I think reviving blade is not that easy. After reading Brandon's answers, about something supernatural pertaining to Shallan's memory and kaladin's skills. I think only personifying your blade and treating it as your friend and searching for his identity is not enough. What I could theorize about the bonding is that it starts at a very early age when you firstly attract the spren and then she knows where you are and encourages you to become well suited for that particular order. That bond could have modified personal attributes slowly, like gifting Shallan her memory and Kaladin his talent with spear and propensity towards wind and weapons and thus contributing to "something supernatural". This also explains how Kaladin could start to instinctively use lashing without having much practice with it
So if this is "something that is going on" as Author stated, then the aforementioned actions are not enough. The person needs to be qualified enough to make a bond with the dead spren. But that also creates another possibility of being a person of appropriate disposition (proud, deadly, noble for example) may be enough. The required abilities may be rendered once the dead spren is a little more revived. Although slowly.
However, considering Adolin, he is already a prodigy in dueling and sword.
Edit
I felt while reading WoR that Renarin was depicted as more awkward and strange than in WoK reinforce for me the theory that the bond alters personal attributes to a certain extent.