@Prelude This seems to be a trend with Sanderson. His male characters seem totally uninterested in sex. His female characters are more interested. I think this has been the case in all of his books. It makes me go hmmmm this is rather unrealistic. It makes me laugh. I'm talking specifically his main male and female characters.
@Mistbornwithakitty You make some good points. It is just that if that is what Sanderson meant to do, he still wrote it very badly. I do not believe Shallan made a healthy choice at the end of OB. There are two reasons for this. 1. She hates herself. I don't believe you can love someone (romantically) when you hate yourself; you just have nothing to give. 2. She is insane. She thinks she is three people. No sane person thinks this. At the end of OB when she talks to Veil and Radiant (just before the wedding) does she know she is talking to herself or does she believe she is talking to two other people (sort of like bride maids)? I think she doesn't know she is only talking to herself (there is no one else in the room after all). I could get behind Shallan's choice if I thought she chose out of a sense of well being instead I feel she is totally dependent on Adolin ("without you I fade") and that is a bit gross to me.