Two things! Both spoilery. Don't know why you're here if you dont want spoilers.
First thing: Dalinar has Taln's blade, yes? Is it not an Honorblade? I'm very confused about this
Second thing: When Hoid makes the joke about women his age, he's almost definitely referring to Nazh or Khryss (whichever of them is female, I think Nazh), not Cultivation. We see their disagreement in several chapter headers.