Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 Just now, Aeoryi said: ah I live in canadian heaven?
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 Just now, Usseewa said: canadian heaven? A very friendly place for trans people, all things considered universal healthcare covers surgery here
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:  Hide contents I learned that my parents health insurance covers HRT if I gets a gender dysphoria diagnosis I'm so sorry about that. *hugs thxxx* Spoiler Thatâs good! 2 minutes ago, Usseewa said: girl can't u just moveeeeee why r u even living there  Bc this is where my parents live? Just now, Aeoryi said: A very friendly place for trans people, all things considered universal healthcare covers surgery here TAKEE ME WITH YOUUUU
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: Bc this is where my parents live? yes and? also i forgor are u in kansas or arkansas because, this would fit perfectly: get the heck out of Dodge! (Dodge = city in Kansas.) Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 3 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: TAKEE ME WITH YOUUUU canadia yay
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 Just now, Usseewa said: yes and? also i forgor are u in kansas or arkansas because, this would fit perfectly: get the heck out of Dodge! (Dodge = city in Cancis) âŠdo I just like⊠run away??? What kinda life you been living lolll
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said: âŠdo I just like⊠run away??? What kinda life you been living lolll u don't wanna know Spoiler don't run away since it sounds like u have good parents  Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 1 minute ago, Usseewa said: u don't wanna know  Hide contents don't run away since it sounds like u have good parents  Did you run awayâŠ? Iâm so concerned
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 3 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: Did you run awayâŠ? Iâm so concerned nahhh lol im fine 'cept i gotta GET THIS WORK DONEEEE with barely any time
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 Just now, Usseewa said: nahhh lol im fine 'cept i gotta GET THIS WORK DONEEEE with barely any time Ok???
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 3 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said: Ok??? huh?????????? HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH ahhahhdhhhhhhhhh eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Verdance he/him Posted February 24 Posted February 24 3 minutes ago, Usseewa said: huh?????????? HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH ahhahhdhhhhhhhhh eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ⊠are you okay? You sound like you need some sleep.
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 1 minute ago, edgyswordname said: ⊠are you okay? You sound like you need some sleep. huuhhhh ofc i do lollllllllll but i also gotta do work and have only a little time Spoiler im fine   Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 15 hours ago, Aeoryi said: everyone things I'm a femboy puppygirl  Is that really so bad though? It could give you an "excuse" to dress more fem, right? Spoiler Do you know what apagender/gender-apathetic is?  Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Usseewa said: Is that really so bad though? It could give you an "excuse" to dress more fem, right?  Hide contents Do you know what apagender/gender-apathetic is?  No, I'm more of a catpuppygirl kind of person though. Plus not everyone knows so I don't have that much of an excuse. Spoiler everyone in my family now knows that I'm trans Spoiler my mom asked me if I wanted her to use my preferred name and I didn't say yes Crying   1 hour ago, Usseewa said: Do you know what apagender/gender-apathetic is? yes and I've already thought about it 3
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 7 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: my mom asked me if I wanted her to use my preferred name and I didn't say yes Crying why not? 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Usseewa said: why not? idk has anyone else done it
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 11 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: idk has anyone else done it Spoiler yes, but it's kinda weird and they try but then it's hard for them when, like, they're using my name with others whom i haven't come out to yet, and they have to switch and whatever and now they're kinda pressuring me to come out to everyone else to and i just might...... but overall they try to be supportive and use my new name/pronouns..
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 17 minutes ago, Usseewa said: Â Hide contents yes, but it's kinda weird and they try but then it's hard for them when, like, they're using my name with others whom i haven't come out to yet, and they have to switch and whatever and now they're kinda pressuring me to come out to everyone else to and i just might...... but overall they try to be supportive and use my new name/pronouns.. do you... enjoy it? Was it worth it?
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: do you... enjoy it? Was it worth it? there isn't rlly a downside. idk if i enjoy it, but as u can see from eveyrthing i've said before, i'm generally unsure of myself sometimes. I will say that I notice every time someone uses pronouns, gendered words, or any name. Like, notice it extra. I think you should definitely try it and see how you feel. I'm also pretty much gonna be coming out at school lol.  edit: for the unsureness, note HOW I USED HOW I USED THE WORDS "generally" and "sometimes" ... basically i'm indecisive and don't like noncommital ig. sigh.. i feel like Chidi sometimes. Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 35 minutes ago, Usseewa said: there isn't rlly a downside. idk if i enjoy it, but as u can see from eveyrthing i've said before, i'm generally unsure of myself sometimes. I will say that I notice every time someone uses pronouns, gendered words, or any name. Like, notice it extra. I think you should definitely try it and see how you feel. I'm also pretty much gonna be coming out at school lol.  edit: for the unsureness, note HOW I USED HOW I USED THE WORDS "generally" and "sometimes" ... basically i'm indecisive and don't like noncommital ig. sigh.. i feel like Chidi sometimes. That's true I'm just hesitant because I'm worried it'll sound... fake I really appreciate when people use she her pronouns for me 1
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: That's true I'm just hesitant because I'm worried it'll sound... fake I really appreciate when people use she her pronouns for me ur worried what'll sound fake? them saying it (fake as in u'd think they don't mean it), or fake like it'd sound fake to you. if that makes any sense.  do they use she/her pronouns? Edited February 24 by Usseewa
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 17 minutes ago, Usseewa said: ur worried what'll sound fake? them saying it (fake as in u'd think they don't mean it), or fake like it'd sound fake to you. if that makes any sense. Â do they use she/her pronouns? idk... I... don't know ... In general they don't use she her pronouns but some of my family does
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 (edited) 37 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: some of my family does das good! 37 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: idk... I... don't know ... that's.. real. maybe just tell em to use it and act sure and fake it till u make it  edit: u know guys transitioning is kinda hard. i mean, it's probably worth it but ya. like, eventually i gotta do all the legal stuff. for now i gotta update or set pronouns everywhere, change my name where i can, get a new email, change it in all the little apps, still gotta change the user folder for my windows pc, i already renamed the pc tho. etc. etc. like so many little and some larger things. it's a bit complicated and ... yeah. it's like starting over but i still feel like there's some of the "old me" left over that will never go away.. like more little things are if i out my name on anything (like, irl) or wtvr. like it'd be so much easier if i was born Lily from the start, yk? Edited February 24 by Usseewa 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 24 Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Usseewa said: edit: u know guys transitioning is kinda hard. i mean, it's probably worth it but ya. like, eventually i gotta do all the legal stuff. for now i gotta update or set pronouns everywhere, change my name where i can, get a new email, change it in all the little apps, still gotta change the user folder for my windows pc, i already renamed the pc tho. etc. etc. like so many little and some larger things. it's a bit complicated and ... yeah. it's like starting over but i still feel like there's some of the "old me" left over that will never go away.. like more little things are if i out my name on anything (like, irl) or wtvr. like it'd be so much easier if i was born Lily from the start, yk? Lots of little things
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