Certified Gay Disasters

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

I think my attraction to guys and girls and nb folks are all separate and very different, and therefore doesn't quite fit the technical definition of panromanticism, but I still identify as pan because it feels right lol.

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

1 hour ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

on the contrary it's super fun

Bi gang cause i like girls better

they're so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyy

It's fun to constantly be distracted by everyone around you, and to constantly question if your feelings are reciprocated?

[Szeth's Facepalm]

58 minutes ago, The Aspiring Archivist said:

It's fun to constantly be distracted by everyone around you, and to constantly question if your feelings are reciprocated?

umm... just because you don't feel something and don't understand it doesn't mean you have to put others down. i appreciate that you're aro and don't experience crushes and love the same way, and i'm not responding to everything you say about it with negative comments. i'd really appreciate it if you'd stop putting me down just because you don't understand my experience :(

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

47 minutes ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

umm... just because you don't feel something and don't understand it doesn't mean you have to put others down. i appreciate that you're aro and don't experience crushes and love the same way, and i'm not responding to everything you say about it with negative comments. i'd really appreciate it if you'd stop putting me down just because you don't understand my experience

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be condescending. I'm more trying to understand it, and I'm asking questions because it confuses me. I have nothing against romance at all, and I don't think it's a bad thing that you feel the way you do. I just think it's interesting that the thing you enjoy sounds like it would cause a lot of anxiety, for me at least.

[Szeth's Facepalm]

14 minutes ago, The Aspiring Archivist said:

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be condescending. I'm more trying to understand it, and I'm asking questions because it confuses me. I have nothing against romance at all, and I don't think it's a bad thing that you feel the way you do. I just think it's interesting that the thing you enjoy sounds like it would cause a lot of anxiety, for me at least.

Well... it doesn't. we're all different, i guess. i don't view every small crush as "omg i need to be in a relationship with this person"- on the contrary, i'm totally not interested in anything like that atm, since i feel way to young. but i just view crushes as fun, and i think people are nice looking and fun to be around and like romantically, and i don't think it's stressful at all.

questions are great and awesome and cool, but please be polite. i wasn't miffed because you were asking questions, i was miffed because it was in a rude manner.

:)

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

Well... it doesn't. we're all different, i guess. i don't view every small crush as "omg i need to be in a relationship with this person"- on the contrary, i'm totally not interested in anything like that atm, since i feel way to young. but i just view crushes as fun, and i think people are nice looking and fun to be around and like romantically, and i don't think it's stressful at all.

questions are great and awesome and cool, but please be polite. i wasn't miffed because you were asking questions, i was miffed because it was in a rude manner.

Cool, that's actually quite helpful.

I do realize now that the way I phrased my question was pretty blunt. I'm not the most socially adept person, so that can sometimes be an issue with me. Thanks for letting me know that it bothered you. I had no ill intent by it.

[Going_North_cal]

4 hours ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

on the contrary it's super fun

Bi gang cause i like girls better

they're so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyy

just cuddle me im so touch starved PLEASE

[Szeth's Facepalm]

Just now, CalanoCorvus said:

just cuddle me im so touch starved PLEASE

*sends cuddles and headpats*

it's ok doomie you're gonna make it

[Going_North_cal]

i can never get enough cuddles and kisses

i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved.

[Szeth's Facepalm]

1 minute ago, CalanoCorvus said:

i can never get enough cuddles and kisses

i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved.

dude don't you have a gf?

i'm joking i know you have a gf. obviously i know you have a gf.

do we need to tag her?

[Going_North_cal]

1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

dude don't you have a gf?

i'm joking i know you have a gf. obviously i know you have a gf.

do we need to tag her?

she is exceptionally busy ;-;

she will not respond to your tag for it is show week for her and tonight is opening night and i see her for the first time since monday morning

anyways.

[Szeth's Facepalm]

5 minutes ago, CalanoCorvus said:

she is exceptionally busy ;-;

she will not respond to your tag for it is show week for her and tonight is opening night and i see her for the first time since monday morning

anyways.

aw

tell her to break a leg :D

and pillows are good for hugs if you have no humans to hug.

[Going_North_cal]

1 minute ago, Szeth's Facepalm said:

aw

tell her to break a leg

and pillows are good for hugs if you have no humans to hug.

i sent her some good tips this omrning >:)

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

17 minutes ago, CalanoCorvus said:

i can never get enough cuddles and kisses

i am so unimaginably romantically and physically starved.

Poor Calano.

*gives imaginary hug*

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

Greetings humans! Mind if I join yall?

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

31 minutes ago, TheGreatSnail said:

Greetings humans! Mind if I join yall?

Hello there!

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

Hewwoooo

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

1 minute ago, TheGreatSnail said:

Hewwoooo

So what brings you here?

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

Just now, The Aspiring Archivist said:

So what brings you here?

I was just looking through the shard to see what would interest me (I havent read most of his books), and I saw that there were queers sooooooo.... now im here

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

Just now, TheGreatSnail said:

I was just looking through the shard to see what would interest me (I havent read most of his books), and I saw that there were queers sooooooo.... now im here

Ah. If you don't mind me asking, how do you identify?

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

Omniromatic (preference for nonmen) and acesexual, pronouns are she/her

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

2 minutes ago, TheGreatSnail said:

Omniromatic (preference for nonmen) and acesexual, pronouns are she/her

Cool. Welcome in! I'm aroace, he/him.

What brings you to the shard?

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

1 minute ago, The Aspiring Archivist said:

Cool. Welcome in! I'm aroace, he/him.

What brings you to the shard?

My friends convinced me to start reading Skyward and to get on the shard, after about a month of them asking.

[The Aspiring Archivist any pronouns]

Just now, TheGreatSnail said:

My friends convinced me to start reading Skyward and to get on the shard, after about a month of them asking.

Ah, so you were pressured. What sharders do you know, then?

[TheGreatSnail she/her]

Just now, The Aspiring Archivist said:

Ah, so you were pressured. What sharders do you know, then?

@InfiniteInsanity and @The Bookwyrm were the ones who were asking