Aeoryi
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you could also probably want to see if they're fit for you. There's plenty of examples of people who go on hrt before even discovering their gender identity. You don't need the stereotypical reasons that seem to be attributed to wanting HRT. It really isn't a competition You don't have to fit into the binary you can just be you Understandable. It can be hard to make it different than just a name on a paper
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Yeah
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And...?
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did you read what the other people said
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There's more than one doctor out there
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If you're over 18 you can try potentially trying a different method/source of obtaining hrt- the standard for informed consent doesn't typically entail you defending why you're trans
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@Usseewa another piece of advice for you
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It is exceptionless basically. If you were cis you wouldn't be trying to take feminizing hormone therapy, end of story
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wow I can't believe it worked but yeah she has a good point if you're cis (even pretending to be trans) you'd never even attempt to get hrt
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Yep!
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Wait pause
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First of all, why do you have a GD level as your PFP banner. That level is made by (essentially) corporate slot and is kinda a joke. Okay Yeah telling yourself is going to help but you actually need to start believing in yourself being right instead of being contrary to that if that makes sense everyone does- I can tell you I've probably doubted more, if that helps. okay but like you see I have the same issue. I knew it was possibly an issue anyways but then you also have to play to your strengths and accept that it could be the case and just wait and see if that's the case. I have ADHD too, you know. I worried about this too. But the fact of the matter is you just have to push past it, accept it may happen and then be surprised when it dies (because it won't) meh just don't worry about trying to bring your entire past into line with being trans-y that's a waste of time. You can instead bring your current you into that if this metric were to be considered we would be saying that anyone with depression would be unable to make proper decisions for themselves, and I think we can both agree that saying that is a disservice to others who have depression as well. As I said, it's a flimsy argument to make. Some get it faster. Others take longer. It doesn't matter which camp you fall under. Or what insurance says for that matter. You would only spend the time trying to get hrt if you wanted it, lol normal. Too bad. You're not faking it. well yeah they might tell you otherwise but let's be honest manipulating the narrative matters very little when the truth doesn't change well yeah that happened to me as well... In fact for me it was not because I was trans (because I HATED trans people at the time) ok in fact I told myself explicitly that it was normal to present female online and that I wasn't trans but actually just enby etc Don't worry too much about that kind of stuff. We all naturally do it, you see, and whether you do it or not has little bearing on you as a person.
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coat switching It's normal to act differently in different roles... it's psychologically naturally a normal thing.
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that's, in definition, what a lot of us "transgenders" are doing you do know we have to make ourselves believe it whether we like it or not because at the end of the day no one else is going to do it for you. Some people get it easier than others, some people take longer. awesome! Doubts are good to have occasionally- it's the mark of wisdom, after all. But when they start to control your life they start to be a problem. you were influenced by the internet to be trans. There you go. Are you happier now? Because the point is that it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if someone found out that they were trans because they always engaged in stereotypically feminine things, or whether they discovered it through looking at types sexual material - like, it might sound pathetic to say "oh yeah I discovered my gender on a fansite for a unpopular fiction author" but like at the same time does it really matter? I bet you a lot of the "actual" trans people discovered their gender identity through means that are absurd or non-conventional to you. ok being real with you: every argument of "I'm not in the right frame of mind that I should be in for these kinds of decisions" ("I didn't discover it the way I should've", "what if I'm just doing it to be cool and this isn't me" or "what if it's some kind of placebo?") fails when you consider what you're standard frame of mind is- this argument works when arguing with an intoxicated person's judgement ability, but not with a normal human. Because when you make these decisions, it's not like you're under a hypnotic spell or intense duress that forces you to think one way. This is the impact of social programming- we've been trained and raised in a way where we ever consider a thought that could be wrong we immediately dismiss it as "not us"- this is unhealthy and also just not a sturdy argument. At some point you'll just come to terms with that it's who you are. It takes time though. as that one person who was technically "that exception" before like it doesn't really apply to something defined as a desire to be something else because faking something probably means that you are it. Well yes the longer you are trans the more you'll either realize this or reappropriate your backstory to fit that narrative. It's normal. As for whether it makes you more or less legitimate, it doesn't matter. this is like that one time... Well yeah it's normal to feel alien in spaces that shouldn't seem like they belong to you. for example when I consider myself to have gone full-time with being female-presenting online I originally avoided engaging in any sort of comments about my gender and also felt incredibly uncomfortable in situations where the fact that I was "pretending" (at the time) was preventing me from actually feeling like I was telling the truth to these people. The truth is, if you're trying to be, like, in intense stealth you're going to end up in situations like that. That's why it can sometimes help to be visibly trans, because you won't attract that kind of situation to yourself.
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Imo strong repulsion But like why did you try to get HRT if you're not trans or something kind you see
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just be upfront with them be authentic
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hrt
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you deserve it more than I do
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where I am at least sorry
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alright so I have probably a good chance of getting HRT in a few weeks... (I don't even think it was possible to fail) Edit @Usseewa
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I have so many ideas waiting to be actualized....
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yeah lol All the time Most of my ideas never get to kick off at all and just remain thoughts on paper- game designs, stories, games, even music sometimes. Just after you exhaust the part that interests you there's no appeal to keeping it around. lol yeah this happens all the time
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I have to ask how does it feel
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that's normal otherwise we wouldn't be frustrated with humans
