Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: I should but like... my dad might notice and I have siblings (2/3 would literally not care though, and the third one is always working a job or two) that being said like the other day she asked me why I had paint on my nails and like ... what do you think lol maybe I could just paint my nails and not care about what they say though not a bad idea though I think it's something to try. If this is treated like an elephant in the room that is never addressed, you aren't ever going to make any progress. 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: Hmmm. I... am unsure how to show that I care about this and then convince them that this is worth caring about too It's tricky, I guess. Maybe what I said before about presentation could be a good first step? Or you could try citing statistics that show that nearly all people get better mental health after transitioning. 1
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 4 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: that being said like the other day she asked me why I had paint on my nails and like ... what do you think lol maybe I could just paint my nails and not care about what they say though not a bad idea though Maybe do that and see how it goes.
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 4 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: I think it's something to try. If this is treated like an elephant in the room that is never addressed, you aren't ever going to make any progress. 2 minutes ago, Theory said: Maybe do that and see how it goes. I'll talk to my brother about it and just make sure my sister is far away tomorrow. Should probably be fine though. 5 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said: It's tricky, I guess. Maybe what I said before about presentation could be a good first step? Or you could try citing statistics that show that nearly all people get better mental health after transitioning. That's true. I think that my mom thinks I'm questioning or something though, so idk if she understands the importance of transition. That being said I do have great and reputable sources to back up my claims about HRT now, and those will probably help me if I go down that path.  2
Hmmm lies she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: I'll talk to my brother about it and just make sure my sister is far away tomorrow. Should probably be fine though. That's true. I think that my mom thinks I'm questioning or something though, so idk if she understands the importance of transition. That being said I do have great and reputable sources to back up my claims about HRT now, and those will probably help me if I go down that path.  That mostly sounds pretty good, I think!
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: I'll talk to my brother about it and just make sure my sister is far away tomorrow. Should probably be fine though. That's true. I think that my mom thinks I'm questioning or something though, so idk if she understands the importance of transition. That being said I do have great and reputable sources to back up my claims about HRT now, and those will probably help me if I go down that path.  Sounds good. Yeah, I think talking to ur brother/trying stuff is a good idea. Sources good.
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 Update: alright I painted my nails and obnoxiously pink color let's see how it goes Spoiler  2
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 52 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: Update: alright I painted my nails and obnoxiously pink color let's see how it goes  Reveal hidden contents  How'd it go? If it go'd at all yet.
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 6 minutes ago, Theory said: How'd it go? If it go'd at all yet. Hasn't go'd yet but I love them so much Spoiler someone please tell me if this is gender euphoria or just liking contrary things  1
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 Just now, Aeoryi said: Hasn't go'd yet but I love them so much  Hide contents someone please tell me if this is gender euphoria or just liking contrary things  Wdym? It's probably euphoria tbh. Also they look nice! I'm gonna paint/repaint my nails soon.
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 6 minutes ago, Theory said: Wdym? It's probably euphoria tbh. Also they look nice! I'm gonna paint/repaint my nails soon. They look SOOOO nice and I didn't screw them up this time too 1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 17 hours ago, Theory said: Well that makes it easier, doesn't it? You could...add it if you remember later..? I mean, unless you spend forever making an essay on why they should let you start hrt/accept that you're trans, then a text should be fine. Hopefully. At least then you'll know, instead of worrying about it. Why are you so nervous? You...really think they'd do something like that?   Hide contents Storms, I hope ur in one of the blue places (in more ways than one...) Iâm not but itâs fine my parents would never send me to one, but I have a friend that went 1 hour ago, Aeoryi said: Update: alright I painted my nails and obnoxiously pink color let's see how it goes  Hide contents  Awww theyâre rly cutee 1
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 Yall do you talk about trans/gender stuff to ur (regular) therapists? Like not to special gender therapists, but regular ones? 1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 3 minutes ago, Theory said: Yall do you talk about trans/gender stuff to ur (regular) therapists? Like not to special gender therapists, but regular ones? I want to but Iâm scRed
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 Just now, Honors Ghost said: I want to but Iâm scRed I think I'm gonna.. cuz I don't have a gender therapist
Akimikoisthecutest Posted January 26 Posted January 26 49 minutes ago, Theory said: Yall do you talk about trans/gender stuff to ur (regular) therapists? Like not to special gender therapists, but regular ones? I'm out to my general therapist as queer, but not trans and I'm honestly scared to tell her I'm trans. Should I? I have an appointment in like an hour so... Pls respond quickly
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 11 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: I'm out to my general therapist as queer, but not trans and I'm honestly scared to tell her I'm trans. Should I? I have an appointment in like an hour so... Pls respond quickly I would, if she seems supportive. It can help to talk about this stuff, I think. Do you have a gender specialist too? If not, I especially would. She could probably just help you like talk about your feelings and stuff, you know? And maybe ask questions that get you thinking, or help with stuff like coming out to ur family/school. Side note: that was ur 666th post :3
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 17 minutes ago, Theory said: Yall do you talk about trans/gender stuff to ur (regular) therapists? Like not to special gender therapists, but regular ones? I talked to a counselor specifically about gender dysphoria a few days ago and it was fine, if they can't help you themselves they might be able to direct you to places that can tbh 13 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: I'm out to my general therapist as queer, but not trans and I'm honestly scared to tell her I'm trans. Should I? I have an appointment in like an hour so... Pls respond quickly Imo you should but it you do don't undercurve it; you'll save time Â
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 Just now, Aeoryi said: I talked to a counselor specifically about gender dysphoria a few days ago and it was fine, if they can't help you themselves they might be able to direct you to places that can tbh Imo you should but it you do don't undercurve it; you'll save time  "Undercurve"?
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 26 Posted January 26 4 minutes ago, Theory said: "Undercurve"? If you say you think that you're trans and like sound all wishiwashi about it then you're probably going to be treated as if you're just confused.
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 26 Author Posted January 26 (edited) 3 hours ago, Aeoryi said: If you say you think that you're trans and like sound all wishiwashi about it then you're probably going to be treated as if you're just confused. Ah, yeah, I get it. Maybe you mean...undercut?  edit: I repainted my nails :3  @Akimikoisthecutest how'd the therapist session go? Did you come out? (It's fine if not.) Edited January 27 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 27 Posted January 27 News update the nails are awesome and my dad and mom both know 500% and didn't say anything. I'm actually beaming inside rn  2
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 27 Author Posted January 27 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: News update the nails are awesome and my dad and mom both know 500% and didn't say anything. I'm actually beaming inside rn  I'm so happy for u :3 what was that extra line s'psd to be? If anything. Edited January 27 by Theory
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 27 Posted January 27 5 minutes ago, Theory said: I'm so happy for u :3 what was that extra line s'psd to be? If anything. I think it pissed them off so it makes me happy at least lol Â
Usseewa ⟠SheâĄHer ⟠Posted January 27 Author Posted January 27 Just now, Aeoryi said: I think it pissed them off so it makes me happy at least lol  sis why so many blank lines anyway uhmmmmm that's nice.. where'd u even get the nailpolish lol
Aeoryi she/her Posted January 27 Posted January 27 4 minutes ago, Theory said: sis why so many blank lines anyway uhmmmmm that's nice.. where'd u even get the nailpolish lol I just biked to shoppers and bought nail polish there I got another one today I might try it's: sparklyÂ
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