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[Shatter He/Him]

Just now, Conure1243 said:

Wats so bad abt ot?

you evil, evil man

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Usseewa said:

u can just change at same time

ok sowwy

Haven't actually ran into any problems with deadname being on ID or whatever most people respect my chosen name. But I'm not out to like, everyone yet

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Conure1243 said:

Wats so bad abt ot?

das ez 2 re3d

soniz that

[Conure1243 He/Him]

1 minute ago, GG0z said:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Hehe

[GG0z He/Him]

Just now, Usseewa said:

das ez 2 re3d

soniz that

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Just now, Conure1243 said:

Hehe

You act like a brother to me

[Shatter He/Him]

1 minute ago, GG0z said:

You act like a brother to me

awwwwww

[Conure1243 He/Him]

2 minutes ago, GG0z said:

You act like a brother to me

Like I said, you remind me of my brother!

 

[Shatter He/Him]

Conure and cgoz are now canonically brothers on the Shard

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

does people feel as though

@Aeoryi

that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not?

I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder.

and then like other stuff too...

[GG0z He/Him]

1 minute ago, Conure1243 said:

Like I said, you remind me of my brother!

 

I don’t have a brother…

nvm! I do now!!

[Shatter He/Him]

Just now, Usseewa said:

does people feel as though

@Aeoryi

that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not?

I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder.

and then like other stuff too...

i apologize in advance if I call you bud or dude.

[Conure1243 He/Him]

Just now, Shatter said:

Conure and cgoz are now canonically brothers on the Shard

Okeyday then!

[Through The Living Star She/Her]

AHHGHGHGHGHGH 
WHY

THE SPELLING ERRORS

THEY HURT ME

Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own...

[GG0z He/Him]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

does people feel as though

@Aeoryi

that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not?

I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder.

and then like other stuff too...

I don’t know what it feels like, but many of my friends are non-binary, and they get a bit angry when they are dead named, or someone misgenders them.

I

Just now, Through The Living Star said:

AHHGHGHGHGHGH 
WHY

THE SPELLING ERRORS

THEY HURT ME

Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own...

THANK YOU 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Shatter said:

i apologize in advance if I call you bud or dude.

tanks

 

it's also IRL

 

and i dread someone commenting on my physical more masculine attributes

like..

im kinda on the taller side and people comment on my height sometimes and i dont like it cuz yeah there are tall girls/women but ive always associated it with male

[Verdance he/him]

7 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

I'll probably keep my middle name because it's some "first son" kinda crem dung or something 

but I'll do that when I'm ready

 

I have one of those too

its only half crem dung though

im kind of fond of it even though its dorky

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

does people feel as though

@Aeoryi

that even though you're out to people and they respect you or try as best they can or whatever, you feel like they still treat you like... who they used to or the gender you're not?

I got called "buddy" and "man" and "dude" which can be gender-neutral but still i didn't/don't like it that much, especially "buddy" because... it's masculine imo. And "man" is just a reminder.

and then like other stuff too...

yes, but gentle reminders are enough to help them realize that they need to stop "holding back" to be honest. Sometimes confrontation is needed, but I prefer to do that in a way where the individual doesn't feel resentment and I don't feel at a disadvantage. 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, GG0z said:

don’t know what it feels like, but many of my friends are non-binary, and they get a bit angry when they are dead named, or someone misgenders them.

indeed

i do

 

people close to me still do it occasionally..

[Shatter He/Him]

Just now, Through The Living Star said:

AHHGHGHGHGHGH 
WHY

THE SPELLING ERRORS

THEY HURT ME

Which makes it so much worse when I have spelling errors of my own...

I don't see any spelling errors. Whatever do yuo mean?

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Aeoryi said:

yes, but gentle reminders are enough to help them realize that they need to stop "holding back" to be honest. Sometimes confrontation is needed, but I prefer to do that in a way where the individual doesn't feel resentment and I don't feel at a disadvantage. 

wdym? "=§}€×=^[✓£®}]"

"holding back"?

[GG0z He/Him]

Huh. I know someone whose middle name is Northrop

(I got permission from them to post it)

[Shatter He/Him]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

I have one of those too

its only half crem dung though

im kind of fond of it even though its dorky

As do I. But mine is cooler. It makes my name become a really cool name when translated to English.

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Verdance said:

I have one of those too

its only half crem dung though

im kind of fond of it even though its dorky

tbh it doesn't matter I'm not their firstborn son anymore. 

[Conure1243 He/Him]

3 minutes ago, GG0z said:

THANK YOU 

Prhaps I shuls start tlking like splling mon from cns of tuna?

OH! Here's a fun fact.

My middle name is a fulfilment of literal prophecy!

Not much elaboration I can do online

Edited Tuesday at 11:34 PM by Conure1243

[GG0z He/Him]

1 minute ago, Usseewa said:

indeed

i do

 

people close to me still do it occasionally..

I do it when I am really tired… They understand, but still makes me feel horrible