First, sorry about the double post.The thing with the safe hand: safepouch, for one thing. Less explicit and quite amusing scenes involving "nudity" - remember Kal's reaction to the prostitute dragged out with Sadeas' officer? He couldn't stop himself from sneaking a peak - at her ungloved safehand.
Anyway, despite it's implications, a safehand isn't all that restricting in most situations - if it's a problem, getting a hand free isn't too hard. Makes me wonder, do the Alethi lighteyes think of gloves like we think of underwear? Ha.