Trans Hangout Thread

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

i think im having bottom dysphoria and i think ive had it for much much longer than i thought (as in for years) and i hate it so much life would be.so.much eaiser if down there was different and i hateitihateitihateititsuckssomuchwhywhy

i just wanna be happy and comfortable and ugh

makes it annoying to wear skirts

so maybe ill just not.orless

[Aeoryi she/her]

18 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

i think im having bottom dysphoria and i think ive had it for much much longer than i thought (as in for years) and i hate it so much life would be.so.much eaiser if down there was different and i hateitihateitihateititsuckssomuchwhywhy

i just wanna be happy and comfortable and ugh

makes it annoying to wear skirts

so maybe ill just not.orless

It does yeahhhhhhh

I've been finding comfort in my own clothing though

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

16 minutes ago, Through The Living Skies said:

It does yeahhhhhhh

I've been finding comfort in my own clothing though

WDMSMSNSNSZ

wdym your own clothing wdym

 

[Akimikoisthecutest]

1 hour ago, Through The Living Girl said:

i think im having bottom dysphoria and i think ive had it for much much longer than i thought (as in for years) and i hate it so much life would be.so.much eaiser if down there was different and i hateitihateitihateititsuckssomuchwhywhy

i just wanna be happy and comfortable and ugh

makes it annoying to wear skirts

so maybe ill just not.orless

Yeah I feel you.

I'm not brave enough at all to try wearing skirts.

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

16 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah I feel you.

I'm not brave enough at all to try wearing skirts.

hehehfhfffffffffff

I wear them with tights or thigh-high socks and they look rlly cute and I love them. They can still be frustrating sometimes, like when sitting... And especially with my current horrible body.

uhhh yah

..

 

also u dont have to wear skirts or take a step you aren't ready for, though I'll admit you may not be completely ready or idk

for me I had a sudden urge to wear a skirt while reading Mimosa Confessions, and realized it might actually look nice on me (especially if I had tights or looonnnggg socks). I then ordered both and have worn them a couple times in public and it's still kinda awkward or smth when I do it around people I know ... or at least people I knew Before.

oh also ive come out to pretty much everyone at this point

yippee

ehehehh\\

also i dont like taking off my sweater and being in a tshirt cuz then i feel dysphoric i think. sweaters help me hide my self while still feeling nice and looking pretty (imo)

 

i love when people compliment my outfits

You'll probably get some too if/when you wear diff clothes, or are you already?

gosh i can't believe what a tasteless loser i was back then

now sometimes i spend a literal hour picking out my outfit

i have so many new options it's amazing. before i literally had like one or two and it sucked, but now i can craft a cute fit every day, or even something that isn't amazing but is still pretty decent and nice and defo better than anything i'd worn before..

sigh

i hope im not depressed again, i was feeling better

[Akimikoisthecutest]

7 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

I wear them with tights or thigh-high socks and they look rlly cute and I love them. They can still be frustrating sometimes, like when sitting... And especially with my current horrible body.

 

Yeah, I'm sure

7 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

also u dont have to wear skirts or take a step you aren't ready for, though I'll admit you may not be completely ready or idk

 

What made you think that?

8 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

I then ordered both and have worn them a couple times in public and it's still kinda awkward or smth when I do it around people I know ... or at least people I knew Before.

Yeah, that will be the hard part.

8 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

oh also ive come out to pretty much everyone at this point

 

That's so lovely!

9 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

also i dont like taking off my sweater and being in a tshirt cuz then i feel dysphoric i think. sweaters help me hide my self while still feeling nice and looking pretty (imo)

 

Fair

9 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

You'll probably get some too if/when you wear diff clothes, or are you already?

 

I doubt I would

9 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

gosh i can't believe what a tasteless loser i was back then

now sometimes i spend a literal hour picking out my outfit

I don't have time in the mornings, and I don't have any of the stuff I want to wear

 

10 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

i have so many new options it's amazing. before i literally had like one or two and it sucked, but now i can craft a cute fit every day, or even something that isn't amazing but is still pretty decent and nice and defo better than anything i'd worn before..

 

That's so lucky

 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

What made you think that?

Perhaps I worded it poorly, but I was essentially saying that "you" (as in, you, but also people in general) may not ever feel completely ready. That is, they could still be nervous or something. I was when coming out, but it worked out well in the end, and I was only nervous right before--after I had made my decision to do it.

3 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yeah, that will be the hard part.

Well, for me their eyes simply flicked down but they didn't say anything. This was also only with a few people, as I hardly know anyone who would be surprised at all. That may not make sense, my bad.

4 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

That's so lovely!

It really is. Now I'm not a living headache when people have to switch pronouns/name around people I haven't come out to. Also, they don't deadname me, yippee! And infrequently they misgender me. Well, not everyone. But yeah.

6 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I doubt I would

Well... idk what ur situation/area is like, so yeah, maybe, maybe not. If you don't that's fine. If you do, it'll probably give u a little euphoria or smth.

7 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

I don't have time in the mornings, and I don't have any of the stuff I want to wear

Well, you can pick it out at night/the day before, if you have time then! It also doesn't always take a ton of time. This was mainly because I got some new clothes and had to decide what was what and what went with what and which outfit I wanted to wear. I ended up making two and wore one yesterday and one today. Also... yah idk what to tell u about not having clothes you want. But.. do you ever go shopping with your parents for clothing? Just pick stuff out, say your trying something new, or idk.

9 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

That's so lucky

You'll get there too!

Maybe work with what you have if you can't get any new clothes?

[Akimikoisthecutest]

3 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

Also... yah idk what to tell u about not having clothes you want. But.. do you ever go shopping with your parents for clothing? Just pick stuff out, say your trying something new, or idk.

Idk if I could. Personally most of what I have is t shirts and polo shirts, and I want turtlenecks and sweaters. 

 

4 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

You'll get there too!

 

I doubt it. I'm not really brave. I'm honestly terrified of even asking my closest friends to use my preferred name and I haven't done it yet.

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Idk if I could. Personally most of what I have is t shirts and polo shirts, and I want turtlenecks and sweaters. 

 

I doubt it. I'm not really brave. I'm honestly terrified of even asking my closest friends to use my preferred name and I haven't done it yet.

u came out to them, right?

[Akimikoisthecutest]

3 minutes ago, Through The Living Girl said:

u came out to them, right?

Yes I did

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said:

Yes I did

oh btw.. uhh.. depending on where you live, stay safe.

[Akimikoisthecutest]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

oh btw.. uhh.. depending on where you live, stay safe.

...yeah... I certainly don't live in the safest place right now, but it's not as bad as it could be

[Aeoryi she/her]

2 hours ago, Through The Living Girl said:

WDMSMSNSNSZ

wdym your own clothing wdym

 

idk I'm not in a rush to change how I dreas

1 hour ago, Through The Living Girl said:

hehehfhfffffffffff

I wear them with tights or thigh-high socks and they look rlly cute and I love them. They can still be frustrating sometimes, like when sitting... And especially with my current horrible body.

uhhh yah

..

 

also u dont have to wear skirts or take a step you aren't ready for, though I'll admit you may not be completely ready or idk

for me I had a sudden urge to wear a skirt while reading Mimosa Confessions, and realized it might actually look nice on me (especially if I had tights or looonnnggg socks). I then ordered both and have worn them a couple times in public and it's still kinda awkward or smth when I do it around people I know ... or at least people I knew Before.

oh also ive come out to pretty much everyone at this point

yippee

ehehehh\\

also i dont like taking off my sweater and being in a tshirt cuz then i feel dysphoric i think. sweaters help me hide my self while still feeling nice and looking pretty (imo)

 

i love when people compliment my outfits

You'll probably get some too if/when you wear diff clothes, or are you already?

gosh i can't believe what a tasteless loser i was back then

now sometimes i spend a literal hour picking out my outfit

i have so many new options it's amazing. before i literally had like one or two and it sucked, but now i can craft a cute fit every day, or even something that isn't amazing but is still pretty decent and nice and defo better than anything i'd worn before..

sigh

i hope im not depressed again, i was feeling better

That's nice I wish I wish kinda

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Through The Living Skies said:

idk I'm not in a rush to change how I dreas

oh ya

idk for some reason i am

i wanna do stuff

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

oh ya

idk for some reason i am

i wanna do stuff

I just wanna dress androgenous tbh

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

3 minutes ago, Through The Living Skies said:

I just wanna dress androgenous tbh

ya fair

 

ooh did ur socks arrive?

mine are amazing... tho i have one complaint

so i wore one pair yesterday and another today, and while walking around i felt it falling down a little, and the skirt is kinda short... so ya. it was fine, but kinda idk.

But the look so cuteeee

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

ya fair

 

ooh did ur socks arrive?

mine are amazing... tho i have one complaint

so i wore one pair yesterday and another today, and while walking around i felt it falling down a little, and the skirt is kinda short... so ya. it was fine, but kinda idk.

But the look so cuteeee

That's super awesome super awesome I haven't ordered them yet though I was waiting for youuuuu /j

(Also not swimming in money)

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Through The Living Skies said:

That's super awesome super awesome I haven't ordered them yet though I was waiting for youuuuu /j

(Also not swimming in money)

...........

what part of that is the joke?

that you were waiting for me or both?

...did u order them?

 

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

...........

what part of that is the joke?

that you were waiting for me or both?

...did u order them?

 

I didn't order them yet because Idk money is very important given that uni will cost a bit

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

2 minutes ago, Through The Living Skies said:

I didn't order them yet because Idk money is very important given that uni will cost a bit

That's what financial aid and scholarships are for and yes but also you should get something nice for yourself once in a while

[Aeoryi she/her]

Just now, Through The Living Girl said:

That's what financial aid and scholarships are for and yes but also you should get something nice for yourself once in a while

I guess so it's just very expensive compared to Amazon or something 

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

Just now, Through The Living Skies said:

I guess so it's just very expensive compared to Amazon or something 

yeah..true.

but they're still very noice.

u can even just get one pair

 

idk dont if u dont wanna but theyre nice

[Aeoryi she/her]

1 minute ago, Through The Living Girl said:

yeah..true.

but they're still very noice.

u can even just get one pair

 

idk dont if u dont wanna but theyre nice

I should really get one are they really that good

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

1 minute ago, Through The Living Skies said:

I should really get one are they really that good

I mean idk ok

 

So they're not heaven

They're just nice and I love them.

Also bewarned you can't dry them (in a dryer) when doing laundry. And I think you gotta handwash the tights, if you get them.

 

They tights are epic, because they also... idk it's hard to exlain but look:

(Not the actual tights I got)

Spoiler

See how they are like mini-pants, like the two legs are joined and go around the waist? They're great cuz of that, especially if u wear a skirt.

Spoiler

if u get tights, wear ur underwear under them.

So, underwear, then tights, then skirt/whatever.

But yah.

 

For the socks u gotta... be more careful if u wear a skirt, especially if u wear no shorts or something under it. But that's why tights are good.

 

Oh yah, uh, the socks are nice and comfy. They look very cute. Gotta make sure they go with ur outift if u care abt that!

[Usseewa ✾ She♡Her ✾]

So... I'm probably gonna be waiting a few months for HRT... because I guess I'm still not sure about everything. So, yeah

edit: and I'm kinda just resigned to it, idk. But I'm just doubting if I actually want or need HRT, yk?

Edited March 19 by Through The Living Girl