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[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

1 hour ago, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

Hugggsss

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So yesterday I found out my best friend started doing self harm and I genuinely have no idea what to do as someone who has never dealt with that type of thing before I want to help but fear I will do what I always do and just make it worse.

but I’m so worried abt her if anyone has suggestions on what to do they’d be much appreciated.

Hugs would be pretty nice rn

*hugs*

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

8 minutes ago, Hawks said:

*hugs* let her know that you still care about her and that if she ever needs to she can reach out to you. 

This is yes

Sigh I tell her that all the time bc she’s struggled w depression and whatnot in the past so I’m pretty sure she knows that but I will make sure she knows

[Shatter He/Him]

On 5/9/2025 at 12:09 AM, Through The Living Glass said:

*you're beautiful

*cough* sorry

*hugs*

thanks

. . . you too? uhhhhhh-

you're very handsome? :D:D?

agreed

[Shatter He/Him]

okey dokey

me complaining about my appearance

Spoiler

I hate my appearance

I just don't like how I look.

I used to have pimples which I picked and now I have scabs. And they refuse to heal.

Ugh.

 

[Through the Living Hope]

2 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

okey dokey

me complaining about my appearance

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I hate my appearance

I just don't like how I look.

I used to have pimples which I picked and now I have scabs. And they refuse to heal.

Ugh.

 

You look fine!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

4 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

okey dokey

me complaining about my appearance

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I hate my appearance

I just don't like how I look.

I used to have pimples which I picked and now I have scabs. And they refuse to heal.

Ugh.

 

dude you look pretty darn good 

[Shatter He/Him]

3 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

You look fine!

no i dont. Im ugly. I have nice hair (not cut for a while due to religious reasons) but thats it.

[Through the Living Hope]

Just now, The Shattered Cosmere said:

no i dont. Im ugly. I have nice hair (not cut for a while due to religious reasons) but thats it.

You're not ugly!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, The Shattered Cosmere said:

no i dont. Im ugly. I have nice hair (not cut for a while due to religious reasons) but thats it.

Hey don’t say that you look good and anyone who tells you otherwise is just insecure 

[𝖂𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖊]

Agreed to all of this. You look great! If startlingly similar to a friend of mine...

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, 𝖂𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖊 said:

Agreed to all of this. You look great! If startlingly similar to a friend of mine...

lol yah I also have a friend who looks pretty similar

[Shatter He/Him]

Just now, 𝖂𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖊 said:

Agreed to all of this. You look great! If startlingly similar to a friend of mine...

Just now, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

lol yah I also have a friend who looks pretty similar

I've found I look pretty generic

[𝖂𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖊]

Just now, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

lol yah I also have a friend who looks pretty similar

Speaking of startling, how did you reply so fast??

[Keke They/he]

35 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

agreed

Danke? (Which part are you agreeing to?)

17 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

okey dokey

me complaining about my appearance

  Reveal hidden contents

I hate my appearance

I just don't like how I look.

I used to have pimples which I picked and now I have scabs. And they refuse to heal.

Ugh.

 

1 word. FIRE GANG. 

11 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

no i dont. Im ugly. I have nice hair (not cut for a while due to religious reasons) but thats it.

nuhhhhh uh your not ugly. Your handsome ok? 

1 minute ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

I've found I look pretty generic

I wouldn't say that

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

2 minutes ago, 𝖂𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖊 said:

Speaking of startling, how did you reply so fast??

I’m in a study hall and have been periodically checking the shard ig I just reopened it right as you posted

[Shatter He/Him]

Just now, Hawks said:

Danke? (Which part are you agreeing to?)

both i guess... I've never seena picture of Glass tho. Her personality is beautiful

Just now, Hawks said:

1 word. FIRE GANG. 

nuhhhhh uh your not ugly. Your handsome ok? 

Isnt that 2 words? 

also ok. me no ugly

*whispers*

Hawks is scawwy

Just now, Hawks said:

I wouldn't say that

why not?

[Keke They/he]

2 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

both i guess... I've never seena picture of Glass tho. Her personality is beautiful

She sounds beutiful. I've heard her one time when I called null snd they were on a date xD

2 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

Isnt that 2 words? 

also ok. me no ugly

*whispers*

Hawks is scawwy

Shhh

Yes u no uglyyy

Nawr im not, i gibs hugs *hugs*

2 minutes ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

why not?

I've yet to meet someone who looks as radical as u do *dabs*

[Shatter He/Him]

1 minute ago, Hawks said:

She sounds beutiful. I've heard her one time when I called null snd they were on a date xD

Shhh

Yes u no uglyyy

Nawr im not, i gibs hugs *hugs*

I've yet to meet someone who looks as radical as u do *dabs*

*hugs*

I no ugly

*hugs*

[Keke They/he]

nyuk nyuk nyuk, its working.

i am all caught up in computer art!!!!!!!!!!!! YWAHhhwhahehaehahwha *dies* *revives* AND I HAVE MY FINAL SOOFTBOOL GAMAYE tonight. horeplfully that gores well.

3 hours ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

*hugs*

I no ugly

*hugs*

*hugs*

yeha

ghespt u  was born in new zealand!!!

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

33 minutes ago, Hawks said:

nyuk nyuk nyuk, its working.

i am all caught up in computer art!!!!!!!!!!!! YWAHhhwhahehaehahwha *dies* *revives* AND I HAVE MY FINAL SOOFTBOOL GAMAYE tonight. horeplfully that gores well.

*hugs*

yeha

ghespt u  was born in new zealand!!!

Whattttt thats so cool

[Hoid Slayer He/Him]

7 hours ago, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

Hugggsss

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So yesterday I found out my best friend started doing self harm and I genuinely have no idea what to do as someone who has never dealt with that type of thing before I want to help but fear I will do what I always do and just make it worse.

but I’m so worried abt her if anyone has suggestions on what to do they’d be much appreciated.

Hugs would be pretty nice rn

*hugs*

I don't know what advice to give, other than, maybe, tell her some of the things we say on here.

That she's worth saving. Worth protecting. That she's amazing, but its easy to see the darkness in ourselves. The darkness in the world. Make sure she knows that stuff.

For anything else, you should probably try and find out the reason behind her behavior.

5 hours ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

okey dokey

me complaining about my appearance

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I hate my appearance

I just don't like how I look.

I used to have pimples which I picked and now I have scabs. And they refuse to heal.

Ugh.

 

Hey

You look fine

You no ugly

4 hours ago, The Shattered Cosmere said:

Hawks is scawwy

@Hawks SEE

I wasn't crazy

 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

8 hours ago, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

Hugggsss

This is in a spoiler box due to topics of sh

  Reveal hidden contents

So yesterday I found out my best friend started doing self harm and I genuinely have no idea what to do as someone who has never dealt with that type of thing before I want to help but fear I will do what I always do and just make it worse.

but I’m so worried abt her if anyone has suggestions on what to do they’d be much appreciated.

Hugs would be pretty nice rn

tw:sh

Spoiler

So I talked to her abt it and she said she does it bc in the middle of all her issues and stuff it helps her feel grounded and more alive sorta is how she explained it. I also asked if she was planning on stopping and she said she didn’t know. I genuinely don’t know what to do bc obviously I don’t want her to do this but I can’t control her and force her to not do that bc that’d probably make it worse.

[Keke They/he]

2 hours ago, Hoid Slayer said:

*hugs*

I don't know what advice to give, other than, maybe, tell her some of the things we say on here.

That she's worth saving. Worth protecting. That she's amazing, but its easy to see the darkness in ourselves. The darkness in the world. Make sure she knows that stuff.

For anything else, you should probably try and find out the reason behind her behavior.

Hey

You look fine

You no ugly

@Hawks SEE

I wasn't crazy

 

@#1 Taln Fan apparently your not the only one people think are scary 

1 hour ago, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

tw:sh

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So I talked to her abt it and she said she does it bc in the middle of all her issues and stuff it helps her feel grounded and more alive sorta is how she explained it. I also asked if she was planning on stopping and she said she didn’t know. I genuinely don’t know what to do bc obviously I don’t want her to do this but I can’t control her and force her to not do that bc that’d probably make it worse.

Just support her. And do. Not. Ever. Say your sad/disapointed/annoyed or anything about her sh

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

19 minutes ago, Hawks said:

@#1 Taln Fan apparently your not the only one people think are scary 

Just support her. And do. Not. Ever. Say your sad/disapointed/annoyed or anything about her sh

Ok thank you everyone who responded has helped a lot I’m still scared but it’s better and uh yah thsnks

[Keke They/he]

I HIT THE BALL I HIT THE BALL

I GOT UP TO BAT AND AFTER A PEP TALK FROM ONE OF MY TEAMMATES I HIT THE BALL

then time stopped I froze then after snapping out of it ran to first and got out.

BUT I HIT THE BALL AHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAGAGAHAG

And it was my last game.

3 minutes ago, Heřãłðøfľõvê said:

Ok thank you everyone who responded has helped a lot I’m still scared but it’s better and uh yah thsnks

No *hugs*