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Posted (edited)
8 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I mean, not really. 

why not?

worried abt bullies?

parents?

(minor spoiler for Mimosa Confessions. "Minor" in that it happens pretty early in the book.)

Spoiler

u could always do what Ushio did in Mimosa Confessions and just come out to the class/school. ppl bullied her a lot, but she had friends that supported her. kinda.

Have you watched the show "First Day"? It's short, kinda. Abt a trans girl in high school i think. live-action.

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Posted
Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep. I live in a very homophobic state. 

oh, that sucks

Posted
1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

oh, that sucks

Yep, in my state you can't really be trans. You either pass or you don't and are seen as a pervert. It's rough and there is not much I can do to transition.

Posted
3 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep, in my state you can't really be trans. You either pass or you don't and are seen as a pervert. It's rough and there is not much I can do to transition.

is ur family... open to moving? is that a possibility at all?

Posted
1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

is ur family... open to moving? is that a possibility at all?

Maybe, but I'd be hesitant to leave my friends... I have some really good friends in my life, and I'm not sure where we would move too...

Posted (edited)
52 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Maybe, but I'd be hesitant to leave my friends... I have some really good friends in my life, and I'm not sure where we would move too...

are in in the states? maybe look up some places that aren't homophobic. like, states with pro-lgbtq+ laws and trans protection and stuff. there's probably some.

Spoiler

and blue states

 

also if u have rlly good friends, can u come out to them?

what's the progress on MML?

 

edit again: guys i've identified major cause of doubt, I think: I don't feel "official" or "valid." Like, I don't feel like I am allowed to use the title/label of being trans, for some reason. Like I feel less real than others. Everyone else is like "oh yeah, I'm queer. I'm this. Yah."

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Posted
2 hours ago, Usseewa said:

also if u have rlly good friends, can u come out to them?

Uh, I'm out to all of my closest friends.

2 hours ago, Usseewa said:

are in in the states? maybe look up some places that aren't homophobic. like, states with pro-lgbtq+ laws and trans protection and stuff. there's probably some.

They are really hard to find ones with pro trans laws for minors tho...

2 hours ago, Usseewa said:

what's the progress on MML?

um, I'm on chapter 3? How much have I put on here?

Posted
1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Uh, I'm out to all of my closest friends.

Oh, cool! You might've mentioned it before, idk.

2 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

They are really hard to find ones with pro trans laws for minors tho...

Rlly?

2 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

um, I'm on chapter 3? How much have I put on here?

Idk, maybe the first two?

Posted
1 hour ago, Usseewa said:

Idk, maybe the first two?

Ok, so I assume you saw this, but I've put the third one up now.

1 hour ago, Usseewa said:

Oh, cool! You might've mentioned it before, idk.

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I don't even remember what I have and haven't said on here

1 hour ago, Usseewa said:

Rlly?

1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah

Here is a map from Erininthemorning

Spoiler

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3 hours ago, Usseewa said:

edit again: guys i've identified major cause of doubt, I think: I don't feel "official" or "valid." Like, I don't feel like I am allowed to use the title/label of being trans, for some reason. Like I feel less real than others. Everyone else is like "oh yeah, I'm queer. I'm this. Yah."

I was like that for a whole year. That's why most everyone thinks I'm genderfluid, because I hinted at it very heavily before I realized I was allowed to be trans.

Posted
4 hours ago, Usseewa said:

are in in the states? maybe look up some places that aren't homophobic. like, states with pro-lgbtq+ laws and trans protection and stuff. there's probably some.

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and blue states

 

also if u have rlly good friends, can u come out to them?

what's the progress on MML?

 

edit again: guys i've identified major cause of doubt, I think: I don't feel "official" or "valid." Like, I don't feel like I am allowed to use the title/label of being trans, for some reason. Like I feel less real than others. Everyone else is like "oh yeah, I'm queer. I'm this. Yah."

U can’t just rly ask ur parents to uproot their whole life just bc kids make you want to die, like i wish i could but idk 

 

57 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Ok, so I assume you saw this, but I've put the third one up now.

I don't even remember what I have and haven't said on here

Yeah

Here is a map from Erininthemorning

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I was like that for a whole year. That's why most everyone thinks I'm genderfluid, because I hinted at it very heavily before I realized I was allowed to be trans.

Hell yah worst active anti trans laws
 my favorite
 life’s amazing

Posted
1 hour ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

was like that for a whole year. That's why most everyone thinks I'm genderfluid, because I hinted at it very heavily before I realized I was allowed to be trans.

everyone things I'm a femboy puppygirl

 

Posted

oof i hate those

usually they only last a couple mins :3

like maybe 10 idk

Posted

I just learned that the year I turned thirteen they raised the minimum age for t blockers from 12 to 18, so if I figured out my gender ONE year earlier I could be on t blockers rn

I’m so sad

I feel

like rust

Posted (edited)
11 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

I just learned that the year I turned thirteen they raised the minimum age for t blockers from 12 to 18, so if I figured out my gender ONE year earlier I could be on t blockers rn

I’m so sad

I feel

like rust

Wait why would u use blockers if ur out of puberty?

unless i misunderstand them..that doesn't make much sense

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Posted (edited)
5 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:


what?

maybe im misunderstanding

but arent puberty blockers to, like, pause/delay puberty?

and by the time ur 18 hasn't puberty basically ended?

so what's the use of blockers after puberty has ended?

 

oh, t blockers. idk what those are

also they may've just stopped u even so.

 

edit: wait i think im dumb

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Posted
20 minutes ago, Honors Ghost said:

I just learned that the year I turned thirteen they raised the minimum age for t blockers from 12 to 18, so if I figured out my gender ONE year earlier I could be on t blockers rn

I’m so sad

I feel

like rust

That's... interesting choice. In general you can't start HRT until you're 16 or at tanner stage 4 (I think?). The tanner stages are a scale for puberty progression of all things.

Posted
8 minutes ago, Usseewa said:

maybe im misunderstanding

but arent puberty blockers to, like, pause/delay puberty?

and by the time ur 18 hasn't puberty basically ended?

so what's the use of blockers after puberty has ended?

 

oh, t blockers. idk what those are

also they may've just stopped u even so.

 

edit: wait i think im dumb

Oh yes it was technically just all form of gender reassignment in general just the thing I read specifically mentioned t blockers

Posted
Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Oh yes it was technically just all form of gender reassignment in general just the thing I read specifically mentioned t blockers

oh that's horrible

18?

jeez

what about with parental consent?

 

Posted
1 minute ago, Aeoryi said:

That's... interesting choice. In general you can't start HRT until you're 16 or at tanner stage 4 (I think?). The tanner stages are a scale for puberty progression of all things.

Yah, well this is what it’s like living in hel- a republican run red state

Just now, Usseewa said:

oh that's horrible

18?

jeez

what about with parental consent?

 

Nope

Posted
Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Oh yes it was technically just all form of gender reassignment in general just the thing I read specifically mentioned t blockers

Spoiler

I learned that my parents health insurance covers HRT if I gets a gender dysphoria diagnosis

I'm so sorry about that. 

Posted
Just now, Honors Ghost said:

Yah, well this is what it’s like living in hel- a republican run red state

Nope

girl can't u just moveeeeee

why r u even living there

Posted
1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said:

Yah, well this is what it’s like living in hel- a republican run red state

ah

I live in 

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