Certified Gay Disasters

[That1Cellist he/him]

1 minute ago, Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat said:

You should look up the seven greek words for love. Each one means a different, specicfic kind of love. i think they are all great words and should be in everyone's vocabulary

Ah, very good. Greek is a nicely refined language, as is Latin. I have a great fondness for Latin.

Edited December 1, 2022 by Ookla the Unknowing

[Szeth's Facepalm]

Just now, Ookla the Unknowing said:

Ah, very good. Greek is a nicely refined language, as is Latin. I have a great fondness for Latin.

i looooove latin.

definetly not because The Raven Cycle is by Maggie Steifvater is my whole personality and there's a lot of latin in that series

ok maybe because of the raven cycle, but that was just where my love for latin bloomed, it has expanded past just loving it because it's in the raven cycle.

it's also in Babel by R. F. Kuang!

jk i do actually love latin even when it's not in fantasy novels

[That1Cellist he/him]

Should I read that series? If it's too dark or has a lot of swearing, I won't read it, but I've heard some good things.

Yes, Latin is awesome.

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2 hours ago, Ookla the Unknowing said:

Should I read that series? If it's too dark or has a lot of swearing, I won't read it, but I've heard some good things.

Yes, Latin is awesome.

ABSOLUTELY 100 PERCENT ALL THE WAY READ IT READ IT READ IT. There is this one character who swears a lot, and book two (which is mainly about the sweary character) does have some dark themes, but it was fine for my 12 year old friend, and also it's literally the best series ever written, soooooooo yeah. I think the strong themes of friendship and magic and love (not to mention the plot and writing) completely out-weigh anything bad. There's nothing in it as dark as Kaladin and Shallan's backstories, for sure.

Edited December 1, 2022 by Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

On 11/30/2022 at 8:29 AM, Elf of Ooklas said:

Also Ookla the Blight, thank you because i actually didn't know that! I know next to nothing about asexuality and I'll take all the education i can get

would you like an asexuality crash course?

[Guest]

Yes i would 

[Going_North_cal]

i wouldn't mind that either so i can learn the good gay knowledge

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

Okay so at its absolute most basic, asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but it's also a pretty big umbrella, holding also demisexual, aceflux, reciprosexual, and others. There's also a pretty big range of sex-repulsed, sex-neutral, and sex-positive. It's possible for someone to be asexual, have zero sexual attraction, but still want to have sex at some point. 

For me personally, I'm panromantic asexual, but I also have some weird extra aspects of aceflux and demisexual. I don't have sexual attraction, and most of the time, I'm sex-repulsed. However, if I have a strong emotional connection with someone, I can fluctuate between sex-repulsed, sex-neutral, and sex-positive, but I still have no sexual attraction to them and still wouldn't necessarily want to have sex, it's just that I become more comfortable with the idea of having sex.

(I'll stop there for now, continuing later. If you have any questions on what I've sent so far, feel free to ask)

[Going_North_cal]

interesting

so it's very ambigious (i do not know how to spell ambigious))

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

Yeah, it can be. At its root, though, it's just lack or less of sexual attraction than typical.

...and tbh this might be easier to do with specific questions so I would like to propose a q&a q&a

(Queers and Allies Questions and Answers)

[Knight of Iron she/they]

Mmm I think I’m technically on the aromantic spectrum (recipromantic) and possibly on the ace spectrum (currently quoiromantic because things are confusing).

I don’t quite think that makes me a gay disaster, but nonetheless I’m following this thread now.

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

Anything queer counts as a gay disaster. You are welcome :))

[Szeth's Facepalm]

is there anyone i can pm with a rant about religion, specifically lds religion? i ask here cause i know there's some ex-lds people who can understand and i don't wanna do it anywhere publicly and offend anyone and also i have literally no one else to talk to about it and i am going to explode soon if i can't get it out to someone who will understand.

[Zephrun’s Imperium they/he]

I’m your girl. I hate the LDS church and I was once part of it. Hit me up. 

[Friendly Cremling she/her]

Can I join this thread? I have absolutely no idea what my sexuality is but I think I count as a disaster

[InfiniteInsanity she/her]

19 hours ago, Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat said:

is there anyone i can pm with a rant about religion, specifically lds religion? i ask here cause i know there's some ex-lds people who can understand and i don't wanna do it anywhere publicly and offend anyone and also i have literally no one else to talk to about it and i am going to explode soon if i can't get it out to someone who will understand.

I know it might be a little late and you might have already ranted to someone. But I'll listen. I am a member but I promise nothing you say will offend me.

[Telrao she/her]

Me the straight kid checkin' in on this chat.

How's it goin, kiddos?

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1 hour ago, Ookla the Floofy said:

Me the straight kid checkin' in on this chat.

How's it goin, kiddos?

Lol

We're here and we're queer ig

Edited December 5, 2022 by Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat
Forgor the "here" ;-;

[Telrao she/her]

11 minutes ago, Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat said:

Lol

We're and we're queer ig

Nice nice

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16 minutes ago, Ookla the Floofy said:

Nice nice

No wait i meant to say "we're here and we're queer" but i forgot the "here" nooooo it was giberish ;-;

[Telrao she/her]

Just now, Ookla the 3 Frogs ina Coat said:

No wait i meant to say "we're here and we're queer" but i forgot the "here" nooooo it was giberish ;-;

hehe thaz okie bro.

You could say it was a disaster heehee

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Heeheehee

[DramaQueen she/he/neopronouns]

On 12/4/2022 at 10:20 AM, Ookla the Cremling said:

Can I join this thread? I have absolutely no idea what my sexuality is but I think I count as a disaster

Absolutely, welcome!

[NerdyAarakocra They/Them]

On 12/4/2022 at 0:20 PM, Ookla the Cremling said:

Can I join this thread? I have absolutely no idea what my sexuality is but I think I count as a disaster

Yes! All gay/queer disasters are allowed!

[Szeth's Facepalm]

My choir doesn't have a girl uniform and a boy uniform, they just have uniform A and uniform B, and my mom is letting me wear the pants and vest instead of the dress to my next performance :D i wore it today to the dress rehearsal and i looked so cool and gender-y