhere, gotta fight it somehow Hide contents Go do martial arts. Get good at it. It can offer jobs Or Barnes & Noble. That'd be a sick job 5 minutes ago, momadrac said: yesssss read behind the counter and get paid depression thing is real Ahhh yess... Yes, unfortunately it is. I wanted a job recently. Now idk if I do. 1
momadrac they/them Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, Usseewa said: Ahhh yess... Yes, unfortunately it is. I wanted a job recently. Now idk if I do. this is real I dunno if I want to deal with having someone yelling daily at me again after all I lost my last job after screaming at my employer for homophobia and walking out without my paycheck 1
Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾ Posted January 30 Posted January 30 1 minute ago, momadrac said: this is real I dunno if I want to deal with having someone yelling daily at me again after all I lost my last job after screaming at my employer for homophobia and walking out without my paycheck Oof yeah. I've ne'er had a job I honestly wanted even like a drive-thru job. I think the main reason was just to be around people... yeah that actually was the reason.
Kansas Stormcursed he/him Posted January 30 Posted January 30 5 minutes ago, momadrac said: this is real I dunno if I want to deal with having someone yelling daily at me again after all I lost my last job after screaming at my employer for homophobia and walking out without my paycheck Are you perchance in the South Average employer moment if so *hugs*
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 30 Posted January 30 I still have a sorta job. I mean I get paid. It's extremely difficult. But I prefer volunteer work. It's nice to be able to work with kids until politics makes me give it up 1
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 30 Posted January 30 43 minutes ago, momadrac said: also anything significant happen lately? anyone came out, etc? I came out to a few friends and maybe my aunt. I'm working my way up to my parents. I've decided that the latest possible date I can come out to them is March 31st 3
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