Aeoryi
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okay, here's a better question. What's compelling you to press the button?
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What's causing you to hesitate though
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what's making you hesitate?
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ok well I can tell you from a young age I always wanted a female name, to use female pronouns I mean here's a good analogy: There is a button here that can turn you into a girl no questions asked. You have five seconds. Do you press it?
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they're trans, they don't know it yet they go well well with the skirt I have (I hope) Lily is a name for you not for someone else who talks for you
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"how do I know I'm not making this up" Also Lily: Yeah it's scary to commit to it. Some people do lots of stuff. Some people don't. It's ultimately up to you. Neeeeeeeeddddddd cis people who want to be trans are trans people ^this
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Wireless transfer
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AB+ blood transfusion
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I'll do the research myself then.
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Speaking of mail how do post offices work?
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That's how happiness works, you know. And besides, even if it was you making yourself happy that just proves that you actually wanted to use the name Lily. Checkmate.
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Don't downplay your achievements you sounded very happy with that name :3 No problem either
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Well, yes, but moreso just that you get to experience gender euphoria with your new name.
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I'm so happy for you btw
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Hi Hi I just wanted an excuse to call you Lily :3
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Hi Lily Hi Crane Hi Cansis
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I'm fine with it actually; I don't mind
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when I got knocked over by a 250 lb person and didn't get back up, I told myself "it's going to be alright Hazel, it's going to be alright" repeatedly other things is like when I'm coming up with things to do, like, cleaning my room for example, I tell myself "You got this Tessa" or that kind of thing. I used to leave myself messages on my journal that said things like "make sure to drink water, Tessa" or things like that. I've stopped externalizing since but it's never a bad place to begin.
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it worked okay. And it doesn't hurt that bad. It's immediate pain and then a somewhat stingy-like feeling for a few minutes afterwards. The entire point is that you hate it. It's only a problem if it becomes addictive. Very effective. You can try it if you're desperate, but I highly encourage self-dialogue using the name Lily instead :3.
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you get more people to call you Lily, of course! You can also use it to mentally refer to yourself. I had very little problems switching to use Hazel because it was basically like I was never using my deadname in my head, but switching from Hazel to Tessa was difficult- I ended up going down the rubber band route by just inflicting pain onto myself whenever I referred to myself as anything but Tessa or externally referred to myself as Tessa- it leaves marks but not that bad marks. Also having other people call me Tessa in real life (specific cases) and online helped a *lot* Just think. Lily is your name. You are Lily. Also sometimes talking to yourself can help; try writing something about yourself in third person, etc
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sure sure sure Lily sure sure sure Lies does a really good job at explaining this imo. I can definitely say that above was a pretty accurate description of what I felt.
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emgendereuphoria
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I do too, which was why it was hard to find a name that went well with my last name and sounded nice and fit me and didn't belong to someone I already knew But I love being Tessa
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The Shadowhunters series? I read it a while ago. Didn't think about that (or the apparent murder drones character) but it fits me best. Omg tyty yeah, no problem!
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alrighty alrighty The name I'm currently using is Tessa. I like it very much. Hi lies! cryptic behavior. I'll read the GDB later then. I think it's a pretty good resource, right?
