Mental health club!

[Through the Living Hope]

1 minute ago, Mag said:

-yeah that's fair

-live with my parents

-no car

-no car again

-live with my parents

But when you get a car

When you move out

[Mags she/they]

4 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

But when you get a car

When you move out

that's for future me to worry about

[Through the Living Hope]

4 minutes ago, Mag said:

that's for future me to worry about

Nfneisajfnsjsjsk-

[Mags she/they]

1 minute ago, Spark of Hope said:

Nfneisajfnsjsjsk-

eheheheheheheheh ;0

[Through the Living Hope]

Just now, Mag said:

eheheheheheheheh ;0

Grrrr  

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

45 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

We get jobs to make money, not fill my room with so many books you can't see the floor

 

But you'd get discounts!

[Through the Living Hope]

2 minutes ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

But you'd get discounts!

But the temmmptaaatttiioonnnnnnnnnnn

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

3 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

But the temmmptaaatttiioonnnnnnnnnnn

Yes the purpose of a job is money, but also you can pick part time jobs based on discounts xD
lmao I once got offered free botox when I worked at a plastic and eye surgery center

[Through the Living Hope]

1 minute ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

Yes the purpose of a job is money, but also you can pick part time jobs based on discounts xD
lmao I once got offered free botox when I worked at a plastic and eye surgery center

Well

Yes

But

Spoiler

I want a car 

 

[#1 Taln Fan he/him]

9 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said:

Well

Yes

But

Work at a car dealership, EZ xD

[Through the Living Hope]

Just now, #1 Taln Fan said:

Work at a car dealership, EZ xD

Bruh

[Mags she/they]

35 minutes ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

But you'd get discounts!

EXACTLY

TALN FAN GETS IT

[Kansas Stormcursed he/him]

3 hours ago, #1 Taln Fan said:

I know I'm going to sound like such a lame adult here, but I was talking with my mom the other day about my childhood and I think that the only thing I would change would getting a phone later, and having more restrictions on it, like just text, call, google maps. Yes I get it's frustrating, but also life is better when you're on your phone less, and it lets you be in the moment better. I've recently cut my screen time down a lot, and been purposefully walking places without my phone or music, and it's allowed me to have much more time to think clearly.

I partially agree with this; oftentimes we don't know, but I think we should still try to know, try to understand. If you push someone away, for example, somewhere deep inside your brain there's a reason you did that. If you can reflect and figure out the ultimate cause of that, then it can give you the tools to make it less likely to happen in the future. And yes we should focus on the good things, but we shouldn't ignore the bad things either. They exist and they effect us. So acknowledge the bad things, but don't dwell on them or let them rule your thoughts and life.

I mean I get it, and it's fair. However, it also restricts my time spent talking to the people who help with my depression, and I only have like 3 hrs a day that I could be on it anyway—I spend most of my time at my dojo. So I just feel like it would be smarter to be able to give me more leash before I'm an adult than to throw me in the deep end.

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

1 hour ago, Mag said:

On the topic of overprotective parents, I do think it can be good. I'm glad my parents monitored what I did online as a kid because I am/was very easily traumatized. But I also grew up feeling very isolated and cut off from the world. I think it's a very difficult balance, and while I think my parents did a really good job, I have my gripes.

I don't know how to describe it. Like, I'm glad I was protected, but the past few years I feel like I'm just waking up from a dream, and finally being able to experience reality (good and bad).

But that may also be a result of the fact that I was terrible at making my own friends?? I don't know.

oh gosh don't get me started

*hug*

[Bird Furious she/her/un/important]

*hugs everybody*

*especially @Hawks @Through The Living Glass @Dabi*

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Bird Furious said:

*hugs everybody*

*especially @Hawks @Through The Living Glass @Dabi*

*hugs* back

[Mags she/they]

1 hour ago, Bird Furious said:

*hugs everybody*

*especially @Hawks @Through The Living Glass @Dabi*

*hugs you Haly*

we'll get through this together ₍^ >ヮ<^₎ .ᐟ.ᐟ

[Keke They/he]

2 minutes ago, Mag said:

*hugs you Haly*

we'll get through this together ₍^ >ヮ<^₎ .ᐟ.ᐟ

LEGOLAS MY BABBYYYY

LEGO LEGO LEGOALASSSSSSSSSSAASSLLS;A;S

[Mags she/they]

Just now, Hawks said:

LEGOLAS MY BABBYYYY

LEGO LEGO LEGOALASSSSSSSSSSAASSLLS;A;S

YES I LOVE HIM
ALKJ:LKDJF:LKSD
HES SO GREAT !!!!!!!!! ! ! ! !

[Keke They/he]

Just now, Mag said:

YES I LOVE HIM
ALKJ:LKDJF:LKSD
HES SO GREAT !!!!!!!!! ! ! ! !

YES OEIUHOISCRGOH OMG HE ISSSS ALLLHGHH ALL THE WAYYYY HES A HANDSOME BOIOIII

[Mags she/they]

Just now, Hawks said:

YES OEIUHOISCRGOH OMG HE ISSSS ALLLHGHH ALL THE WAYYYY HES A HANDSOME BOIOIII

HES SUCH A LITTLE GUY TOO

SUCH A SILLY LITTLE GUY

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Mag said:

HES SUCH A LITTLE GUY TOO

SUCH A SILLY LITTLE GUY

YES YES HE ISSS

AND HE JUST A GOOD BOI A VER GOOD BOIII

[Mags she/they]

Just now, Hawks said:

YES YES HE ISSS

AND HE JUST A GOOD BOI A VER GOOD BOIII

YEAH 

[Keke They/he]

1 minute ago, Mag said:

YEAH 

YEAAAAHHHAHHHHHH

[Through The Living Glass She/They]

1 hour ago, Bird Furious said:

*hugs everybody*

*especially @Hawks @Through The Living Glass @Dabi*

*squeezes*

tanks