Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 8 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Is anyone elses dysphoria really bad when you don't sleep? @Usseewa @Honors Ghost @Aeoryi @Hmmm lies @Keke Yes, tends to be worse when you don't have anything to do 1
Keke They/he Posted February 5 Posted February 5 8 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Is anyone elses dysphoria really bad when you don't sleep? @Usseewa @Honors Ghost @Aeoryi @Hmmm lies @Keke Yessss 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 9 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Is anyone elses dysphoria really bad when you don't sleep? @Usseewa @Honors Ghost @Aeoryi @Hmmm lies @Keke Uh well this doesn't really apply to me because I never get good sleep anyway. But honestly this hasn't really been a thing for me. *shrugs* On 1/31/2026 at 7:42 PM, Akimikoisthecutest said: Yeah I want to tell them, but I'm just not sure how... I think I might be there. It's just hard to be ready to put basically your biggest secret out there for the world. And the hard thing for me is that I don't like to be in the spotlight. I can act like I do (I think I'm a pretty good actor), but I'm actually pretty shy. I avoid difficult conversations where I can, and generally I'm a coward Ok so, here's my words of advice: It will never not be scary. You can't just wait until you feel comfortable, because it's unlikely you ever will. And yet, you will feel so much better after you finally do. I'll use the same pieces of advice I've given a lot of people on the Shard Plan out a script, so you don't feel lost for words. You can even read from it if you like. Tell your parents you have something important to tell them, and give them a date for when you will. That way, you won't be able to back out as easily Just do it. Once you've done it, you can't take it back, and you can't really mess it up. So long as you do come out, you've succeeded. 2
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 10 hours ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: Is anyone elses dysphoria really bad when you don't sleep? @Usseewa @Honors Ghost @Aeoryi @Hmmm lies @Keke My dysphoria gets better when I donât sleep bc I get loopy and my head moves to fast for dysphoria to work So I donât sleep
Akimikoisthecutest Posted February 5 Posted February 5 1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said: My dysphoria gets better when I donât sleep bc I get loopy and my head moves to fast for dysphoria to work So I donât sleep That is strange. I just get depressed (more than usual) and suicidal and dysphoric when I'm tired
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 2 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: That is strange. I just get depressed (more than usual) and suicidal and dysphoric when I'm tired Ye, Iâm strange, I function surprisingly well without sleep, idk well like late at night my dysphoria is bad but like the next day Iâm fine 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 so now my classmate thinks I'm a gay femboy catboy It gets more unhinged by the day (She saw my camera roll and saw this) Spoiler  Don't ask why I have this Spoiler  12 minutes ago, Akimikoisthecutest said: That is strange. I just get depressed (more than usual) and suicidal and dysphoric when I'm tired Interesting because I'm definitely feeling the latter three rn
Akimikoisthecutest Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Aeoryi said: so now my classmate thinks I'm a gay femboy catboy It gets more unhinged by the day (She saw my camera roll and saw this) oh god. How does it keep getting worse? Why do you keep doing this to yourself?
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: so now my classmate thinks I'm a gay femboy catboy It gets more unhinged by the day (She saw my camera roll and saw this) uh at this rate she's just gonna figure out you're trans
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Akimikoisthecutest said: oh god. How does it keep getting worse? Why do you keep doing this to yourself? I don't know how it keeps on getting worse but I don't feel brave enough to tell her I'm trans because it kinda feels like imprinting if you know what I mean Just now, Hmmm lies said: uh at this rate she's just gonna figure out you're trans I mean that wouldn't be the end of the world. It's an acting class and there's a zero tolerance for bullying in the class well established so I mean but seriously what is with people thinking I'm like gay in denial... Spoiler is there a way to be like, not misinterpreted as gay? Â
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Aeoryi said: but seriously what is with people thinking I'm like gay in denial...  Hide contents is there a way to be like, not misinterpreted as gay?  Uh maybe write a really heartfelt poem about liking women? Idk.
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 5 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: so now my classmate thinks I'm a gay femboy catboy It gets more unhinged by the day (She saw my camera roll and saw this)  Hide contents  Don't ask why I have this  Hide contents   Interesting because I'm definitely feeling the latter three rn Ok everything else aside that picture is gorgeus and Iâm kidnapping it
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Honors Ghost said: Ok everything else aside that picture is gorgeus and Iâm kidnapping it yeah I might also take it except wait why would Tessa's friend think she's a catboy anyway, the image is very clearly puppy-coded
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Hmmm lies said: Uh maybe write a really heartfelt poem about liking women? Idk. then have everyone assume I'm bi like if painting your nails is "gay" and wanting to wear feminine clothing is "femboy" like what is trans anymore *sigh* 1 minute ago, Honors Ghost said: Ok everything else aside that picture is gorgeus and Iâm kidnapping it Not even the worst thing she could've seen tbh there was like a trans meme right below it and an egg irl above Just now, Hmmm lies said: yeah I might also take it except wait why would Tessa's friend think she's a catboy anyway, the image is very clearly puppy-coded Ok well she thinks I'm like a furry or something Not specifically a cat boy  1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 1 minute ago, Hmmm lies said: yeah I might also take it except wait why would Tessa's friend think she's a catboy anyway, the image is very clearly puppy-coded Literally like get your animals right Just now, Aeoryi said: then have everyone assume I'm bi like if painting your nails is "gay" and wanting to wear feminine clothing is "femboy" like what is trans anymore *sigh* Not even the worst thing she could've seen tbh there was like a trans meme right below it and an egg irl above Ok well she thinks I'm like a furry or something Not specifically a cat boy  Thatâs so real
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Aeoryi said: like if painting your nails is "gay" and wanting to wear feminine clothing is "femboy" like what is trans anymore *sigh* wait but neither of those things are inherently trans, while the former statement is just a stereotype, boys who aren't girls who want to dress fem are literally femboys, a trans girl is a trans girl whether or not she wants to dress fem 1
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Hmmm lies said: wait but neither of those things are inherently trans, while the former statement is just a stereotype, boys who aren't girls who want to dress fem are literally femboys, a trans girl is a trans girl whether or not she wants to dress fem I guess you're right On the plus side my mom did say I could start the process of waiting for five months for HRT (but doesn't think I'm trans because I didn't show the ~signs)Â Â 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Aeoryi said: I guess you're right On the plus side my mom did say I could start the process of waiting for five months for HRT (but doesn't think I'm trans because I didn't show the ~signs)Â Â Wait but that's a huge improvement over the previous timeline, right?Â
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Hmmm lies said: Wait but that's a huge improvement over the previous timeline, right? she wants me to go to counselling to make sure I'm trans which is an issue because she won't believe me when I say I'm trans and likely won't ever
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Aeoryi said: she wants me to go to counselling to make sure I'm trans which is an issue because she won't believe me when I say I'm trans and likely won't ever but maybe she'd believe a counsellor, someone who in her eyes, is more credible?
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 2 minutes ago, Aeoryi said: she wants me to go to counselling to make sure I'm trans which is an issue because she won't believe me when I say I'm trans and likely won't ever *hugs*
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 Just now, Hmmm lies said: but maybe she'd believe a counsellor, someone who in her eyes, is more credible? maybe. but most likely she won't completely and like now everything is in the hands of a third party whether they believe me or not unsure of what'd I'd even do if they say I'm not trans or something 1
Hmmm lies she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 1 minute ago, Aeoryi said: maybe. but most likely she won't completely and like now everything is in the hands of a third party whether they believe me or not unsure of what'd I'd even do if they say I'm not trans or something If they're competent, they'll believe you. At the very least, easier to convince than your mom
Aeoryi she/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 1 hour ago, Hmmm lies said: If they're competent, they'll believe you. At the very least, easier to convince than your mom friends I may be cooked Spoiler  1
Honors Spectral Image She/her Posted February 5 Posted February 5 7 hours ago, Aeoryi said: friends I may be cooked  Hide contents  Ohh noooo
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