Trans Hangout Thread

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

30 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Because you're inflicting pain on yourself.

nvm it's gone phew

i forgot abt it with the even stronger pain

from the cold

[Akimikoisthecutest]

So, uhhhhh, I met more trans people, and I find it shocking how far along in their transition they are compared to me.

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

So, uhhhhh, I met more trans people, and I find it shocking how far along in their transition they are compared to me.

Everyone starts somewhere... a lot of you, for example, are much further along your transition than I am

[Akimikoisthecutest]

1 hour ago, Aeoryi said:

Everyone starts somewhere... a lot of you, for example, are much further along your transition than I am

Am I?

[Verdance he/him]

4 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Am I?

Are you not writing a blog about it that has several months of progress and experience 

[Aeoryi she/her]

16 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Am I?

Yes, you kinda seem like you are!

[Akimikoisthecutest]

18 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

Yes, you kinda seem like you are!

Really? That's shocking to me

[Aeoryi she/her]

3 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Really? That's shocking to me

Yah! You're like, out to people and stuff. You have good friends.

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Yeah, so I found out that my parents completely know that I'm trans. I was using my moms phone for something, and she had so many tabs open on trans people, and so I looked at her search history, and she has found this profile...

[Adonalsium Will Return He/him]

52 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, so I found out that my parents completely know that I'm trans. I was using my moms phone for something, and she had so many tabs open on trans people, and so I looked at her search history, and she has found this profile...

Well, how accepting is she? It seems like a good sign that she hasn’t blown up at you.

[Aeoryi she/her]

2 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, so I found out that my parents completely know that I'm trans. I was using my moms phone for something, and she had so many tabs open on trans people, and so I looked at her search history, and she has found this profile...

The dreaded "we need to talk about what you're doing online" conversation

[Hmmm lies she/her]

2 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, so I found out that my parents completely know that I'm trans. I was using my moms phone for something, and she had so many tabs open on trans people, and so I looked at her search history, and she has found this profile...

how do you feel about this?

[Ink and Embers Any pronouns]

2 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, so I found out that my parents completely know that I'm trans. I was using my moms phone for something, and she had so many tabs open on trans people, and so I looked at her search history, and she has found this profile...

*HUGS A LOT*

I hope whatever happens next goes well!!!!!

[Akimikoisthecutest]

1 hour ago, Aeoryi said:

The dreaded "we need to talk about what you're doing online" conversation

Yep, I'm super scared for if that ends up coming.

55 minutes ago, Hmmm lies said:

how do you feel about this?

I feel like my privacy has been invaded. yeah, it was my vice principal who did it.

2 hours ago, Adonalsium Will Return said:

Well, how accepting is she? It seems like a good sign that she hasn’t blown up at you.

Yeah, I think it's a good sign

[Verdance he/him]

11 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep, I'm super scared for if that ends up coming.

I feel like my privacy has been invaded. yeah, it was my vice principal who did it.

Yeah, I think it's a good sign

Hey at least your parents let you have passwords (they do, right?)

[Akimikoisthecutest]

1 hour ago, Verdance said:

Hey at least your parents let you have passwords (they do, right?)

On what?

[Aeoryi she/her]

Got my readiness assessment finished today! HRT soon? 

[Verdance he/him]

5 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

On what?

On anything. My phone, my laptop, my gmail account. Control freaks.

this isn’t about me complaining, though. Just be happy you have some semblance of privacy or autonomy.

Edited April 28 by Verdance

[Aeoryi she/her]

26 minutes ago, Verdance said:

On anything. My phone, my laptop, my gmail account. Control freaks.

this isn’t about me complaining, though. Just be happy you have some semblance of privacy or autonomy.

Just claim that you're old enough for your own privacy, invite them to inspect whenever they want but say that you have the right to security.

[KaladinTheKingOfHeralds He/Him]

Ahhhhhhh, hello world, I have been summoned with Syl from Roshar because I heard a call about control freaks?

[KaladinTheKingOfHeralds He/Him]

On 4/23/2026 at 10:53 AM, Akimikoisthecutest said:

So, uhhhhh, I met more trans people, and I find it shocking how far along in their transition they are compared to me.

Well, they just started before u and have let it happen. Not saying u havent let it happen but it just seems like they have wanted it more (or less) and did it before u did it

Yall, I just realized what this chat was about. I mean if yall are fine with me being here without me being trans then I’ll stay but if u want me to leave then I’ll leave

[Aeoryi she/her]

2 minutes ago, KaladinTheKingOfHeralds said:

Well, they just started before u and have let it happen. Not saying u havent let it happen but it just seems like they have wanted it more (or less) and did it before u did it

Yall, I just realized what this chat was about. I mean if yall are fine with me being here without me being trans then I’ll stay but if u want me to leave then I’ll leave

@KaladinTheKingOfHeralds

You can be here without necessarily being trans, yes, and you are certainly welcome here, but please keep in mind that this thread is intended for the discussion of transgender and related gender identities. 

[KaladinTheKingOfHeralds He/Him]

I will admit, I used to have a history of wanting to be a transfem but then I decided not to so I know what to talk about and what not to talk about that might offend yall

8 minutes ago, Aeoryi said:

@KaladinTheKingOfHeralds

You can be here without necessarily being trans, yes, and you are certainly welcome here, but please keep in mind that this thread is intended for the discussion of transgender and related gender identities.

Edited April 28 by KaladinTheKingOfHeralds

[Verdance he/him]

15 minutes ago, KaladinTheKingOfHeralds said:

Well, they just started before u and have let it happen. Not saying u havent let it happen but it just seems like they have wanted it more (or less) and did it before u did it

Yall, I just realized what this chat was about. I mean if yall are fine with me being here without me being trans then I’ll stay but if u want me to leave then I’ll leave

Heh relatable

8 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yep, I'm super scared for if that ends up coming.

I feel like my privacy has been invaded. yeah, it was my vice principal who did it.

Yeah, I think it's a good sign

anyhow good luck having that conversation if ever. If your parents are cool then it might be best to rip the bandaid off. 

[Aeoryi she/her]

8 minutes ago, KaladinTheKingOfHeralds said:

I will admit, I used to have a history of wanting to be a transfem but then I decided not to so I know what to talk about and what not to talk about that might offend yall

That's okay! It is, after all, entirely up to you who you want to be. 

Spoiler

If I may ask, how much did you look into being trans? Was it a surface level thing, or a more in-depth investigation?

 

Just now, Verdance said:

anyhow good luck having that conversation if ever. If your parents are cool then it might be best to rip the bandaid off.

Tbh most parents are probably just going to react by waiting to see if it's actually a thing, sorta like when you say you want to do X but they don't believe you so they just wait it out