Trans Hangout Thread

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

I mean, I don't feel like you've shared that much either. Probably more than me but still. Not that you have to. Also that's Izzy's argument ig.

That may be true.

Unfortunately I grow to rely too much on people here on the Shard, perhaps because I don't have much anyone else to talk to. At least.. it's easier here, sometimes.

I mostly trust you aren't lying. At least, I trust you pretty much fully until I put on my tinfoil hat.

 

I've never played forum mafia (is it just mafia but online, like SE?) Well... that's a partial lie lol. I've mentioned this before but I accidentally became involved in it.

Huh that’s kinda weird, ig weirds bad wording but im tired cut me some slack, bc I find it interesting that you’ve made yourself reliant on people on the shard bc you have given us honestly almost zero reason to trust you, and like idk I don’t dislike you but as I said I am VERY aware that you are the only person that good intentions or otherwise has tried to

find my location

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

Huh that’s kinda weird, ig weirds bad wording but im tired cut me some slack, bc I find it interesting that you’ve made yourself reliant on people on the shard bc you have given us honestly almost zero reason to trust you, and like idk I don’t dislike you but as I said I am VERY aware that you are the only person that good intentions or otherwise has tried to

find my location

by reliant i mostly mean this thread because y'all are trans

i actually didn't try to find it, but i am very aware as well that it was not the best thing to do.

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Unfortunately I grow to rely too much on people here on the Shard, perhaps because I don't have much anyone else to talk to. At least.. it's easier here, sometimes.

I mostly trust you aren't lying. At least, I trust you pretty much fully until I put on my tinfoil hat.

 

I've never played forum mafia (is it just mafia but online, like SE?) Well... that's a partial lie lol. I've mentioned this before but I accidentally became involved in it.

It's okay to rely on people sometimes. 

Also girl I think you should talk to someone (like a therapist or similar) about this cause like this is kinda a big deal.

yes, like SE. 

4 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

mean, I don't feel like you've shared that much either. Probably more than me but still. Not that you have to. Also that's Izzy's argument ig.

I've shared a lot about me. Especially considering the age of my account... you can find out a lot of you look through some of my older stuff.

But I haven't done anything about it because I'm not afraid of my past.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

by reliant i mostly mean this thread because y'all are trans

i actually didn't try to find it, but i am very aware as well that it was not the best thing to do.

Ye, well and I did kinda think the whole not following anyone and yet you did through months of posts to find a picture of me, and like you don’t strike me as a bad person just (in the nicest way possible) someone who is just RLY socially unaware 

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

by reliant i mostly mean this thread because y'all are trans

i actually didn't try to find it, but i am very aware as well that it was not the best thing to do.

I mean you were worried about her, right? About how much you can find out? So it wasn't necessarily done with malicious intent. But you should keep in mind people's privacy.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

Also girl I think you should talk to someone (like a therapist or similar) about this cause like this is kinda a big deal.

This

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

8 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

It's okay to rely on people sometimes. 

Also girl I think you should talk to someone (like a therapist or similar) about this cause like this is kinda a big deal.

yes, like SE. 

I've shared a lot about me. Especially considering the age of my account... you can find out a lot of you look through some of my older stuff.

But I haven't done anything about it because I'm not afraid of my past.

ok somehow i missed a lot in a few mins but...

why would i talk to a therapist abt "it", whatever rhat is. I'm just paranoid, that's all. pls don't make me think I have some issue or something cuz that stuff is horrible for my anxiety. edit: plus, therapists are lame in my dumb opinion. meaning they aren't super helpful for me. possibly my fault.

yes, that was a "never bring this up again" thing, if I recall. Still haven't looked through that, and don't plan to. But you also haven't shared whatever that is with me, not that i particularly want you to. especially if you don't want to a lot.

 

7 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Ye, well and I did kinda think the whole not following anyone and yet you did through months of posts to find a picture of me, and like you don’t strike me as a bad person just (in the nicest way possible) someone who is just RLY socially unaware 

Actually... I didn't dig through any posts. I'll leave it at that, unless you want to PM.

7 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I mean you were worried about her, right? About how much you can find out? So it wasn't necessarily done with malicious intent. But you should keep in mind people's privacy.

Yes, I was worried about her and how much she hands out to ppl.

Yes, I should keep ppl's privacy in mind. Does that mean no PM'ng them abt it? To just ignore?

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

2 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ok somehow i missed a lot in a few mins but...

why would i talk to a therapist abt "it", whatever rhat is. I'm just paranoid, that's all. pls don't make me think I have some issue or something cuz that stuff is horrible for my anxiety.

yes, that was a "never bring this up again" thing, if I recall. Still haven't looked through that, and don't plan to. But you also haven't shared whatever that is with me, not that i particularly want you to. especially if you don't want to a lot.

 

Actually... I didn't dig through any posts. I'll leave it at that, unless you want to PM.

Yes, I was worried about her and how much she hands out to ppl.

Yes, I should keep ppl's privacy in mind. Does that mean no PM'ng them abt it? To just ignore?

Honestly yes, but girl this rly isn’t abt us we are worried abt YOU

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Honestly yes, but girl this rly isn’t abt us we are worried abt YOU

wait rlly?

wait what kind of worried

worried im a bad person or worried for my health crap?

i dont wanna see a therapist abt whatever u guys are talking abt

ill live

whatever

i dont wanna talk abt my online activity with them.

(not that it's particularly bad.. i don't think... but still)

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

wait rlly?

wait what kind of worried

worried im a bad person or worried for my health crap?

i dont wanna see a therapist abt whatever u guys are talking abt

ill live

whatever

i dont wanna talk abt my online activity with them.

(not that it's particularly bad.. i don't think... but still)

Worried for your health as I said I’m prettt sure your a good person you just don’t have any social skills it seems, and that you should talk abt with someone who can actually help

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

4 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Worried for your health as I said I’m prettt sure your a good person you just don’t have any social skills it seems, and that you should talk abt with someone who can actually help

oh, just talk abt how to get social skills.

phew.

i dont like thinking there's something wrong with me that needs fixing. social issues notwithstanding. more like... mental health stuff.

anyway, yeah. I've never had any social skills whatsoever. i think as of late I've been more social, though (IRL). perhaps due to transitioning. and, I have more social skills online than IRL i like to think, or at least i have the ability to speak.

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

oh, just talk abt how to get social skills.

phew.

i dont like thinking there's something wrong with me that needs fixing. social issues notwithstanding. more like... mental health stuff.

anyway, yeah. I've never had any social skills whatsoever. i think as of late I've been more social, though (IRL). perhaps due to transitioning. and, I have more social skills online, or at least i have the ability to speak.

Ye, and I don’t think that there’s anything wrong with you I think we all

have issues and this is one of yours

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

Ye, and I don’t think that there’s anything wrong with you I think we all

have issues and this is one of yours

ig i never considered much that my crappy social skills might've transferred to online.

well... how to hold a conversation probably has.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

ig i never considered much that my crappy social skills might've transferred to online.

well... how to hold a conversation probably has.

Ye as I said I would just consider talking to a professional abt it

I think a lot of us have therapists Ik I do it’s completely normal

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

why would i talk to a therapist abt "it", whatever rhat is. I'm just paranoid, that's all. pls don't make me think I have some issue or something cuz that stuff is horrible for my anxiety.

Because having trust issues are in fact something that'd be beneficial to address. It's probably related to the anxiety, if I had to guess.

2 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

yes, that was a "never bring this up again" thing, if I recall. Still haven't looked through that, and don't plan to. But you also haven't shared whatever that is with me, not that i particularly want you to. especially if you don't want to a lot.

I could if I wanted to it's just ... not completely my story to tell and it's overall very tragic

17 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Yes, I was worried about her and how much she hands out to ppl.

Yes, I should keep ppl's privacy in mind. Does that mean no PM'ng them abt it? To just ignore?

Keep in mind people may be weirded out when they discovered their privacy has been treaded on a bit 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Ye as I said I would just consider talking to a professional abt it

I think a lot of us have therapists Ik I do it’s completely normal

ye, that's a topic i suppose that we sometimes talk abt.

not necessarily helpful, tho

also i recently kinda made a friend but for some reason idk if i wanna be friends, and it doesn't feel good cuz it feels like I'd be abandoning them for other ppl. like, if u have a crush on someone, call her May, then Amy asks you out and you say no cuz u like May, then u ask May and she says no and but Amy's gone now.

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

ye, that's a topic i suppose that we sometimes talk abt.

not necessarily helpful, tho

also i recently kinda made a friend but for some reason idk if i wanna be friends, and it doesn't feel good cuz it feels like I'd be abandoning them for other ppl. like, if u have a crush on someone, call her May, then Amy asks you out and you say no cuz u like May, then u ask May and she says no and but Amy's gone now.

Why not be frinds With both 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Because having trust issues are in fact something that'd be beneficial to address. It's probably related to the anxiety, if I had to guess.

I could if I wanted to it's just ... not completely my story to tell and it's overall very tragic

Keep in mind people may be weirded out when they discovered their privacy has been treaded on a bit 

Yeah i suppose. i have anxiety for sure, abt lotsa things.

ok, dw. ur making me not wanna look even more. it sounds awful tbh. or is it just standard dumb embarrassing kid stuff

yes... i know...

1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

Why not be frinds With both 

bcz like it's so many ppl

i think it's hard to maintain multiple friendships?

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

Yeah i suppose. i have anxiety for sure, abt lotsa things.

ok, dw. ur making me not wanna look even more. it sounds awful tbh. or is it just standard dumb embarrassing kid stuff

yes... i know...

bcz like it's so many ppl

i think it's hard to maintain multiple friendships?

Two people is many?

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Two people is many?

it's not an Amy and May situation. in that it's not romantic (yet :3) and it's more than.2 ppl.

Well, idk.

i guess.i also feel like i have limited friendship slots and have to use them wisely.

[Aeoryi she/her]

2 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Yeah i suppose. i have anxiety for sure, abt lotsa things.

ok, dw. ur making me not wanna look even more. it sounds awful tbh. or is it just standard dumb embarrassing kid stuff

yes... i know...

it's... dark. Almost cult-like. And the worst part is that it wasn't even me.

Please please see someone about your anxiety though I really urge you for your own betterment

 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

it's... dark. Almost cult-like. And the worst part is that it wasn't even me.

Please please see someone about your anxiety though I really urge you for your own betterment

 

... I'm afraid to ask. so i won't. i hate cult stuff.

why tho. I'm fine, ig. idek what specific anxiety i have?

also, just checkin' in... are we all okay with this wild tangent? i am, but yah. like both the topic and that it's off-topic in general.

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

it's not an Amy and May situation. in that it's not romantic (yet :3) and it's more than.2 ppl.

Well, idk.

i guess.i also feel like i have limited friendship slots and have to use them wisely.

Idk like if you feel like

you have too

msnt friends then stop being friends with one like and like how many are we talking bc like not everyone has to be a best friend I’ve got at least a hundred of what I woild

consider friends but prolly only ten besties

Just now, Usseewa said:

... I'm afraid to ask. so i won't. i hate cult stuff.

why tho. I'm fine, ig. idek what specific anxiety i have?

also, just checkin' in... are we all okay with this wild tangent? i am, but yah. like both the topic and that it's off-topic in general.

I am

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

why tho. I'm fine, ig. idek what specific anxiety i have?

also, just checkin' in... are we all okay with this wild tangent? i am, but yah. like both the topic and that it's off-topic in general.

General Anxiety Disorder if I had to guess

please see someone

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

please see someone

but why

Just now, Aeoryi said:

General Anxiety Disorder if I had to guess

i figured u woukd suggest that

idrk what it is, but i know rhe name.