Trans Hangout Thread

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

but why

i figured u woukd suggest that

idrk what it is, but i know rhe name.

Bc your actually struggling with someone and talking to

someone can help you

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

but why

i figured u woukd suggest that

idrk what it is, but i know rhe name.

I can only help you so much, you need to see someone who can actually help you

Like, I try my best but you really should talk to anyone  Irl about this cause it's... not very normal and from the sounds of it, it may be interfering with your life

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

I can only help you so much, you need to see someone who can actually help you

Like, I try my best but you really should talk to anyone  Irl about this cause it's... not very normal and from the sounds of it, it may be interfering with your life

^this^

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

6 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Bc your actually struggling with someone and talking to

someone can help you

ya okay wtvr

5 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I can only help you so much, you need to see someone who can actually help you

Like, I try my best but you really should talk to anyone  Irl about this cause it's... not very normal and from the sounds of it, it may be interfering with your life

pls kindly try to refrain from word normal and stuff

i have family who knows i get anxiety, I guess. i probably have a general diagnosis or smth for anxiety/depression.

also... i dont see it as interfering with my life if it's omnipresent and has been forever, or years. like, it's like adhd, u know? remember our convo?

what specific ways is interfering, do u think? Friendship/social skills? Yes. For as long as I can remember. But i never thought of it related to anxiety. maybe it is shrug

 

like I've always been "ok, I'm an inteovert, so what." and also ive wanted friends but wtvr.

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

ya okay wtvr

pls kindly try to refrain from word normal and stuff

i have family who knows i get anxiety, I guess. i probably have a general diagnosis or smth for anxiety/depression.

also... i dont see it as interfering with my life if it's omnipresent and has been forever, or years. like, it's like adhd, u know? remember our convo?

what specific ways is interfering, do u think? Friendship/social skills? Yes. For as long as I can remember. But i never thought of it related to anxiety. maybe it is shrug

Ok. I hope you talk to someone. I think it could rly rly help you. But at the end of the day I can’t make you and it’s ur decision.

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Ok. I hope you talk to someone. I think it could rly rly help you. But at the end of the day I can’t make you and it’s ur decision.

sure i guess I'll maybe bring up anxiety next time.

 

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

ya okay wtvr

pls kindly try to refrain from word normal and stuff

i have family who knows i get anxiety, I guess. i probably have a general diagnosis or smth for anxiety/depression.

also... i dont see it as interfering with my life if it's omnipresent and has been forever, or years. like, it's like adhd, u know? remember our convo?

what specific ways is interfering, do u think? Friendship/social skills? Yes. For as long as I can remember. But i never thought of it related to anxiety. maybe it is shrug

I don't know how much I can help you. 

I gave you my interpretation of the issue, that's just my words, you're welcome to disagree. But if you want it to change you're going to need to acknowledge it as an issue. Not me, you.

(As for the ADHD thing I am very glad my parents got me diagnosed and got me meds early, because I really... just... things were miserable before then. You're welcome to disagree if you'd like but I'm speaking from my experience.)

 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

sure i guess I'll maybe bring up anxiety next time.

 

That’s not… ok nvm

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

I don't know how much I can help you. 

I gave you my interpretation of the issue, that's just my words, you're welcome to disagree. But if you want it to change you're going to need to acknowledge it as an issue. Not me, you.

(As for the ADHD thing I am very glad my parents got me diagnosed and got me meds early, because I really... just... things were miserable before then. You're welcome to disagree if you'd like but I'm speaking from my experience.)

 

oh, well, i dont rlly remember what life was like before diagnosis/meds, so idk.

also, i guess it's hard to see the big deal abt anxiety..except when i look socially. because like I'm fine as in I'm alive and living and doing well (academically). so like wtvr.

2 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

That’s not… ok nvm

I don't wanna self-diagnose, tho.

idk girl what the crem am i supposed to do anywho

[Aeoryi she/her]

do you remember when you urged me to call a helpline and I didn't see what the problem was

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

2 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

oh, well, i dont rlly remember what life was like before diagnosis/meds, so idk.

also, i guess it's hard to see the big deal abt anxiety..except when i look socially. because like I'm fine as in I'm alive and living and doing well (academically). so like wtvr.

I don't wanna self-diagnose, tho.

idk girl what the crem am i supposed to do anywho

Talk to someone 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

do you remember when you urged me to call a helpline and I didn't see what the problem was

...and did you call?

 

yes I'm usually aware when i may hypocritical statements. but.. do u have examples of impediments on my daily life that is caused by anxiety?

1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

Talk to someone 

what, my therapist?

 

and what am i to say anyway.

like it's not even a specific issue.

I'm basically self-diagnosing rn which isn't rlly encouraged.

edit: except for stuff like trans lol

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

...and did you call?

 

yes I'm usually aware when i may hypocritical statements. but.. do u have examples of impediments on my daily life that is caused by anxiety?

what, my therapist?

 

and what am i to say anyway.

like it's not even a specific issue.

I'm basically self-diagnosing rn which isn't rlly encouraged.

Yes, say “hey I struggle with social interaction and I rly want to get better with it”

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

...and did you call?

 

yes I'm usually aware when i may hypocritical statements. but.. do u have examples of impediments on my daily life that is caused by anxiety?

Spoiler

I was too worried about them potentially calling EMS for me to call

but I did think about calling quite a few times

people just don't understand the nature of the problem really

Girl I don't see your daily life I wouldn't know

 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

OMG IVE SPENT LILE THE LAST WEEK TEYINF TO REMEMBER WHO YOU REMIMDED ME

OF AND I FINANLLY KNOW YOU REMIND ME

OF A FEMALE BERSION OF L FROM DEATH NOTE

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

18 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

OMG IVE SPENT LILE THE LAST WEEK TEYINF TO REMEMBER WHO YOU REMIMDED ME

OF AND I FINANLLY KNOW YOU REMIND ME

OF A FEMALE BERSION OF L FROM DEATH NOTE

i rlly wanna watch 𝐃Ǝᗉ⊢𝐇𝑵𝐎⊢𝐄 but it's depressing i think. i hear L's a genius tho, so makes sense why you'd say I'm similar to him. how do i remind you of him otherwise?

18 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

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I was too worried about them potentially calling EMS for me to call

but I did think about calling quite a few times

people just don't understand the nature of the problem really

Girl I don't see your daily life I wouldn't know

 

Spoiler

ok well idk what to say

but.. daily life is liveable and rlly isn't that bad.

anyway, here's my daily life (spoilered for length)

Spoiler

made ya look

srrrrryyyyyy

 

19 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Yes, say “hey I struggle with social interaction and I rly want to get better with it”

thx, that's what i needed

Edited February 22 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

24 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

i rlly wanna watch 𝐃Ǝᗉ⊢𝐇𝑵𝐎⊢𝐄 but it's depressing i think. i hear L's a genius tho, so makes sense why you'd say I'm similar to him. how do i remind you of him otherwise?

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ok well idk what to say

but.. daily life is liveable and rlly isn't that bad.

anyway, here's my daily life (spoilered for length)

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made ya look

srrrrryyyyyy

 

thx, that's what i needed

He’s a genius and kinda rly akward 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

He’s a genius and kinda rly akward 

yep, pretty much me :3

[Aeoryi she/her]

I could book and HRT appointment, I think

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

I could book and HRT appointment, I think

YAY!!! u should do it

i might soon too :3

[Aeoryi she/her]

48 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

YAY!!! u should do it

i might soon too :3

I should I really should 

 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I should I really should 

 

do it girlll!!!

[Aeoryi she/her]

13 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

do it girlll!!!

maybe but calling front desks is difficult

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

maybe but calling front desks is difficult

oh, how so?

just courage it

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

oh, how so?

just courage it

I am like 100% not the person who calls others at any point and I'd get so flustered