Trans Hangout Thread

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

i mean...u can still tell them even if they really don't believe u

and even if they don't believe u they could still be decent and make the effort to switch 

Ok but my moms gonna be confused when I keep dressing the same and stuff or she’ll idk idk idk idk idk I was gonna do it when I was sixteen but now that ik I can’t get meds until 18 im not going too

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Ok but my moms gonna be confused when I keep dressing the same and stuff or she’ll idk idk idk idk idk I was gonna do it when I was sixteen but now that ik I can’t get meds until 18 im not going too

u don't need meds to transition, izzy

u can always dress differently (in either direction) at home

like, didn't u say u have a croptop and jorts?

[KnightSkye Reforged They/Them]

Hi guys! 

So turns out Demiboy counts as trans, and a lot of my CGD buddies are here so... Here I am. :3

(also autocorrect keeps trying to change demiboy to demigod lol)

11 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

I would be bullied, hard, I’m already bullied bc kids think I’m a gay man, god forbid they find out I’m a trans bisexual “public stoning of local queer in the courtyard before school” I can already see the posters

Scared

Yeah, when/if you ever plan on coming out around them give me and Kansas a heads up so I can be there to beat the ever living rust out of them all till the cops get called. 

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

u don't need meds to transition, izzy

u can always dress differently (in either direction) at home

like, didn't u say u have a croptop and jorts?

Yes, but I would look weird in like a dress and stuff, I mean jorts and crop tops aren’t just feminine clotbing

Just now, KnightSkye Reforged said:

Hi guys! 

So turns out Demiboy counts as trans, and a lot of my CGD buddies are here so... Here I am. :3

(also autocorrect keeps trying to change demiboy to demigod lol)

Yeah, when/if you ever plan on coming out around them give me and Kansas a heads up so I can be there to beat the ever living rust out of them all till the cops get called. 

Ofc twin I would never spoil your fun

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

8 minutes ago, KnightSkye Reforged said:

Hi guys! 

So turns out Demiboy counts as trans, and a lot of my CGD buddies are here so... Here I am. :3

(also autocorrect keeps trying to change demiboy to demigod lol)

Yeah, when/if you ever plan on coming out around them give me and Kansas a heads up so I can be there to beat the ever living rust out of them all till the cops get called. 

Haiiiii!!!

7 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Yes, but I would look weird in like a dress and stuff, I mean jorts and crop tops aren’t just feminine clotbing

well .. for the croptop, u can always wear a sweater over it like me :3 (well... I've moved kinda past that but still.)

also u can always just take the plunge and come out to everyone. like, sure, maybe u'll be bullied for a bit but u still got, what? 2-3 years left of HS? that's quite a while. ppl will probably/hopefully accept u, or learn to shut their _____

(also i feep korgetting that ur in a damn crimson-ah state... sigh)

edit: (so idk mb don't if you'd be unsafe)

Edited February 24 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

12 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

Haiiiii!!!

well .. for the croptop, u can always wear a sweater over it like me :3 (well... I've moved kinda past that but still.)

also u can always just take the plunge and come out to everyone. like, sure, maybe u'll be bullied for a bit but u still got, what? 2-3 years left of HS? that's quite a while. ppl will probably/hopefully accept u, or learn to shut their _____

(also i feep korgetting that ur in a damn crimson-ah state... sigh)

edit: (so idk mb don't if you'd be unsafe)

Hah they wouldn’t if I make it a year after coming out without getting murdered lol

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

4 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

Hah they wouldn’t if I make it a year after coming out without getting murdered lol

if only that was a joke ha

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

5 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

if only that was a joke ha

If only 

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 hour ago, Usseewa said:

ah

lose them all why? coming out or uni?

it might be easier tbh if u start transitioning before uni cuz it might be hard idk. like it would be nice to come to uni as a girl, right?

yeah but I'm gonna try to get HRT tomorrow 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

yeah but I'm gonna try to get HRT tomorrow 

omg yippe ki-yay!!!!!

that's awesome

[Aeoryi she/her]

6 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

omg yippe ki-yay!!!!!

that's awesome

I know right

Also I wanna get more fem clothes any suggestions 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

6 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I know right

Also I wanna get more fem clothes any suggestions 

ONG OMGONG GNGNTNRJJE FJJEN 10 IWS

GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL 

ok

lol i just love my fem clothes and u will too

me is just very happy for you

but now I can't think :3

ok...

do u care the level of androgyntiy (u know what I'm trying to say even if i spell bad) or femininiy? like do u definitely want pretty fem clothes, do u definitely not?

 

edit: if u don't mind either way or don't know, that's fine too. just tryna get a tiny sense idk also yah

Edited February 24 by Usseewa

[Honors Spectral Image She/her]

18 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

yeah but I'm gonna try to get HRT tomorrow 

YAYAYAY

[Aeoryi she/her]

18 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ONG OMGONG GNGNTNRJJE FJJEN 10 IWS

GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL 

ok

lol i just love my fem clothes and u will too

me is just very happy for you

but now I can't think :3

ok...

do u care the level of androgyntiy (u know what I'm trying to say even if i spell bad) or femininiy? like do u definitely want pretty fem clothes, do u definitely not?

 

edit: if u don't mind either way or don't know, that's fine too. just tryna get a tiny sense idk also yah

I don't mind 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

33 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I know right

Also I wanna get more fem clothes any suggestions 

Ok I'll just say here:

SOOOO

u can get jeans if u want, they're really nice actually and pretty comfy. they also maybe look kinda androgynous? idk. but still look fem so yah.

uhh.. PJs. yeah. i got new pjs and they're awesome. even wore rhem to school a few times and it was great. they are fem. just buy from the women's section lol.

uhh shirts. u can get kinda crop tops, and if u don't want ppl to see just wear a hoodie. also u can get girlie shirts. girlie as in the colors, designs, or even just from women's section. i have a few, but not many. maybe will get more. one is rlly nice.

hmm for hoodies/sweaters/jackets u can, well, buy from women's section. I have a bunch, ranging from fuzzy jackets to crop sweater to plain sweaters in a kinda girly color and design. Pink and light blue are kinda my fave colors. ong wait a sec— nah but I'm fr, they are. they look nice.

so here color is actually a big thing, at least for me. i don't rlly like wearing all black and grey anymore, tho I'll tolerate black women's jeans or smth cuz they're nice, or a nice black shirt (especially my croptop). but, like, try to get a mix of colors, light and dark. this doesn't mean just get every color in the rainbow lol. but u wanna wear stuff that looks nice. idk how much of a fashion sense u have, and tbh idk how much i do, but I'd say my outfits have been pretty good. so, like color is key tho. and also, idk. yah. try to get a few nice stuff. u may even just start out with, like, one outfit or even a pair of pants or nice sweater or smth. i kinda did, but then got more. ya.

also, i have a few open-fronted sweaters/"sweaters" (idk the terms, but they aren't your traditional hoodie), like zippered hoodies but no zipper, buttons instead usually. basically i wear them open in the front to show off my nice t-shirt, croptop, and/or necklace(s) (yes, I wear multiple. can ya blame me?) it also looks nice imo. also for lots of this I'm basically going off what looks nice for me and feels nice, not what other ppl wear. I'm not saying that in a defying-society way, but an idrk-what-ppl-wear-so-ill-jusy-do-this way.

speaking of jewelry, u can get more plain necklace(s) that look androgynous and possibly queer, and/or u can get nice sparkly ones. i have both types. same for bracelets. i don't have rings yet. I'm planning on earrings some time. I've actually worn bracelets for many many years...

do u need any advice on matching colors and styles or anything? i may be able to help.

did u need advice for, like, buying them? or something i didn't mention here? just lmk!

anywho, the right combo of outfit + jewelry (if u like it) + nail polish (when ur ready, ig) can look very cute :3

as for socks... idrk. i got a pair or few. ut have yet to tey 'em on.

for underwear, idk. i don't rlly wear fem undies yet, but have a pair at the bottom of my drawyar I'ma try on eventually.

 

oh, and for sweaters, something good to keep in mind (that you may already) is ... how easy it is to take off. like, if u start sweatin', it's easy to shrug off smth not open in the front. otherwise - and you may have encountered this - it messes up ur shirt, maybe lifting it and stuff, and also messes ur hair up perhaps, etc. hoodies are like that, and it's kinda annoying and has been for life. i only have like one fem hoodie (wearing it now, actually), and it's pretty good still, but i actually prefer open-fronted even when cold. u can wear a hat/cute beanie/cat earmuffs lol if ur cold. idk ur weather, so wtvr. but point is, I don't feel like i needa hide under a hat or hoodie anymore. if i ever did, idk. but hoodless is fine imo. u may feel otherwise.

be aware that some women's clothes (or, a lot?) will have no or small/unusable pockets. So... hard to keep stuff (phone, whatever else) sometimes. like this one day i just had to carry my phone with me to the baño and set it down on the tp dispenser. but yah. and, if you do have pockets, they may be smaller. to me, this is kinda annoying but as long as my sweater or pants has a pocket, it's a small price for big gain (feeling girly).

uhhh crotch area might get uncomfortable depending on the pants, but so far most of mine've been fine.

oh yah, belts. ig not all women's clothes have belt loops. idk if u wear belts anyway, but yah. u may not need a belt, but if u can always do one of those fashion hacks or, like, just put the belt on without loops. I tried this at home for a little, and it was mostly fine, but not the most easy/preferable.

eerrmmmmmmmmm yah idk wat else. lmk any questions or anything like that!

Edited February 25 by Usseewa

[Aeoryi she/her]

I currently have a pleated skirt and two fem shirts lol

also how do I dress without having people think I'm gay 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

3 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I currently have a pleated skirt and two fem shirts lol

also how do I dress without having people think I'm gay 

well ... idk what ppl will think but.. maybe try to make it so u pass? look more fem. like..not having facial hair, yk. not talkiing to anyone (#Lily_IRL), uhhh i mean it's a bit of a prob since u have frens but.. idk 

maybe it doesn't rlly matter. at least they see u as queer ig.. or u can come out.

basically only wear fem clothes!!!

skirts are epic, I can't wait for mine to arrive (i bought it off the net)

[Aeoryi she/her]

5 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

well ... idk what ppl will think but.. maybe try to make it so u pass? look more fem. like..not having facial hair, yk. not talkiing to anyone (#Lily_IRL), uhhh i mean it's a bit of a prob since u have frens but.. idk 

maybe it doesn't rlly matter. at least they see u as queer ig.. or u can come out.

basically only wear fem clothes!!!

skirts are epic, I can't wait for mine to arrive (i bought it off the net)

I bought mine in personnnn

I don't know if I'd go wearing a skirt outside my hairstyle is atrocious at best and my upper body is like... 

I have been shaving pretty diligently and I have shaved my legs like basically every 4 days (I don't think I could ever not at this point)

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

I bought mine in personnnn

I don't know if I'd go wearing a skirt outside my hairstyle is atrocious at best and my upper body is like... 

I have been shaving pretty diligently and I have shaved my legs like basically every 4 days (I don't think I could ever not at this point)

tbh ive only shaved my legs twice or thrice in the past weeks or month (idk what time is)

i also haven't worn anything that's not full-length pants stuff

u should wear the skirt it'd prob be niceeee

also, see a hairstylist then

wdym upper body? that u have no breasts? or are u muscular or smth?

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

tbh ive only shaved my legs twice or thrice in the past weeks or month (idk what time is)

i also haven't worn anything that's not full-length pants stuff

u should wear the skirt it'd prob be niceeee

also, see a hairstylist then

wdym upper body? that u have no breasts? or are u muscular or smth?

I've done it every 5-8 days or so but haven't worn anything that's like, might make people notice

The skirt is super nice super super nice in fact I want another one (but I need something to go with it I think)

my hair is... growing more on the sides and less on the front. Sibling suggested I get a pixie cut. Maybe I'll do that

Spoiler

(I have no breasts)

 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

I've done it every 5-8 days or so but haven't worn anything that's like, might make people notice

The skirt is super nice super super nice in fact I want another one (but I need something to go with it I think)

my hair is... growing more on the sides and less on the front. Sibling suggested I get a pixie cut. Maybe I'll do that

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(I have no breasts)

 

lol me neither girl

u can always... idk the terms but basically make it look like i have breasts. like, bra and stuff idk. padding maybe? pls don't k1ll me if that's the wrong word.

also... I'm considering wearing tights with the skirt :3

like this:

Spoiler

as for my hair.... i have no clue what I'm doin'

I'ma see some stylist person maybe but it looks fine rn ig.

[Aeoryi she/her]

6 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

also... I'm considering wearing tights with the skirt :3

I'm prolly gonna get them thigh highs to go with the skirt (but I need to buy them online and idk how to do that)

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

I'm prolly gonna get them thigh highs to go with the skirt (but I need to buy them online and idk how to do that)

ME CAN HELP

prob

wdym thigh highs? like socks? programmer socks? or just tights.

i want either/both so badly

do u have...a bank account or card or anything like that?

[Aeoryi she/her]

12 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

ME CAN HELP

prob

wdym thigh highs? like socks? programmer socks? or just tights.

i want either/both so badly

do u have...a bank account or card or anything like that?

I have a debit card

Thigh highs as in thigh highs Idk how to describe them ("programmer socks")

@Usseewa helppppp

Edited February 25 by Aeoryi

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

12 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I have a debit card

Thigh highs as in thigh highs Idk how to describe them ("programmer socks")

@Usseewa helppppp

SORRRY I WAS LOOKING STORES UP

debit card will work

what stores do u have?

i don't rlly know what's available in canadia

unless u don't wanna spend a lot or don't care abt quality too much, u can ig get from, like, amazon or walmart or smth. but I'd go for clothing stores if possible.

 

edit: i forgor, i was gunna say that I'd love me some thigh-highs

Edited February 25 by Usseewa